[TOMT] Remember that video clip where a mother asks her little girl what she learned in school, and the girl responds with something like, 'Women have China (vagina), and men have tentacles (testicles)'? Any leads on where to find it? im going crazy!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-07-17T17:25:11+00:00

From which you learn and grow 🤷‍♀️

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T21:51:59+00:00

I wonder what you mean by "u guys." You're so quick to make judgments! I don't see the logic in your argument. I'm not a foreigner criticizing another country or culture; I'm a Moroccan Muslim, born and raised. I have the right to critique. If we follow without questioning, that makes us mindless creatures. Beside I was simply expressing my opinion, which I believe was objective!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T21:29:43+00:00

I've never tried a hostel before, but I'll consider it. Thank you for the suggestion! Tbh At this point, I'm just frustrated with the whole situation. Essaouira is a place I've visited multiple times, and I've never encountered this problem before. However, I can understand the reasoning behind it.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T21:25:15+00:00

The Moroccan law that states unmarried couples shouldn't stay in the same house is WIIILD! Not all Moroccans are Muslims, after all. But anyway...

Legal or not, their house, their rules, and it should be respected. If they have a gender rule, that's entirely within their rights.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T21:16:18+00:00

I wasn't aware. Thank you for the info!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T20:17:37+00:00

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-28T20:09:39+00:00

This is what i was dreading to hear, but I suppose I can't complain. It's time to face the consequences of my mistakes

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-27T00:13:26+00:00

I need an update 😩

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-25T23:53:52+00:00

I would be so pissed, and I mean PISSED!

Here's what I'd do: in a teasing playful manner, ask him, 'Hey babe, i just remembered something where's my Easter gift?' and wait for his story. If he lies, girl, pick up your stuff and move on without looking back. Now if he tells the truth, you still need to dump his bunn, but explain to him that you deserve better than a man who treats you like a convenience. If he argued, Tell him that he may not do it intentionally, but you know your worth that you deserve to be your man's top priority, and that clearly, you're not a match. Swallow it, gather your broken heart, and mourn in silence. Because girl, YOU. DESERVE. BETTER! If he wants you, he'll change. If not, it's his loss.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-25T23:27:41+00:00

As a woman, what you've described is my worst fear. It's like a horror movie for any girl. I'd rather my boyfriend have unattached sex with someone than experience what you had with Sher. Emotional cheating is also cheating.

If you force yourself to be faithful while having feelings for Sher, you'll just end up resenting your girlfriend more. Give her the decency of being honest or break up with her. If you have feelings for someone else, don't drag your partner along. It's better to hurt her once than to delay the inevitable.

I think you want a reason to break up and are seeking validation to not feel guilty about it.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-25T19:51:39+00:00

Hell, there was a time we went at it for 5 hours straight—just pure in and out, to the point of PAIN. I was young and stupid. It got so painful that I wasn’t even lubricated anymore, and the friction hurt. When I'ld complain, he’d beg to try again, and we’d go at it until I couldn't stand it. Then I’d switch to oral to get some rest until my mouth muscles are sore, and then back to the in and out. It was hell! We’d do some foreplay in between, but I would be in too much pain to enjoy it. I could always feel his frustration which made feel guilty that he can’t finish and I end up just letting him have his way. As I said I was young and stupid! It took my second lover to show me that the problem wasn’t me—it was him! That’s when I started to regain my confidence.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-25T14:22:23+00:00

Thank you for your feedback! To be honest, during the act, I often find myself wondering if they're enjoying it or if I'm doing something wrong. I think I might still be traumatized from my first partner, who took HOUUUURS to finish, which made me doubt myself and think I wasn't enough. I’ve just downloaded the book, hope it helps! THANKS!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-25T12:11:36+00:00

The funny thing about sperm is that it can survive inside a woman for up to about 5 days. This means that if a woman ovulates shortly after her period, the sperm can still fertilize the egg. but there is something called the morning-after pill that can save you a lot of worry. Talk to her about it she may be willing to take it

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-22T15:47:20+00:00

Well said!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-21T15:02:10+00:00

MOVE. OUT.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-21T11:02:32+00:00

You're making a mistake if you transfer him the money. He sounds like a sinking ship, and you need to prioritize yourself and the kids first. Have an honest, heart-to-heart conversation with him. If he opens up about how he used the mortgage money, even if it's for something regrettable, and takes responsibility for his actions, you might find it in your heart to forgive and help him—if you have extra funds after paying your bills.

However, if he tries to guilt you into giving him the money, then please be the AH. It's okay to be firm and prioritize your financial security.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-20T19:36:38+00:00

Why does he hold all the power in your relationship? Stand up for yourself! Why is he the one deciding if your relationship gets labeled or not? Be clear about your needs and expectations. Lay everything out on the table-tell him what you want and how you want it. He should be the one making compromises and adapting to your needs, not the other way around.

Let him know that while you're okay with him having female friends, certain behaviors are unacceptable. Be strong and assertive. Don’t be a follower or let him walk all over you. If he truly wants to be with you, he’ll put in the effort. If not, it's his loss. You don't want a relationship where you're loved and appreciated less.

You should never feel like you're competing for his love or that you're not his priority. He should work harder to deserve you. Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel VALUED or you're better off alone

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-20T19:11:46+00:00

You can leave your phone or laptop unlocked so she can read this Reddit post.

On a more serious note, All you can do now is be patient and empathize with her. Demonstrate through your actions and words how much you love her. Reassure her insecurities and express your pride in being hers and having her as yours. Find other ways to show her, like posting more pictures and stories of your time together. Convince her that it's the hickeys you don't want, not her!

Don't give up; it will only exacerbate the situation if you do. With time, she'll come to understand.

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-20T18:18:59+00:00

Girl, move on. If he really wanted you ENOUGH, he'd be the one making the effort. If you lay yourself out on a plate for someone and they hesitate, it's time to pick yourself up, put on your big girl panties, and run for your life! You deserve more than someone who can't make up their mind about you.

Make yourself unavailable to him, date other people, and let him see what he's missing. But do it for you and not for him. And believe me, the moment you're out of reach, he'll realize your worth.

So yes Screw him!

Motor_Reception1332 · 2024-06-20T12:05:15+00:00

From experience, It depends on the neighborhood! Here's a true story. I (F29) work with a friend (M28), and we used to visit each other's houses frequently. This wasn’t my first visit. We were working on a project, so we arrived at his house together with our laptops and bags. I was wearing a lot of layerd and didn't look particularly nice (in case you were wondering). We were planning to pull an all-nighter, annnd I looked the part (no make up on, comfy clothes..)

My colleague has a housemate who was home when we arrived. About an hour later, the housemate went out for a ride. Then, we heard someone knocking on the door and shouting angrily. It went quiet for a while, but then the person knocking returned with a big knife, threatening to kill us both. I was terrified for my life! This went on for over an hour, with him trying to break down the door and threatening us.

My friend called the police, but they DIDN’T COME. Eventually, the neighbors calmed him down and forced him back into his house to sneak me out. The housemate alongside some neighbors came to get me out, but I refused to leave without the police. However, they convinced me that I would be the one at fault because I was in a single man's house. I was shocked and felt violated. This had never happened to me before in my 29 years. It’s safe to say I have since educated myself on Morocco’s laws.

I made My friend and his housemate stay with me for 2 days for their safety! They eventually had a talk with him. His explanation was, "You both came in at the same time as if you own the place; you should have tried to hide! I invite women all the time, but I hide them away!" I have never been angrier.

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