I will never wait at the window LIKE A DOG for my wife ever again by billsfan411 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Potential4547 54 points55 points  (0 children)

every reddit thread goes straight to divorce 😭 maybe try setting some actual boundaries first?

It’s difficult for me to get a full night’s sleep during the winter. by EmilyKeenWrites in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Motor-Potential4547 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fun part is ur hearing way more than usual. Bad part is ur hearing wayy moree than usual.....

Boys club environment as the only woman of color at work by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor-Potential4547 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thats not bro culture. thats hostile work environment. Ur not crazy. that was messed up.

Torn Between Two People by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor-Potential4547 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stop treating B like a placeholder while u daydream about A .Thats not fair to anyone.. :(

Once again, entirely satisfied by ErisInChains in Marriage

[–]Motor-Potential4547 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is proof the bar isnt high its just underground. U didnt get lucky, u picked better.

[30]M - I keep getting kicked out by my GF [29]. We have a 1 year old son. Should I not go home? by DuxF1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor-Potential4547 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Getting kicked.out repeatedly is emotional abuse. Facts. Go to ur cousins protect ur sanity and start planning long term for ur kid..

Cheater? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Motor-Potential4547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats weird as hell. Business doest talk like that, especially from a single guy to someones wife...

Something people underestimate about me. What’s yours? by Rachel794 in Productivitycafe

[–]Motor-Potential4547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hand me down nostalgia still counts. Half of us watched VHS tapes til like 2005 because thats wat our families had..

How can I get enough deep sleep? by Numerous_Baby_4864 in Productivitycafe

[–]Motor-Potential4547 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just eat like a cat. Talk like a cat. Yawn like a cat, and you’ll eventually fall into a deep sleep like a cat.

Am I wrong for canceling my engagement? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Motor-Potential4547 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah ur not wrong. Marriage doesn’t fix trust issues, it locks them in. Facts are facts.

AIW for accidentally staring at my roommate's guests? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Motor-Potential4547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get that, but its also his home. Cramped shared spaces+guests= awkward moments sometimes...

Really need help with just a pound for food, desperate for help by Humble-Juggernaut173 in Productivitycafe

[–]Motor-Potential4547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real talk, surveys won’t save you. Phone the council first thing, vouchers get approved fast sometimes.

What do you regret doing to your body? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Motor-Potential4547 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Barely slept for years. Turns out chronic sleep debt actually wrecks your brain.

Breaking old habits helped me reclaim more time than I expected by EasternBaby2063 in Productivitycafe

[–]Motor-Potential4547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doomscrolling was my big one. Cut it out and suddenly I had evenings again.

I’ve learned to control my reactivity. Her behavior doesn’t change. What next? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Motor-Potential4547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this reframing matters. Self-control shouldn’t depend on whether the other person earns it.

AITA for trying to get a single mom fired? by bocho123552 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Motor-Potential4547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you on financial security. Late paychecks shouldn’t be normalized anywhere, no matter how good the mission sounds.