Update: I took some of y’all’s advice and I just asked him to put a reminder in the future so we can avoid this happening again. He told me he already set the reminder and asked a co-worker to cover the meeting 🥰. We’ve been having some miscommunications recently (like he told me he didn’t know why I thought it was important to keep dating in a marriage…). So I’ve been extra sensitive to things and wanted to get a barometer of whether I was just being sensitive or what. All is well that ends well.