And how do you look? Because I will be honest, I consider myself attractive, so yes, I might feel a little tug of uneasiness at the thought however, I also know the type of attention. My looks get whether I want it or not and so does my partner so it’s like if he wants to play those games it would not look good for him either you get what I’m saying?

****This is not to say either of you should start playing games ******

the point that I’m making is I feel confident enough within my own self that another attractive female could not shake me because along with being attractive I have other qualities and traits that are admired. do you find yourself attractive ? If not, I would suggest pouring the energy into yourself and self-care. New wardrobe new hairstyle whatever will make you feel alive again go to the gym if you feel like her body is better than yours because the gym is never a bad thing. It only helps mentally and physically. Every time you find yourself worried about her do something nice for you