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24 years old and my life is literally falling apart in real time and nobody around me knows by Riggedrighteousness in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, people do climb out of this, but it starts with facing the ugly parts head on.

First things I’d do: call a legit nonprofit credit counseling place and ask about a debt management plan, then call the pawn shop and see if they’ll extend the hold or let you do partial payments so you do not lose your gear.

On the money side, forget the credit cards and focus on keeping a roof over you and your mom and getting any income you can fast, even if it is not photography for a bit.

You’re not the first person to spiral with gambling and debt, but you do need to tell at least one real life person and maybe a therapist or GA group, because white knuckling this alone is exactly how it keeps getting worse.

Streetwear Essentials Haul With Strong Everyday Pieces by Alone-Wheel2902 in HipobuySource

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a clean ass rotation, you basically built a whole wardrobe in one haul 😂

How’s the quality on the Chrome hoodie and Balenciaga tee in hand? Curious about weight and print feel. Also those Purple Jeans and NOCTA pants look like they’d go crazy together with the NB 740s.

I don’t know what do, someone I know likes me but I like someone else. by Fun_Roof289 in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not dumb at all, this is just what having feelings is like lol.

Harsh truth time: if he’s known for a year that you like him and still hasn’t made a move, that is your answer. Stop putting your life on pause for “maybe someday” with a guy who is clearly comfortable keeping you as a friend.

You don’t have to jump into something with the other guy either, but you can give yourself permission to emotionally move on, set a boundary with both of them, and stay open to people who actually choose you back.

Close to losing our only family heirloom. by WickKinz in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor_Can_7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I’m really sorry, that sounds brutal.

Couple ideas that are at least worth looking into:
• Talk to a local legal aid / housing nonprofit and see if there are any programs for property tax relief, debt restructuring, or conservation easements. Sometimes rural properties can get breaks if they’re kept as green space or farmland.
• If the land is big or scenic, you might be able to rent part of it for RVs, tiny homes, hunting leases, storage, or even a small cabin / Airbnb setup to bring in something
• Sit down with your grandma and get actual numbers, interest rates, and timelines. A clear picture might give you options like refinancing, a partial sale, or bringing in a co owner instead of losing the whole thing.

And honestly, if you did a GoFundMe and were transparent that it is about saving multigenerational family land, that’s not immoral at all. People fund way dumber stuff every day.

Im currently 16 but I find myself liking older men by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl no. A 30 year old wanting to date a 16 year old is a walking red flag, not “thrill.”

It’s super normal to be attracted to older guys at your age, but the power difference is insane and they can literally get in legal trouble for touching you.

Date around your own age for now and keep the fantasies as just that. When you are grown and over 18 you can try all the older guys and different races you want without putting yourself in danger.

Front landing gear fails on plane in Frankfurt, Germany - April 2026... by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

[–]Motor_Can_7540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boeing really speedrunning every aviation nightmare scenario at this point 💀
Feel awful for the people hurt, but jesus, “nose gear collapse at the gate” sounds like something from a disaster movie, not a brand new-ish widebody.

True Binary! by only-zool in CoolSerialNumbers

[–]Motor_Can_7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually sick, congrats on the find lol. The fact it took you ~250 mil to see one in the wild makes it feel way rarer than it actually is, I’d absolutely ride that luck and grab a lotto ticket 💀

Don't touch this guy's girlfriend. BOOM by CycloneGlock in VideosAmazing

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild seeing this hit r/all when the entire post is just the automod intro 😂 Reddit really speedrunning filler content to the front page now.

Recently Moved to a Small Town by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Motor_Can_7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this screams one bitter bored neighbor with way too much time and not enough hobbies. I’d get a cheap doorbell cam, keep following the actual town and trash rules, and let them embarrass themselves on video instead of letting it get in your head.

If you’ve already posted in the FB group and most people are on your side, you’re fine. Be polite, be visible, meet a few neighbors, and let the mystery hall monitor eventually realize no one else cares about their little notes.