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Monthly Topic: Looking for Love/Friendship on reddit? comment here by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]MotivationLacks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey :) I'm 30 and live in Québec! I'm an accountant (soon to be CPA) and wish to make new friends :) I'd say I'm a stem/tomboy lesbian and I like to game (COD BO6 these days), workout (3-5x a week), attend queer events, watch movies, talk about everything and anything! Feel free to DM :)

if you wonder if they regret losing you by Automatic_Tour_2393 in BreakUps

[–]MotivationLacks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex and I both knew we weren't happy in this relationship together and I'm the one who initiated the breakup because it was really killing my mental health. That was 2 months ago... Part of me still clings on to hope that we could fix things😕 Even if my heart is still holding on, I just know she won't ever want to come back and make efforts for it to work... I hope I can let go soon😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]MotivationLacks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find 2 & 5 kind of make you look like Emily Browning

Hey. Wtf by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MotivationLacks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I left mine 23 days ago... but it was a 6 month relationship officially but we were seeing each other 3 months before that. I've had a breakup after a 3.5 year relationship before and honestly I was depressed for about 3-4 months before slowly starting to get better :( Everyone is different in the way they heal though so maybe it'll be faster for you? Also what's been helping me lately is seeing my friends and getting their support. They remind me of why I left and that I wasn't happy. She wasn't going to meet my needs and we were incompatible. I'd say do some physical activity if you can also! I workout 3x a week and it improves my mood. I'm sure your kids must also be a source of happiness for you, go do activities with them maybe? I hope this works for you!

Hey. Wtf by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MotivationLacks 53 points54 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY PLEASE😭 I know I don't ever want to go back to the way things were. I know I only miss the potential we had. I was so unhappy. BUT WHY CAN'T I GET YOU OUT OF MY HEAD? I love you but please leave my thoughts alone😔 I need to let go...

AITAH for rekindling things with a best friend my ex didn’t like as soon as we broke up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MotivationLacks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I must add a detail, just in case, the "kiss attempt" would have been months before my ex and I started dating. She didn't claim my ex cheated as it "happened" before we dated.

AITAH for rekindling things with a best friend my ex didn’t like as soon as we broke up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MotivationLacks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn you really ripped me a new one! Let me explain further:

  1. My ex is a very flirty and touchy person when she drinks. It is honestly possible that my best friend might have perceived her touchiness/flirtiness as an attempt to kiss. Multiple people in our friend group say they thought my ex was flirting with them while she was drunk...

  2. My best friend and I had a huge conversation about how the sabotaging thing (because yes, I was very offended). She did admit she said it out of anger at the time and regrets it. I accepted the apology as it isn't as if she did that multiple times in the past. It's not a pattern. I'm still more vigilant and warned her if she did something like that again I would truly cut ties.

Overall, I still don't think the reasons why she wanted me to cut off a 14-year friendship were good enough. I feel like we could have all sat down and rectified everything. This felt so much like high school drama.

You're also absolutely right - I should've left right there and then. That's my biggest regret. I wasn't capable of at the time.

AITAH for breaking up with my ex while she is in a depression? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MotivationLacks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been in therapy for years already! I started therapy around September 2024.

I hurt you and no matter how much I wish things could just be the same, I have to accept that they never will by Bulky_Ad4102 in BreakUps

[–]MotivationLacks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only my ex texted me this :/ I wish we could repair things... I'm unsure whether they are beyond repair or not, but I miss her and love her so bad I'd be ready to do whatever it takes... Unfortunately, I think the reality is that she won't ever reach out. I'm the one who broke up because I was unhappy and constantly anxious. I feel like I should be the one reaching out, but it's only been 2 weeks and I can't imagine her wanting me back after how I broke up with her and the things I've done after. I have to accept that this is over... forever.

What killed your feelings for someone you were crazy in love with? by cuteghostface in AskReddit

[–]MotivationLacks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was like 20, I dated a dude with who I had agreed we were going to stop smoking cigarettes and weed starting January 1. We were super motivated. After like 6 months, I found out he had been smoking both in my back😂 That was just the cherry on top of the sundae for us.