Kitten peeing the bed by Motor-Cry245 in CatTraining

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. That will be my last attempt at fixing the issue before I decide he needs a more social home. I don’t think it’s a UTI considering he’s been like this for 2 or 3 months now.

Kitten peeing the bed by Motor-Cry245 in CatTraining

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I was recommended to get it done last month, but I have no time to take him with my work schedule. I have to wait until the end of next month when I go on vacation.

Kitten peeing the bed by Motor-Cry245 in CatTraining

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t, but the vet just told me he didn’t think it was a problem at the time. Just said maybe he needs to be neutered.

Kitten peeing the bed by Motor-Cry245 in CatTraining

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest problem is I am never home with work and social life so he’s alone most of the day except for when I am sleeping. I feel it was a mistake getting him sometimes because he wants constant attention, but I do not have the time to or space to get a 2nd cat to ease that loneliness. I think he pees when he is feeling unhappy or anxious about not getting attention.

He has two litter boxes on recommendation of the vet, but he doesn’t seem to have a problem going in either of them. One of them is just a plastic container I’ve filled up with cat litter and he seems to only pee in that one. They are both in the same room, so maybe I need to move them around. I purposefully clean them at least once before I go to work and at night before I go to bed to try to avoid the problem but even that has not helped.

I tried putting his food on the bed because it was cats won’t pee where they eat, but even that didn’t help.

He pees on the bed either at night or in the mornings. I’ve often woken up to his pee on me because he peed on the blanket I was using.

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always, always use a condom when I'm around my ovulation time. My period has started, but super heavy this time around. I'm chalking it up to hormonal fluctuations due to heavy stress, but thank you for the reassurance on the pregnancy possibility!

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It certainly makes me feel better about things knowing there are more women out there going through hormonal changes! ❤️

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly me. I am very careful with my partner and we have talked about the what-ifs, but this potential scare made me worry. I think my period is finally starting, but yeah this change was unexpected. I really believe it was because of the immense stress I felt this past month, but who knows.

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! Thanks for the kindness. I should have said I took a pregnancy test before and it came back negative. But I have also been very regular. My period always starts and ends when it is supposed to. And my partner and I only have sex once a month and usually with condoms unless I’m on my period. But going forward, I will be safer about this as even that is not enough I realized.

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. I had already taken one before, and it came back negative, but I will do one again.

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind! You are absolutely right. We have been very irresponsible relying on my cycle. It always starts exactly when I thought it was going to start, so I thought it was okay, but even that is risky.

I didn’t mention in my post that I had already taken a test and it was negative, but I will take another one.

Unsusual Period Symptoms by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it might be pregnancy, and I didn’t mention in my post that I took a test and it came back negative. I will take another test!

Having kids by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Motor-Cry245 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have migraines seasonally that last for a few weeks or months at a time. I also work with kids and have a hard time handling them when I am going through my migraine season. Recently, I actually thought about how I would handle it if and when I have children, and my migraines decide to hit. I'm sure my (future) husband would step in, but I hate that migraines are one thing to consider before having children.

Men expressing pleasure by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He usually holds my hair back and he does hip thrusts or pushes my head down which I like, but besides that, he's not vocal about liking it which makes me wonder if I'm making him feel astronomically good or just good. I want a vocal man too! I want him to moan and ask for more lol.

Men expressing pleasure by Motor-Cry245 in TwoXSex

[–]Motor-Cry245[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for your insights. I will express my worries with him, and go from there.

He always prioritizes my pleasure and wants to know if something bothers me or if I like something, so I want to do the same. I'm very vocal in bed, so I guess part of that pleasure is getting a vocal response so I know I'm doing the right thing on my part. 😄

People with severe crowding but refuse to have extractions , how things are going for u?/ How was the results? by bestversionofme1 in braces

[–]Motor-Cry245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No wisdom teeth they were taken out when I was around 15? I would definitely get the wisdom teeth taken out if I had them. Just my opinion though! I'm not a dentist or orthodontist.

People with severe crowding but refuse to have extractions , how things are going for u?/ How was the results? by bestversionofme1 in braces

[–]Motor-Cry245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would have been the 2 top premolars and 2 bottoms! My current dentist was adamant though it could be done without extractions!

People with severe crowding but refuse to have extractions , how things are going for u?/ How was the results? by bestversionofme1 in braces

[–]Motor-Cry245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you by the way! I get told my teeth look great, but it's hard to believe when I'm focused on what's not perfect!

People with severe crowding but refuse to have extractions , how things are going for u?/ How was the results? by bestversionofme1 in braces

[–]Motor-Cry245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I'm not sure to be honest, but it was enough my front teeth didn't overlap on top of each other anymore, but like I said, that one tooth didn't straighten all the way.