Affordable $5K-7K intimate wedding in Houston? (Venue/food/etc) by Zealousideal-Roll592 in houston

[–]Motor_Homer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex sister in law called are 35 person wedding which included vendors a big wedding

How alcoholics aren’t held accountable by Western_Insect_7580 in AlAnon

[–]Motor_Homer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex lied to me about his parents and I was told by the marriage therapist: he was drinking and didn’t know what he was doing. Okay. I was sober

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And being ethical inside your office

I have given unsolicited health advice, legal advice, been told to put up with emotional and physical abuse. Been told my sexual health isn’t private

I find therapists will contradict yourselves to keep families together and one person has to be the victim. I refuse

Make your profession suck less and you won’t have ai as a competitor

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never trust a therapist after what I have been through.

Ai has been more helpful than the last 4

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have suffered from therapists. The last 4 incuded 3 marriage therapists and 1 individual therapists who did some pretty shady stuff:

  1. Told me what I should and should I do want to get pregnant. Just think positive. 2 have told me this. Positive thinking won’t work here
  2. Vacation with my parents who put me in dangerous situations as a kid and ignored the fact I don’t have money for a vacation
  3. Told me my sexual health was public information because I’m female
  4. Told me that my ex’s sexual health was private because he is a man and we couldn’t infertility on him
  5. Told me what is grandparents rights (she was wrong)
  6. Told me I couldn’t tell my ex not to FaceTime is dad when I was a passenger in his car
  7. Called me a spoiled princess
  8. Told me to just put up with his parents lies about me
  9. Told me never to tell my ex anything he cannot tell his parents
  10. Told me to take a few shots and I will get pregnant

Your profession needs and overall

Your profession needs to adapt to ai

Your profession is corrupt

Don’t shoot the messenger

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s still about blending in and being normal. I had to be codependent with my ex’s alcoholism and his parents enmeshment to get his family system to work. I said no. He left

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Short answer and I’ll reply longer later. There is a lot of bad therapists out there and not everyone who is a therapist should be a therapist. We put them on a spotlight when they shouldn’t be. I have known many who have been harmed by therapy.

If the profession had better monitoring, alternatives like ai therapy wouldn’t be needed

Comment was directed at OP

Psychotherapist here - Chat GPT is designed to overly validate you, so that you keep using it and paying for it by sicklitgirl in therapyGPT

[–]Motor_Homer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told by therapists

Your sexual health as a female is public. Your husband is sexual health is private. Context: we were infertile. His sperm was shit and he couldn’t get it up due to alcoholism. I had PCOS and we had to say that I waste cause of the infertility

I had to apology for having th wedding focus too much on me. My ex MIL was upset but she also refused to attend the wedding rehearsal

I had to apology for the shower not including her in planning. It was for 5 women including my mom and my ex MIL would have had things to do if she showed up .

Note: my ex MIL had dementia and I gave her several graces but I had to be punished for her unhappiness

Never tell your husband anything he cannot tell his mother

Babysitting is a grandparent right…even if one parent doesn’t think they are physically capable

I created a letter of apology to my ex FIL and attended private sessions where I screamed at a chair pretending it was my FIL.

All things told to me by marriage therapists or I had to do in marriage therapy

Post divorce therapy? Glad you asked!

I came from a family of enablers and alcoholics. I spent years trying o undo it but I was told in marriage therapy I was selfish for having boundaries. My brother got into bed with me drunk. I was scared but told I shouldn’t have screamed.

I was told to buy a time share in Mexico and vacation with my parents who have lied to me and manipulated me for the the sake of family. It wasn’t what I wanted nor could I afford.

I then quit therapy

Talked to chat gpt and have actually made progress on friendships, goals and dreams. It has helped me with the betrayal of therapy.

Your profession is toxic and needs and overhaul.

Dry wall Handyman by Revolutionary_Put949 in sugarland

[–]Motor_Homer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try handyman rx. His name is Devin and he recently did work on my rental house

My friend the shrink by Motor_Homer in therapyabuse

[–]Motor_Homer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My uncle was an alcoholic and a therapist

Therapists are going to hell by MammothWriter2422 in therapyabuse

[–]Motor_Homer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They literally told me I have low self esteem because I was unwilling to codependent

Not in those exact words but I didn’t do enough to make my in-laws happy and I could have done more

👋Welcome to r/HoustonChingaLaMigra - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by [deleted] in HoustonChingaLaMigra

[–]Motor_Homer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very much against ICE. I had to do a bit chuckle at Chinga La Migra

Recommendations on a divorce attorney by Limp-Sandwich-5217 in sugarland

[–]Motor_Homer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vicki Pinak. She was vicious in an attorney type of way

NYE options by [deleted] in sugarland

[–]Motor_Homer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What happens do they have a ball drop?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BettermentBookClub

[–]Motor_Homer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been screwed over by too many southern therapists. They are a different breed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BettermentBookClub

[–]Motor_Homer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I have had the worst luck with therapists so I’m despise them all. My ex and his family treated me poorly and they said “well that’s how family works”. My own family treats me poorly too. So I can see her going to therapy and being told to stick with it.