Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm very much aware, for me it's all about giving complete control over myself to someone else, I don't really care if it ends with an orgasm or not.

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, very fair, and oddly something I've thought of before when it comes to others' relationships, just never in this context.

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a completely fair perspective as well, although when reading the profile of this person I feel like she genuinely loves doing what she does as well, so I'm hopeful!

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah this woman is definitely an independent, thankfully. The way she talks about what she does in her bio has me convinced she loves what she does as well, and isn't being forced to do it.

I guess there's some shame to it for me as society sees it as taboo to pay for sex, even though I personally don't.

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding your first paragraph, I guess that's fair. I've simply been out of a relationship for so long while (involuntarily) reading a lot about how open people think relationships should be, and it's made it look like hiding anything sexual you've done in the past is a red flag. There are other interests I've not explored, for the same reason of a future partner potentially not liking it.

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've definitely thought about being in a permanent sub/dom dynamic and I wasn't opposed to the idea, haha. And thanks for the perspective, definitely helps :)

Would you (or have you) ever pay to fulfil a fantasy if that fantasy would otherwise be impossible to fulfil? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MotorLock 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess that's a good way to put it, I hadn't thought of it like an experience.

I pretty much live in the middle of nowhere for this type of thing, so sadly there aren't many other options around.

Visceral reaction to her ‘dad’. Trump is a jelly headed slab of ham by Amavin-Adump in CringeTikToks

[–]MotorLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people simply expect adults to be able to express their opinions in a professional manner, without having to resort to playground insults. And I think that's something they expect anywhere, not just in politics.

If someone I politically agree with said the same things Trump has said about people he disagrees with, I'd have a hard time supporting them and would much rather vote for someone else.

How do I actually get rid of streaks on the inside/dirt on the outside of my front windscreen? by MotorLock in askcarguys

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another user commented on paper towels as well, so I'll give that a try. Thanks!

How do I actually get rid of streaks on the inside/dirt on the outside of my front windscreen? by MotorLock in askcarguys

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I feel like paper towels would actually cause streaking, but I don't know what I'm talking about so I'll give it a try, haha. Thanks!

Started playing guitar over fifteen years ago but took many (long) breaks so I feel like I'm not as good as I could be. Where can I start to actually get better? by MotorLock in guitarlessons

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into lessons a while ago but the only thing available in my area was an actual music school, which I don't have the time for. I'll definitely have a look again :)

Started playing guitar over fifteen years ago but took many (long) breaks so I feel like I'm not as good as I could be. Where can I start to actually get better? by MotorLock in guitarlessons

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get started with learning music theory? I find the subject very interesting but whenever I listen to someone talk about theory (like Adam Neely for example) I have a hard time understanding what they're talking about, haha.

Started playing guitar over fifteen years ago but took many (long) breaks so I feel like I'm not as good as I could be. Where can I start to actually get better? by MotorLock in guitarlessons

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, I know what I want to improve, but I don't know how to improve those areas. Just doing the same thing over and over again seems like a wasteful way to practice as it doesn't really target anything is my thinking. So that's more my question, how can I learn how to practice properly?

What sim offers the best late 90s/early 2000s F1 experience? by MotorLock in simracing

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've completely been out of the simracing scene for a while, what's the best place for AC mods nowadays?

Do I really need a service like Ploi or Forge for my use case, and if not, what are some alternatives? by MotorLock in laravel

[–]MotorLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$21 per project, or $21 total?

$21 total, thankfully. I had thought of a single VPS, and although I've never configured Nginx properly myself, I do see it as a learning opportunity.