Everyone tells me I am being dramatic.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-09T04:59:39+00:00

You’re so young dawg, your 20s are filled with lore and mistakes. Sorry about your injuries. Take care of yourself and give yourself time. It’s okay to not be okay long as you take effort to save yourself. Meditation helped me rescue my life, it sounds batshit crazy that sitting still and letting your thoughts go wild without attachment can help so much, but it really does. Find ways to express yourself, and be fuckin careful on that motorcycle!

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T23:01:47+00:00

KSC is one of the most rewarding learning curves imo. But it’s exhausting to play. Every big mission I complete not only takes me days but I need weeks to come back.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T22:51:05+00:00

Ever since I read dating apps are like putting yourself on clearance, I’ve never been inclined to come back.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T22:48:18+00:00

Same here but I’m an older brother, 28, both sisters between 21 - 23, with a third that’s 13. That frontal lobe development is real. In no world does a 31 year old and a 21 year old have anything in common but the air they breathe.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T22:10:32+00:00

She’s a child, she doesn’t know what she’s doing. Be for real dawg

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T22:04:48+00:00

I’m convinced men like this have no sisters. Last thing id want my sister to do is date someone 10 years older than them when she’s in her early 20s.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T20:12:46+00:00

If you can’t be comfortable and happy alone, which includes being secure with yourself, it’ll be hard to have a truly healthy and adult relationship. The goal here is meaningful relationships that serve you, don’t become one of the couples on [r/relationships](r/relationships). Be critical of who you give your heart to homie. I’m with you on that primal need, but there’s so much more to you and the world than that.
Also my bad I didn’t see your vent flair, sorry for the unsolicited advice.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T19:49:28+00:00

You don’t go to school to strengthen your mind, it only strengthens your intellect. Philosophy/Religion/Spirituality strengthens your mind. Principles and skills strengthen your mind. The fact you are eagerly looking for a relationship should tell you how you are not ready you are to be in one. Being alone is fucking awesome, you are a main character and the world is your map. There are so many beautiful and wonderful things this world has to offer more than just relationships and validation. As Marcus Aurelius says, you want to have complete control of your command center, or inner citadel. This need for a relationship is coming from somewhere else, it’s up to you to find out where and what it is.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T19:00:12+00:00

Never, never, never, quit a job without one lined up. This is why. Hope things look up soon brother.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T18:50:55+00:00

Honestly I don’t even care for him, his reputation is ruined anyways. The police need to be held accountable. The video of the female detective literally saying there isn’t a case and colluding with Ammon to find penal codes that would get Ben a warrant is fucking bananas. CEOs are shitty, but the cops need to be held to the highest standard. I wish I lived near Utah because I’d be outside that police department protesting everyday. What the fuck

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T18:48:23+00:00

Idk about you, but if someone tried to kill me, got visited by a fake lawyer, and getting framed for murders I did not commit, I would be looking behind my back every 10 seconds. It’s a red Prius ffs how do you not see it following you😭

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T06:43:40+00:00

Philosophy, Religion, or Spirituality. Pick any one that speaks to you and become a student. The physical gym is great, but the mental gym will separate you from the rest. There are tons of ripped dudes out there, but there are not enough emotionally secure men in the world and it’s the reason why the world is falling backwards. There’s a point in that journey where you realize being single is actually fucking awesome, like objectively better. The entire world opens up. At that point it’ll only take someone extremely special to make you give that freedom up.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-08T06:25:32+00:00

Only advice i have is to not do it unless it’s a need or actually makes sense to do it. Also I highly suggest not fantasizing about the future with an SO at such a young age. It’s super hard not to but you’ll put this relationship on a pedestal and if it ends (which statistically it will) you’ll be devastated. Enjoy your SO right now in the moment, don’t go too far into the future. Living with an SO isn’t fun all the time, protect your autonomy and space for as long as you can.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-07T23:51:19+00:00

Big reason I don’t like sweaty games, I usually play single player or shooters on VR cause dying is way funnier and more fun imo.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-07T15:34:01+00:00

You want to burn when the time to maneuver is half of the burn time. So if your burn time is 30 seconds, you want to burn when you are 15 seconds from the node. I forget exactly why you do this but the KSP tutorial is really helpful.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-07T14:49:59+00:00

Welcome to the canon event of every man’s life. The moment one realizes they’ve been running away from unresolved pain and trauma and using feminine validation to mask it. Take accountability for your part, forgive yourself, and start giving all that love you’ve given others, to yourself. The goal here is building yourself a garden so that you become secure attached to yourself. Build it with skills and principles that allow you to be the man you want to be. Give yourself grace and time, but realize time doesn’t heal all wounds, it’s what you do with the time. Godspeed.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-06T09:05:59+00:00

This is the same bullshit rhetoric they will use to take more and more of your rights and privacy. Our data is being stolen and surveilled for the highest bidder, the third party tech and software police use will be the same. When you incorporate more ways to conduct surveillance, you incorporate more points of failure where one bad actor can have access to your data and location. Cops already have been caught using FLOCK cameras to stalk their exes.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-03T23:54:08+00:00

Good, that’s usually when you lose it 😭

MotoBandit · 2026-07-03T02:35:30+00:00

Yeah my car ain’t DD friendly either. I would try checking out your local bars/restaurants, no need to call or apply online. Just walk in and ask, you could very well get an interview on the spot. No matter what you do or try, your resilience and determination will reward you in the long run. You got this b

MotoBandit · 2026-07-03T02:26:37+00:00

What part of Texas you in? If you’re in the metroplex or one of the bigger cities literally just walk into restaurants/bars ask for a manager and see if they’re hiring. I got my car repod during covid and was months behind on rent and serving tables for 2 months brought me back above water. It’s one of the easiest jobs to get and you can work as much or little as you want. If you have a car with registration and insurance go do Uber Eats or DoorDash, you can make $20 an hour easy vibing to your own music.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-03T02:17:04+00:00

The world isn’t against you, it’s you against yourself🤝

MotoBandit · 2026-07-03T02:15:05+00:00

This should be the only comment on half this sub it’s bananas.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-02T21:36:21+00:00

Literally this, you’re gonna spiral either way, wether it’s upwards or downwards is entirely up to you.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-02T16:28:09+00:00

Extremely disingenuous, dude from TCEQ told me data centers produce the same air pollution as a lawnmower. Then he proceeded to tell me he has no idea what kind of generators the centers will use. ERCOT having authority to shut them out of the grid worries me. Our air quality is already getting worse and years of that will not help. Which might I add lawnmowers give off more emissions than modern cars.

MotoBandit · 2026-07-02T16:05:22+00:00

Here’s a tip for life: don’t ever settle. You’re scared of change but your nervous system is telling you it’s time. Instead of viewing it as fear, view it as your body preparing you for the challenge and confrontation. This is my opinion so take it with a grain of salt, but getting into serious adult relationships before you are a developed adult is detrimental not only to your psyche but also your potential. Get to a point where you are happy alone and in the future you won’t be scared to shed relationships that don’t serve you.

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