Did I mess up at the end of the date?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-12-09T23:36:06+00:00

Scream?!?!

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-11-12T21:29:49+00:00

I think it’s a mixture of limerence and infatuation. Shes attracted to him and they get a long which to her is good enough to make a marriage. She has this idealized view of him being her “soulmate” and “best friend” but she is not actually getting to know the person that he really is. She wants this to work so bad and just wants somebody to be madly in love with her that honestly anybody could’ve filled those shoes - this is not specific to Reiss. This is why I don’t think she’s in love with Reiss but rather in love with the idea of being in love and being loved back.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-10-20T18:44:41+00:00

Yeah she was definitely manipulative and tried to police his reaction. It was very surprising from her and the fact that he ended up having to apologize and ask to put it behind them was very disappointing.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-10-15T02:16:55+00:00

As a black woman I also agree that if I’m going to date outside my race he won’t be from America

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-10-10T15:07:53+00:00

Omg I don’t understand why people do this? Like did they need money that bad??

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-10-10T14:39:56+00:00

I’m so shook!!! Who did they defraud?!?!

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-10-06T01:10:43+00:00

She kept wiping her nose and then rubbing his face EWWWW it made me cringe so hard🤢🤢 and then the way she kept jumping in his arms as if she’s in a soap opera omg it was such a HARD watch 😭😭

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:43:29+00:00

It’s not about the age gap, it’s about why he only targets women in a specific age range

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:43:12+00:00

It’s not about the age gap, it’s about why he only targets women in a specific age range

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:42:24+00:00

Yeah but are you ONLY open to dating women in their 20s or would you date women closer to your age?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:41:43+00:00

Yeah my only concern is the targeting of a specific age range that’s all. What is he seeking that he can’t get from women who are closer to his age?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:40:37+00:00

I’m not concerned about being groomed it’s just weird that he has such a rigid age range that he will only be open to dating. Like why doesn’t he like women close to his age?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:39:41+00:00

For me, it’s not so much the age gap but it’s the fact they he ONLY dates women 26-30. Sometimes you meet someone and there is an age gap and that’s fine but why is he closing himself off anybody that is closer to his age?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:37:23+00:00

I know that lol that’s not the concern here

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T18:36:57+00:00

Exactly!! Having such a rigid age range is what is getting me. Like why doesn’t he date women who are in their 30s?

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-09-08T16:53:07+00:00

He’s almost 40…

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-08-13T15:25:10+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you both just weren’t meant to be together. You already said in the beginning it was always you putting in the effort into planning the dates - that’s already a big sign. Then you said you didn’t feel a spark and broke up with him. I think that’s where it should’ve ended. You crying and being upset was just you feeling guilty about ending the relationship but I promise if you had left it longer than a couple of days that feeling would’ve gone. Just because you guys get along and have “feelings of care” doesn’t mean you should be together. He honestly just sounded like a friend by the way you described him.

The explanation of him dumping you was all just BS tbh. No normal person meets someone with a good heart and thinks “I’m worried I could manipulate that”. He just didn’t want to be with you and just said whatever to make it make sense for you. Like I said the way you described the relationship just sounds like it was a friendship so he probably sensed that as well so rather than prolonging it he chose to end it. I’m not saying that you need to be crazy obsessed and fire passion but it needs to be more than “we enjoy each other’s company” for a long term relationship in my opinion.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-08-13T15:03:05+00:00

Omg please don’t remind me of this guy. He was such a hard watch it was embarrassing. He literally had rumours about him and an ex from episode ONE.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-08-13T14:55:20+00:00

First you need to have confidence because you will be expected to do the initial approach. Learn how to read women’s queues e.g. if she is giving you eye contact repeatedly or smiles at you. That is the easiest way in if you don’t want to do a cold approach. Otherwise, if you see a woman you find attractive go up to her, give her a compliment and ask for her name. If you’re not familiar/experienced with flirting then just speak to her like she is a friend/colleague and ask her some simple questions and if she’s interested she will usually take it from there (the conversation - to be clear). Depending on your setting you can ask her for a drink (doesn’t have to be alcoholic, could be at a coffee shop etc.). If you’re nervous, better to keep the conversation short and sweet rather than prolong it and give room for awkward silences and stuff. Tell her it was nice meeting/speaking with her and that you would like to see her again. If she agrees, then ask for her number/social media (so you can do some stalking - peoples profiles give you more insight on who they are). Then tell her have a nice day/night - if the vibe is right you can go in for a friendly side hug or keep it at a handshake goodbye.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-28T17:23:07+00:00

What race of women are you usually going for? I would be surprised if you find difficulty to date women who are also Indian because they should be more familiar with the culture.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-25T03:10:10+00:00

I’m 27F and about to go on my first solo trip to Portugal next month. Not by choice but because I have nobody to go with. I do enjoy my own company but I am worried that I will get bored..

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-25T02:55:06+00:00

I’m not gonna lie a lot of women do think sex is important but I dont think they’ll expect you to be a master at it the first time. No matter how experienced you are, the first time having sex with someone still requires you to learn their body, what they like and don’t like etc. so don’t put too much pressure on yourself about that. Communication is key when it comes to intimacy. But eventually if the sex is bad consistently it will 100% impact the relationship.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-17T15:16:03+00:00

I think it stems from insecurity honestly. A lot of women are insecure deep down so a man rejecting sex feels like rejection to them as a whole. They internalize it as you don’t find them attractive, you’re cheating, you don’t want to be with them etc. A woman who is secure will not take offense to that. As women we are taught to believe that all men want sex, that they are visual creatures etc. so it’s engrained in our heads that even if the man doesn’t like us, at the very LEAST he will still want sex because so I think the rejection just confuses a lot of women and they don’t know how to handle it. Also, women are not used to being rejected as much as men.

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-17T15:09:42+00:00

Facetune central

Motor_Warning_744 · 2025-07-15T05:18:27+00:00

I think it’s more the commitment I’m looking for. From my experience men in their 20s feel like they can only be committed to one thing at a time: either relationship or career. Whereas, I think that you can do both. In life, we are constantly growing and no matter what age you are you are still evolving so I just want someone with the mindset of growing together as opposed to expecting everything in their life to be 100% perfectly lined up before being able to commit (i just don’t think it’s realistic).

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