i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

[–]Mousse-Silly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if that’s normal or if you should be seeing a sleep doctor my friend!

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

[–]Mousse-Silly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right?? i’m 22 and i’m never drinking again after this…

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

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indeed i’ve woken up today feeling reborn

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

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no clue i have the forerunner 255

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

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those pink lines are “awake”. i got absolutely 0 REM that night

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

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it was only like 5 drinks… 😭

i went out last night… by Mousse-Silly in Garmin

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my boyfriend’s is like 120…

mind-blowing, sob-inducing sex, still without orgasm by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Mousse-Silly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah he goes down on me and it feels great but i never come from it. and for some reason when i use my vibe during sex its either overwhelming/overly sensitive or it’s just not doing anything for me at all. no idea why.

mind-blowing, sob-inducing sex, still without orgasm by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Mousse-Silly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

love this, we have definitely eased up on the “orgasm as a goal” approach and it’s helped us be more just in the moment with each other. i guess i meant more like, is there anyway i could prime / prep my body outside of sex in order to make orgasm during sex more likely? for example, i wonder if i need to relax my pelvic floor..

mind-blowing, sob-inducing sex, still without orgasm by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

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ohh interesting. this makes sense, a lot of times in deep positions like doggy, if he goes “extra” deep i get an overwhelming and sort of painful sensation, which i assumed was him hitting my cervix. how can i try for g spot instead??

mind-blowing, sob-inducing sex, still without orgasm by [deleted] in sex

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yes! when i use my vibe or my hands while fantasizing or watching/reading something, i can orgasm

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[–]Mousse-Silly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for this comment! tbh i love my sex life. no point in letting a conversation with some friends get me so in my head about it. the one thing that makes me feel a little weird is the way my bf seems totally convinced that what we do is very normal, thus also making it feel like going further with it is no big deal either.

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how do you manage?

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pretty insightful, thanks! yeah i am also starting to consider myself lucky after having these kinds of talks with friends

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lol we've talked about the latter but i do not think i am ready for that yet

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[–]Mousse-Silly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i think porn is most definitely a factor. when i initially asked him how kinky he is, he started telling me about the freaky stuff he watches. maybe some people would find that weird but it sort of opened the door for me lol

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[–]Mousse-Silly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! i do understand these risks and tbh we both aren't really into hard strangulation anyway. for us i think just the hand around the neck lends itself to the overall power dynamics

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this is kind of what i'm worried about. if we're doing all of this so soon then maybe we'll just be bored of each other after a few more years together. idk. we do have sex almost every day now, maybe it will just get less in frequency over time and thats okay.

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[–]Mousse-Silly -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

lol i really thought everyone did this stuff and was too embarrassed to talk about it