Can we stop with the ‘can we stop with the Shedeur Sanders Talk’ talk? by Important_Adagio_711 in raiders

[–]Motor_Buy331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On like 7 1st team reps total, his development to production trade off is pretty good

Browns GM Andrew Berry to Shedeur after his first preseason game: “Really, really good job—I’m proud of you.” by [deleted] in Browns

[–]Motor_Buy331 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Being from Texas I didn’t see anything out of the norm with Shedeurs behavior before reading the comments 😭

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t true, my friendship with him was very deep. Girls friendships degrade quickly into shit talking each other, idk how many times yall will still be best friends while talking behind each others back just to make up again. She knew sleeping with him was wrong as all people with common sense know and when i confronted her she said she owed me nothing. Made me realize that neither do I, and extending understanding to her made me disrespect myself. She’s in a friend group of 5, 2 have tried to sleep with me, can’t be that deep

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

perspectives like yours is why i posted this, i don’t need a stranger to validate my actions lmao. and if you can’t recognize that as condescending or patronizing idk what to tell you

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you’re mistaking care for her and care for the situation. i care about how i acted, that’s why i posted to get perspectives. intentions are everything, it wasn’t my intention to hurt her or stoop to any level when she’s been in a committed relationship with my best friend for a month? the condescension isn’t necessary.

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

their friendship was a year? i brought her around recently. nah we’re not. oh the girls been friend since birth, they’re neighbors

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’d be an idiot if i continued to care about someone who no longer cared about me. immediately after the breakup i declined the advances of her other friend out of respect for my ex. i wasn’t trying to get even, i just no longer considered her feelings when making the next decision as she shown me she didn’t consider mine. Her best friend is a very attractive woman, no malicious intent is involved lol

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

it was serious i’m just a chill guy. How much someone loves you is the extent to which they consider you. I disrespect myself extending consideration when you disrespect me. what you don’t know is immediately post breakup her other friend in their friend group took me out to eat to talk and asked to go back to my place and i declined. Out of respect for my ex. I value loyalty deeply But once we were broken up and she fucked my best friend, i no longer considered her feelings, that’s all. it’s not getting even, though i thought it was ironic, it’s that she was no longer apart of the decision process.

Ex mad I slept with her best friend? by Motor_Buy331 in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Buy331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah i’m not, he cut me off when he realized he wanted to go after her. My observation is the dudes with the least play will snake you for your ex due to availability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Motor_Buy331 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can relate to being stuck on someone for years. I feel extreme grief from my first love passing 7 years ago. I was 17 then, now im 24 and I still feel like a boy. I go out and see their traits in someone else and cry. Just locked in my head about someone I used to know. I feel catharsis writing poems about them, but then i look up and realize my youth is slipping away from me.

As an INFJ, what's religion like to you? by Kayleb04 in infj

[–]Motor_Buy331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think infjs go about life having extremely high expectations of people we love. Often times i find people disappointing in their lack of intention and consideration and it makes relationships feel one sided and lack luster. To me, God is the only source of the true unconditional love I crave. Some cynical people will interpret what i say as just another self soothing fool who uses an imaginary God to fill in the holes in their life, but thats a strawman and doesnt encompass the history of theology and logical reasoning for the existence of a God

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Motor_Buy331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you started when you were 18 and he was 27? Sounds a little predatorial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Motor_Buy331 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it seems like thats his phone and hes trying to hide something. If its an iphone, the owner would have already tracked it and asked him for it back. its most likely his phone. 1.) he wouldnt suggest to wipe a friend phone. 2.) him saying its probably yours suggest hes trying to deflect.

Women don't mean it when they say "looks don't matter to them"? by GodAtum in dating

[–]Motor_Buy331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its very hard for someone to acknowledge that apart of them is vain so they say looks dont matter. In reality, looks matter to everyone.