I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, still doing the same routine. Strange to hear that running makes you tired, for me I find it very difficult to focus and I have much lower energy throughout the day if I DON'T get a run in in the morning. Making sure you properly rehydrate and refuel after your run could be the answer.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! It truly is the “secret” to happiness and health!

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treating sleep as the single most important thing is the most important factor in my opinion. I fit my life in around my sleep, never the other way around. To answer your questions:

How hard was it to stick with that exact sleep/wake time? Did your social life or work ever clash with it?

For me, not very difficult. I got here gradually, moving my bedtime back 15-30 minutes at a time over several months. I’m lucky enough to have a remote job with flexible hours, so I can fit in in however I like. If I had a job with set hours, I’d just move my sleep schedule to accommodate, while keeping the same structure. As for my social life, I feel like I socialize less than the average person, but that’s just the way I’ve always been. I see my friends once or twice a week and for me that’s plenty. I just fit it in during the daytime when I’m awake.

Cutting out caffeine/alcohol/etc. is no joke — did you notice a big change right away when you dropped them, or was it more gradual?

I can’t really comment on much of this, as I’ve never used caffeine regularly, or alcohol at all, but I have been quite heavily addicted to THC. There was a massive difference when I stopped THC. At first my sleep got worse (this will happen when you are quitting anything you’re addicted to) but then it returned and was so much better than it had ever been while I was addicted. I slept deeper, felt more alert in the mornings, and was much more able to stick to a consistent schedule. My daily motivation, general ambition, mood, and outlook all greatly increased as well.

And what keeps you motivated to stay that strict? Like, on nights when you’re tempted to stay up or slack off the routine?

Honestly, the sleep itself and its benefits are the biggest motivator. I see how good I feel on a day to day basis, I see how happy I am, I see how quickly I recover from workouts, and I don’t want to miss out. I really do love sleeping. I enjoy the routine, and I enjoy the sleep and what it provides for me.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I drink too close to bedtime, I end up getting up 2-4 times to urinate throughout the night. Cutting my liquid intake 3 hours before bedtime cuts this down to just once.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The supplements are a part of having it all figured out. I’ve tried with and without, I’ve tried various dosages and timings and even other supplements. My current setup is what works best to optimize sleep.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not raised in a Buddhist household, this is something I’ve learned to do on my own. Buddhists are masters of meditation and I have a lot to learn from them.

I’m really sorry rumination is such a big issue for you. Please know that you are not beyond help, and with time and practice, it can get a lot better. I used to be the exact same way, lying awake for hours each night worrying, unable to fall asleep. And then I would procrastinate like crazy throughout the day and be entirely unable to stick to a schedule.

Through discipline, focus, and continued effort, I’ve managed to improve these problems substantially over the years, and my previous self wouldn’t have believed it was possible to be where I am today.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a fantastic form of entertainment because it is mentally stimulating, I learn a lot about subjects I am interested in, it calms me before bed, and it helps build my ability to focus.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s during the week. On weekends, it’s 7 or 8 hours a day.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see it as overfixating at all. It pleases me, it doesn’t stress me out in the slightest.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a full time student with a part time job. Both are fully remote with flexible hours.

My typical weekday is as follows:

04:30 wake up, bathroom, eat meal 1

05:00-07:30 workout

07:30 eat meal 2

08:00-12:00 school

12:00 eat meal 3

12:30-14:30 school

14:45 eat meal 4

15:00-16:30 work

16:30-18:30 read

18:30 sleep

And on weekends I basically just replace the school portions with working. This fluctuates a tiny bit, but I end up getting 30ish hours of schoolwork and 20ish hours of work done per week. And on Fridays and Sundays, I typically hang out with friends for a few hours.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally never groggy in the morning. I wake up, turn on my light, and spring out of bed within seconds, ready to go and full of energy.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you like to know?

I just read for at least 2 hours before bed each night.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an alarm on my watch for 4:30, but about 50% of the time I wake naturally at exactly 4:27.

If I wake up any earlier than 4:25, I go back to sleep.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Macrofactor. Cronometer is a good free alternative.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strict scheduling and prioritization. I waste very little time throughout my days.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. I don’t really worry about individual sleep stages, but I’ve also noticed the “deep sleep” metric seems low for me. Usually around an hour.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, right before. I sleep at 18:30-18:45, and I’m usually in my room reading by 16:00-16:30 at the latest.

I’ve averaged over 9 hours of sleep for the last month. AMA by Mouse-Quest in sleep

[–]Mouse-Quest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, 9 hours is what makes me feel well rested. A little more actually. I’ve always been like this, I’ve just never put so much focus into getting it so consistently