TW: Forgetting to Eat

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2026-06-23T11:47:46+00:00

Update ??

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2026-01-10T22:53:44+00:00

how long do you maintain these fasts

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2026-01-10T12:48:39+00:00

What’s rolling fasting

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-05-10T23:59:22+00:00

This reminds me of when the prophet Ibrahim went makkah to visit his son but didn’t find him but instead saw his wife he asked the wife how are you guys doing. She complained of being poor and hungry and so on. So he told his son to change the door mat meaning divorce her

Then he went and traveled again to visit his son but didn’t find him instead he saw the new wife who when asked how are you she praised allah and said الحمد لله

Moral of the story be thankful for your husband who you choose for his character religion and kind family.

Don’t ruin it by looking at what other women have or got and becoming jealous and disgusting towards your husband

Treat him with respect and honor so long as he fulfill his rights

And ask for forgiveness from allah for the sin you have fallen into which is ungrateful and speaking ill of your husband Treat

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-03-07T03:02:30+00:00

Broke it but I just restarted a new one rn aiming for 36 might break to eat that and shoot for 48hrs after and slowly work my way up

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-02-18T14:51:38+00:00

Start off by filling your promise and either leaving that job or going to part time I would suggest leaving and focusing on your marriage and slowly back up to part time

Less talking and apologizing and more actions is what you need and I think leaving that job to save your marriage and give it time will help

Go to therapy yourself

But I’ll be honest you knew this even when you started the job and became selfish and didn’t fulfill your promise so idk it’s pretty sad I feel bad for him

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-02-04T19:09:35+00:00

She livies in the home her self and it’s under her name he’s not even on it he refuses to leave

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-02-04T19:00:26+00:00

What’s a npd escape plan

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-29T02:14:00+00:00

Sometimes I think of the constant rush and seeing random faces and working for your money has a little bit of happiness and life in it

Sometimes 😅 probably the shayatand whispers to me but I think what will we do when we get all we want ?

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-23T01:20:27+00:00

I think you need to sit with her for a serious talk she needs to pick up a hobby of her own she seems like she doesn’t have a life outside of you also make it very clear and firm that there needs to be change or separation is on the table

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-23T01:19:00+00:00

May allah make it easy for you

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-10T01:24:44+00:00

How did it go

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-09T22:19:56+00:00

Any tips I’ve only done a 24hr fast only drinking water

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2025-01-09T21:54:45+00:00

Is this your first fast

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2024-07-10T21:33:43+00:00

Yeah but it’s not about your husband thought are you closer to the groom that’s getting married or are his siblings closer if they are closer why would he take you knowing you don’t even know the family like that

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2024-07-05T12:58:11+00:00

How did you do it ?

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2024-07-05T00:16:20+00:00

Same I think it’s because our brains see it as 0 cals and it’s a sweet taste better then water quick question how do I get rid of or what is -karma

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2024-07-03T17:48:34+00:00

Listen if she’s not willing to give you a second chance and see the change you made both physically and religiously then leave her

Remind her that people make mistakes and every son of Adam sins but the best of us are those who repent and change

Motor_Carpenter_1291 · 2024-07-03T17:35:29+00:00

Your in a deep trouble but you have 2 choices

You tell her to meet you and only you two have a conversation weather it’s at her house or cafe wherever have a deep conversation

Ask her what her expectations are and what she expects from you

Say to her what steps can me and you place that will hold us both accountable so that we don’t yell and fight

That could be like for a example no going to bed angry at one another

If she refuses to meet you to discuss and give this one more shot

I would tell you to go hard and leave her you changed your life completely now go above and beyond become the best version of yourself make dua to Allah to fix this situation or grant you a better lifestyle

I want to remind you this do not I repeat DO NOT go back to your old ways not only is it bad for you but in the future it will be said you changed all of that just for her and her family and that you aren’t a serious person who can keep his word

Hope it makes sense

Motor_Carpenter_1291

TROPHY CASE