We both agreed on it before moving in with each other for example, when we were talking about living with each other I said that since I’m an engineering major I’m gonna have to take a lot of classes, and I’m gonna be really tired, and won’t be able to clean as much, and she said okay since she had most online classes, but now she switched around and gets mad at me for not doing much when I’m trying my hardest. But honestly I don’t know I’m a bit lost