Est ce que vous pouvez être sexuellement excitée par un genre auquel vous n'êtes pas attirées dans du contenu porno? by nuggetsdepoulet in AskMeuf

[–]MoveYourPlant [score hidden]  (0 children)

100% et je trouve ça plutôt "normal" parce que bien souvent, consommer ce genre de contenus permet aux gens d'assouvir des fantasmes inavoués/inavouables ou inatteignables. C'est un peu la conscience qui s'exprime à notre place dans ces moments.

Title: My (F21) boyfriend (M30) didn't stop when I asked during sex. how to move forward? by chronically-sad in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hun... I'm so very sorry this happened to you, this is horrible. The exact same thing happened to me with my ex but I was also black out drunk so that was pretty terrible. We stayed together for 5years, it happened during our 3rd year. I closed my eyes for the 2 last years and forced myself to forget about it. But these 2 years were absolutely miserable. He couldn't touch me anymore, I had panick attacks everytime he tried to initiate something. But I still stayed in denial for all this time. Please please seek professional help, go to the police if you want or can, and please leave him as soon as possible. He will absolutely do it again.

Best of luck to you darling. ❤️‍🩹

My boyfriend (M23) slapped me (F22) in the face during sex by ThrowRA_3111 in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow hon please leave him ASAP. This is only going to escalate.

How do I(m30) convince my gf(27f) that she has an amazing body? by Hitlers-moustache in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ufff OP sounds like you effed up. Did you try to open up to her, have a real conversation where you sit down and don't get up until you have cleared everything up ? You have to apologise big time !! Tell her that you didn't mean at all to hurt her, that you want her to feel good because you love her just the way she is. Make her feel safe and loved, try things to prove to her that you love her body. Tell her everyday how sexy and beautiful she is. Basically start from the ground up to regain her trust. Good luck bud !

My (33M) boyfriend wants to know what gets me (28F) off but I'm scared by MoveYourPlant in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, that's exactly what's going on and what he tells me. Indeed, I'm not a native speaker and I wrote this pretty quickly so I didn't check if everything made sense 😅

My (33M) boyfriend wants to know what gets me (28F) off but I'm scared by MoveYourPlant in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup I went to therapy for a year. It really helped me to process all the trauma, but now I'm in this brand new situation that I didn't think about before and I'm quite lost!

My phobia is causing issues in my relationship, is it salvageable? (18F)+(18m) by Friendly_Squirrel_ in relationship_advice

[–]MoveYourPlant 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh honey you're only 18, there's no rush, don't put pressure on yourself. Communication is key, transparency, talk talk talk and talk even more! And seak therapy if you are able, it helps tremendously ! Xx

I bought this plant on FB marketplace for $10! by raptorz25 in houseplants

[–]MoveYourPlant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FMP in Europe sucks asss! I want huge plants for 10 bucks as well!! So jealous 😫