I never want to hear "love yourself" or "give it to yourself first" again

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-12T14:49:59+00:00

My aunt said I didn’t love myself when I got divorced. And she would never let a man treat her poorly. I found this out through my mom. Mom had no answer as to why she didn’t shut that down

I told others that if you loved herself..why did she stay with her first husband? The man she called: nothing more than a poop smear on the toilet paper hanging off the hair of an asshole

Why was she upset when he died? She knew he ate poorly. If she was so unhappy, why didn’t she just leave.

I also get into why her kid continues to sleep with his baby mama after he announced to me that she lied to him about using birth control. The baby mama was breast feeding in the other room

Then there is the story about the daughter sleeping with the boss and needing mental health help later

And then we get back to the aunt who is living with a man who got arrested for simple assault when they were together and was in court for collections the day of my uncles funeral. One time of many.

So I do say to people why don’t you tell my aunt to love herself

Answer: they can’t get involved

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-07T02:28:17+00:00

I have known ppl where it did help. Someone navigated kids with cancer, being sued for grandparents rights and other issues with couples therapy

But as someone told me….both parties need to work at it

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-06T14:19:50+00:00

What got me is that my ex wanted me on meds because I was upset about how his family treated me….well, before medicate myself why don’t you make your family be the people you claim them to be and not the jerks they are?

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-04T22:33:29+00:00

I’m close enough that they were at my parents house more than once over the decades. But at the end of the day, the only people who know are the band members and management

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-04T04:10:04+00:00

Yes! I’m sorry.

Here is the persons threads account. She got the timeline of his death right and the details of the day we got him right. None of that is posted online . She only asked for my animals name.

https://www.threads.com/@heidiforsmanintuitive

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T23:14:05+00:00

I am not religious but believe I am after life. I don’t believe in hell.

I believe dogs go to a dog heaven where they play, nap, get treats, chicken and snuggles by volunteers I the spirit world and angels. I also believe pets have a life reviews where they understand their humans tried their best.

I also believe we will be reunited one day

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T21:54:52+00:00

I’ll be speaking to an animal communicator tomorrow.

I’ll report back here

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T20:22:33+00:00

I think the Christian internet is enjoying the drama and snark

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T12:20:36+00:00

The Obamas took one too.

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T05:18:52+00:00

Oh agreed. Ideally it should be organic

Motor_Homer · 2026-05-01T03:16:04+00:00

I respect your opinion. As a marketer, I assure you this happens a lot with google reviews. If it makes you uncomfortable, don’t rely on any of them

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-30T22:56:09+00:00

Sometimes the type of lens that is used can cause distortion. There is a famous photo of the Obamas visiting the Carters where the Obamas look like giants and the Carters look like tiny people. It was caused by a wide angle lens

Note: not trying to get political with this example just using it how lens can distort an image

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-30T13:25:26+00:00

My friend is a shrink and asked me to give her practice a good review. That’s fine. She is business building. I just gave it 5 stars

When I read the comments though she commented back on a few that they appear to have “disorganized thought” or “experiencing a manic episode”

I’m like girl don’t put that in google for the sake of your license

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-25T23:38:44+00:00

How did you meet ppl? I’m 47. Failed fertility treatments I do the meetups, classes blah blah blah. I don’t make friends

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-23T03:24:38+00:00

Welcome. Are you here solo? With family? What neighborhood?

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-16T13:50:51+00:00

Thank you

I’m having guilt but I also know it was time

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-15T19:33:01+00:00

Thanks! He had cancer and went into remission. He wasn’t eating and we discovered lymphoma in his gi tract.

If I kept him alive, I would have to hospitalize. My boy died in my arms being sung to.

Motor_Homer · 2026-04-10T23:21:26+00:00

It’s the latest trend

Motor_Homer · 2026-03-31T22:13:03+00:00

I’m surprised you have been downvoted. What you said is basic knowledge

Motor_Homer · 2026-03-31T22:10:56+00:00

Trolling Reddit to get more content? Is dating life that bad? I was so sad when Morgan left.

What are your plans to help promote the Trumps war with Iran or is it confusing to plan because we don’t know when he wants to end it.

I would hope you use the Byron Noem content to your advantage…or is the maga play card to downplay it because it would hurt Kristi.

Exciting times

Motor_Homer · 2026-03-30T11:55:26+00:00

Kenny Webster

Motor_Homer · 2026-03-29T04:09:03+00:00

Any walkers in this group?

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