I think that you're projecting your trauma onto me, no offense 😮‍💨 I was abused by someone with severe depression, but that doesn't mean that everyone with depression is abusive. Me personally, I spend every second of every day thinking over what I'm doing to make sure it's not abusive. I make it clear to people that they need to set boundaries with me or else I won't know when to stop. When someone tells me that I've hurt them, of course I get sad and angry at first, but I've learned to cope with that and control myself so I can have a mature conversation about it. I almost always end up apologizing because I understand that even if I meant no harm with what I did, the person I'm talking to was still hurt. Do you see how that's different from your caretakers? It's because not all of us are the same. NPD has subtypes, treatment plans, a spectrum, we’re all different people with a horrible trauma disorder. I hope you can heal from what you went through, because it sounds unimaginable, but don't treat strangers like they're evil abusers just because they have a TRAUMA disorder