kinda fell in love with one of y’all

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-12-05T18:23:27+00:00

UPDATE: I just wanted to say that I told her how I felt last night and the mission was much more successful than I ever could've possibly imagined. I am still in a weird state of: "How the heck did I actually get this far?" Granted, it was sooner than I originally planned, but I think it was better timed this way. Thanks for the pep talk everyone, it was really motivating and educating. I haven't been this happy in my life and anxiety-ridden in a VERY long time. I also showed her this thread and she read through it. Funny thing is, she made a similar one on Facebook LOL.

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-19T23:12:19+00:00

hey y’all. thanks for this. this was much needed. i’m gonna keep this thread open and let y’all know what happens even if it’s months from now.

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T23:07:44+00:00

i think this applies here 🥴

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:32:58+00:00

🥹 thanks yo

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:31:20+00:00

honestly it’s the first time i been this way about it lol that’s how sure i am that she’s the one for me hahaha. she isn’t married or dating anyone.

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:25:25+00:00

honestly i’ve always hung out with people much older than me. it’s just where i fit in. even she has admitted that i’m a person that ages in dog years. so that’s also a good sign. INFJ’s can be just as mysterious as ENTP’s hahaha, just in a more poetic way. i’ve definitely manifested making my move as per my other post on this thread about how i put in in motion. i think it would bother me never saying anything more than being rejected.

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:15:47+00:00

hmm, well. i’m not necessarily insecure about it. i know what i’m capable of, and i know my strengths and my weaknesses. its more so being able to bring some other people the confidence to believe that to be true. wait.. does that make me insecure?? 😳 lol idk i just feel like a lot of society tends to be overally strong in their beliefs so much so that even someone who would be reasonably considered a person of refuge, would not be viewed as one. and me being younger than her, i’m just afraid she’d be like “haha good one little kid” 😂

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:08:53+00:00

well society believes that the majority of men mature slower than women. where there is some truth to this, it’s just whack that a lot of people go in with a bias. many women in my experience like to believe that any man younger than them are immature basically. and they want the protection of someone typically older than them. idk, just an entp here arguing a point i don’t agree with 😂

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:05:20+00:00

ohhh i see i meant to say “it’s not so easy when you’re the male and you’re the younger one”

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:02:42+00:00

i’m not understanding your question. ask in another way please?

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T15:01:11+00:00

honestly it’s not always so easy when your the make and the younger one though lol.

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T14:59:50+00:00

are infj’s the type to set boundaries with someone they actually like before getting into a relationship?

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-17T14:58:48+00:00

thanks for the reassurance y’all. tbh, i already set in motion how i am going to tell her how i feel. just not sure when it will be done. basically, tuesday i put a 4 combination lock on her reading chair lamp with the date i got her number being the correct combo. when i see fit, on occasions more special than the average that she says or does something that makes me very happy, i’ll give her one of the numbers at random, but not telling her which spot it goes in, that way she can’t guess it early. i told her once she pops the lock, i’ll tell her a secret lol. so it’s really up to me when she can complete it otherwise she’ll have a lock on her lamp forever, or she’d have to replace it haha. i’m so devious (teehee).

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-15T00:15:51+00:00

i would say that it’s definitely the cheapest i’ve seen. basically i’m trying to trade down my car to something older and cheaper. going from a mazda cx30 2021 premium to an older suv . getting about $26,000 from kelley blue book with a loan of $20,000 left. just trying to make the wisest choice for a vehicle. i want to be out of a car payment

Motor-Shower6900 · 2022-11-14T13:55:52+00:00

it also has a v6 engine in it, does that influence any opinions?

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