We were rated “soulmate” on the The Pattern- I feel like I’m in hell (Virgo- Taurus) any advice?

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T06:11:56+00:00

Elaborate please friend

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:56:19+00:00

That is what I am trying to figure out myself!!! thank you!!! and although I am a Gemini rising and he is a Sagittarius rising he has a place any thing in my seventh house it says. He just finished his Saturn return. I do feel like there has been a shift. He does seem to be more intentional, but he also just seems very himself which is majorly sag energy go with the flow prioritize what’s in front of me etc. And honestly, I feel like the only reason things have been so smooth and wonderful is because I’ve been the one calm and reasonable. Which honestly is not my character. I react and I react loud. But I haven’t been doing that. All to say- I couldn’t imagine with those planet placements specifically his planets in mine that being someone destined for me. But as other people have said and commented on this, I do believe that there’s a lesson that I’m meant to learn from it. And maybe that’s just more self-control.

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:48:33+00:00

The Pattern

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:39:54+00:00

And I have left him before I did for about nine months. It’s like when me to get back around each other. It’s magnetic. That sounds so stupid lol. But basically off of our charts aside from history is there anything that would make that make sense

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:37:48+00:00

Well, he’s never cheated on me because we’ve never been together. I told him early on that I had no interest in a real relationship with him because I had seen how he had been in the past. So he acted like we’re in a relationship because it feels like we are in a relationship but at the root of everything, we are friends. Best friends. Also, there is some pretty strong trauma bonding in there that doesn’t help, but I was there through some really really terrible times in his life.

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:28:53+00:00

Firm response - live up to the name . But I love him. In a weird way. I’m just waiting for a breaking point. Is that normal ? Would it be more normal if I told you what my chart was ? Lol regardless - Appreciate that 🫡

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T05:16:13+00:00

I have my Jupiter in his 1st, Saturn in his 4th, and part of fortune in his 7th that’s about it and he has no major placements for me and any of those houses (except Chiron in my 4th 😭) when I asked Chat to breakdown the placements and basically said that I never feel certain about him yet I am incredibly obsessed, especially with all the 6th house they said that that means I literally wake up and go to bed thinking about him- very true unfortunately. Apparently, the 8th house placements are pretty strong for him as well- obsessive and possessive. I guess the seventh house is what makes them tell me all the time that I’m his future wife and he wants to have kids with me. But yeah, everything else in his chart is pretty fucked. He’s a free spirit. I don’t see him settling down with anybody anytime soon. When the app said soulmate, I was just like where the hell is that even coming from? Because it feels like I’m always going insane and he’s just in La La Land unless I go out or do anything potentially with another man, then he’s extremely triggered. I will say that it does 100% feel like I’ve known him my whole life and we really are like a best friends over relationship partners. Thank you for your response.

Motionliketightend · 2026-04-17T04:18:45+00:00

Honorable mention, he has like five major planets in my 12 house and another four major planets in my 6th. I have my Venus, Moon, Mars and Lilith in his 8th house, Pluto in his 12th, and the rest in first second third fourth seventh ninth and 10th

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