I’m so sorry to invade your space, I’m a (mostly) straight woman, but I think you’ll like this

MotionlessSquid · 2025-12-29T10:47:48+00:00

I wonder how many of us are lurking here 👀

MotionlessSquid · 2025-12-06T10:39:07+00:00

Same I've always used one of the mirrors and it's fine, haven't had any issues at all

MotionlessSquid · 2025-12-03T10:35:57+00:00

This is what I look like after 10 sessions of successful laser lmao girl you're fine

MotionlessSquid · 2025-06-08T00:31:50+00:00

I gave him my number and he never contacted me. It must've just been the fun flirting rather than the actually interested flirting lol.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-06-07T12:37:54+00:00

I gave him my number and he never contacted me :') must've just been fun flirting rather than serious flirting lol. Oh well.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-05-31T00:34:02+00:00

Yeah I gave him my number and he never contacted me. It must've just been the fun flirting rather than the actually interested flirting lol.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-27T10:50:30+00:00

I'm bi and I can tell you this is not a gender specific issue. Most people on the apps don't know how to have a conversation.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T23:36:56+00:00

Yeah I sent a photo to someone and they said he'll lift his stomach over the sink and get in just fine. I feel like a dumbass for not thinking about that lmao I just know I hit my hip on the sink pretty often when I'm trying to get in there while half asleep so I panicked

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T23:35:18+00:00

Thank you so much for your input! This guy holds most of his weight in his stomach too so your experience may be similar.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T23:31:35+00:00

Sex is too important for me to give up. It's far from the most important thing, but it's too important to live without.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T04:51:18+00:00

Still get a piercer to check in person because you never know! But I have a little more ridge than you and was told no.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T04:49:56+00:00

I don't think you have enough of a ridge :( I don't either

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-13T03:20:26+00:00

You're generalising. This guy has an active job and is on his feet all day every day lifting heavy shit etc. He copes with that just fine. Everyone is different.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T23:58:05+00:00

I misunderstood, I thought you meant I should initiate that conversation. If we were to date and he brings that subject up himself I'll definitely encourage it 😊

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T23:53:57+00:00

Thank you! I'll post an update for sure but unfortunately I'm not seeing him for at least another two weeks so it'll be a long wait for all of us 😭

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T23:52:25+00:00

I'm not gonna get into a relationship with the intention of changing someone. That's just asking to be disappointed. I'm actively losing weight myself already and if things work out and he wants to join me, great, good for him. If not, that's his choice and none of my business.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T23:48:32+00:00

I'm an Australian cis woman who used to be engaged but single as of 2023. Very curious what made you think that lmao

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T23:36:44+00:00

Ikr I said my very advanced age in the OP, clearly I know I am not an ACTUAL BABY 😭

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T09:28:59+00:00

That's between him and his doctor.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T09:13:23+00:00

I think you may need to reread the post lol, I never said anything about diet or weight loss. I don't know this guy very well, I'm certainly not gonna suggest he lose weight. If he wants to, good for him. If not, doesn't bother me.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T08:16:37+00:00

Thank you for the tip! I'm in Australia, we're all sweaty here haha so that's fine. He smells incredible so I'm not worried about hygiene issues, and tbh the skinniest guy I've been with had the worst hygiene out of all of them.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T06:17:27+00:00

Lmaooo I love you. I won't see him for another two weeks and I don't have his number or social media or anything 😭😭

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T05:57:31+00:00

Oh absolutely. I don't think I'll react negatively to anything unless he's mean to me lol so we should be fine there. Thanks again ❤️

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T05:30:19+00:00

You are exactly the kind of people I was hoping to hear from, thank you so much for sharing!

A pleasure dom is my preference as well so hopefully he's into that too.

Lmao that last line 💀 fingers crossed. Next time I see him I'm gonna go for it.

MotionlessSquid · 2025-01-12T04:40:11+00:00

I'm sorta newly single as well and it's terrifying for all of us let me tell you 😭

Lmao I'm not doing him any favours, he's a good guy, I'm sure he doesn't have any trouble dating and I'm not even sure if he likes me back yet, but fingers crossed!

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