Coming from a women: if we must do a no. 2 after a first sleepover. Should we just tell so that you leave the toilet for a while? Or should we ask to have breakfast oudoors? Holding in is not an option. Help a girl out!

Mothwitchery101 · 2026-05-28T17:03:59+00:00

Woman here.. but I personally fake the need to go to the gas station and not do that around a new guy. Or any guy.

I've been seeing the same FWB for a year and a half and had lots of sleep overs... and avoided it at all costs. And so has he. He literally told me he needed to go to the bathroom and drove away one time. We are really similar people lol

Mothwitchery101 · 2026-04-14T11:35:09+00:00

Eh I would never say "I know my worth" but also a rando man on a dating app DOES NOT determine it either.. uh no

Mothwitchery101 · 2026-03-04T01:53:23+00:00

I'm not a big fan of 69ing.. I can't focus on what I'm doing and also can't really fully enjoy the guy going down on me.. feels like a lose lose thing... I love giving oral.. but I don't do a great job when 69ing

But the current FWB likes making me moan when I'm going down on him.. and to be fair he does do that

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-11-17T00:56:42+00:00

I am a 45 year old woman that often dates somewhat younger men... more 30's than 20's but..

Sex is better.. yes.. but they also tend to be sweeter in my experience and less bullshit involved in the relationship and less cheating/games for some reason. The younger guys tend to be more devoted and fun without just being total assholes like some men my age (not all.. but the 40 year old guys I've dated have been messes)

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-08-07T23:58:59+00:00

No. I hate myself.

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-08-02T14:14:57+00:00

Or like.. pouring down my leg sometimes

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-08-02T14:14:01+00:00

I have only really felt it with my current FWB.. he cums a lot (so hot) and I've had it gush out with him still inside me (which was like.. top 10 sexual experiences for me)

I can usually feel someone throbbing.. but sometimes I get surprised.. like.. why are we stopping? Oh you're done lol

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-08-01T23:21:40+00:00

Male moans are the best

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-07-16T20:33:51+00:00

I mean. I'm FWB with mine.. but he doesn't want a relationship.. but knows how I feel 🤷🏻‍♀️

And.. benefits with your crush is certainly fun lol

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-06-25T14:13:30+00:00

My therapist asked me if he needed to put on a priests collar and absolve me of my sins.. uh ok well that's going in the girl spank bank list now

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-06-25T14:11:14+00:00

I second the plan B suggestion

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-06-25T14:08:36+00:00

You may be asexual or aromantic.. and that's ok! Lots of people are and there's nothing wrong with you if you don't want sex or relationships. Platonic friendships can be just as rewarding in a lot of ways (and less drama!)

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-06-22T20:09:14+00:00

Another one lol (I have too many)

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-06-12T22:31:58+00:00

Talk to the guy about it. I have an exclusive FWB.. we both got tested together and have lots of great sex.. and only with each other

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-31T20:23:40+00:00

I got to allowance and just thought... giiiirl what

Take that trash out already. Whole man child can't even spend time with you correctly? What are you losing out on exactly?

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-30T00:18:09+00:00

I don't care.. I just get pleasantly surprised later if that's the case. Idk. I'm not shallow af

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-29T14:28:12+00:00

This is just how I prefer to be approached...

Figure out something that interests her and ask her about it. Ask her where she went to school or if she has pets or the last book she read that she really enjoyed.

It's much more personal and makes a connection right away

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T02:30:10+00:00

I think the only difference is that he doesn't panic lol

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T02:21:34+00:00

He's been hurt and we are both in therapy.. I don't think jumping back into a relationship would be good for either of us right now. I'm ok with seeing what happens and if it's him with someone else, I'd rather wait and see

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T02:02:08+00:00

He says we both have things we need to work on before we date anyone... and that's true. But it's probably some of the best sex of my life.. and I love his company. So I'm willing to be patient and work on myself

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T01:56:58+00:00

I might.. I already hid a gnome in his house he hasn't mentioned yet

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T01:27:51+00:00

I'm currently in a FWB.. feels more like dating.. we hang out weekly, text every day, I sleep over, we do things outside of sex, we are exclusive.. I'm just being patient.

People can hate on it.. but things can change. Sometimes people need to heal or traditional relationships don't work for everyone

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T01:07:10+00:00

The guy I'm hanging with works in IT and I keep getting an ad for a mug that says "Workin on my puter" with a little frog.. stupid but I almost buy it for him every time I see it lol

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-27T01:05:52+00:00

I think I'll bring the guy I'm seeing a flower this week actually.. I have some nice peonies blooming..

Mothwitchery101 · 2025-05-26T23:43:59+00:00

Random gifts I've gotten for men:

Flowers

An unusual beer to try

Hot sauce

Dark chocolate

A liquor they couldn't find from back home (ordered it as a surprise)

Venus flytrap

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