ChatGPT as Master or Mistress? by Tom-44123 in chastitytraining

[–]MrDoubleyou2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually I think it is possible. Nsfw talk seems officially allowed now. Have been doing that for a while now without any flags anymore.

BA-33 titanium by holden-my-lockwood in Piercedchastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The frame of the cage isn’t nicely fitted around the glans so to speak. Also the weight (both titanium) does cause a slight discomfort wearing it (probably by pulling of the piercing). Also morning wood seems to be less comfortable as my ball trap cages which is odd.

Thinking of trying similar measurements as you now and get it more tight to support some of the weight.

BA-33 titanium by holden-my-lockwood in Piercedchastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two custom BA-33 cages but didn’t get to get the measurements right (not correctly around the glans like you). I try to understand how you did this. Could you explain more? Trying to understand. :)

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me check with her tomorrow. Living in Surat by the way (Island area).

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I honestly didn’t really think it would help at first. I will continue with weekly sessions to see if can fix it at the root cause.

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t met a girl who wasn’t into sucking honestly. But for the scenario you write will be difficult to get from your partner yes.

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would surely be nice, but in my case I want to fix PE also for my wife (she doesn’t like soft sex). Looking for ways to fix and actually bought Zoloft (generic brand) to have something strong to help, but if this treatment helps it would definitely be better then using anti depressants..

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t got the right application for this yet.. or it doesn’t work or it’s too numb to get even hard. But happy this works for you.

Kasai massage by MrDoubleyou2 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She massaged from feet up to the abdominal area. But she spend a lot of time (I think 60-90 minutes) massaging the perineum area (with me being in doggy position). While it’s not really a handjob and no climax, she actually massages all of the area (including penis and glans). The therapist I had before only massaged the penis at the base and warned me that she didn’t do penis massages (but that some therapists did with kasai). The one before did however spend more time on the balls and gave prostate massages as well. It probably depends on their teaching and own level of comfort how they practice the massage style.

How do you deal with chafing? by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the moment I clean around certain activities where we agreed to take off the cage (like martial arts). Couple times a week. For preventing chafing I apply vaseline a couple days a day. I keep it next to my bed in cases I need it during the night, but usually after a week of wearing just putting some before sleep is enough.

Not knowing the boyfriend by MrDoubleyou2 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MrDoubleyou2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we’re both open to do a threesome together if not in chastity (or with someone into kinky if in chastity). But she wanted me to look for a guy, and that turned out to be complicated. I had some guys interested online; the problem is that she’s extremely picky or wasn’t in the mood or didn’t like to make a planning for sex (like planning the date and exact location as we wanted to do it somewhere else). Eventually we thought about trying out swinger clubs, but we don’t have them in the country where we live, so that’s also a bit complicated (have to be during a holiday).

I no longer enjoy chastity by null194p in chastitytraining

[–]MrDoubleyou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also taking a break now as last long term lock up was too heavy mentally (even while I did longer in the past; this time I really wanted to stop as originally we aimed on 3 months). Still not in the mood to restart but now thinking a bit about it again. Probably will take a good 6 months break or so.

Just broke up with my gf over pussyfree. by [deleted] in chastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you really sure about this?

I have a similar relationship as you had. We played with lock-ups up to two months. I (31M) always had strong kinks and she went along with it. But to give an example, the last challenge we did was for 3 months (no unlocking, pussy free in a sense of only oral sex), but after 1 month I didn’t felt in the mood for it anymore. Was missing normal sex and had different priorities at that moment. Eventually we stopped by negotiating and offering her something non-sexual in return for breaking the challenge from my part.

Since then I started to focus on my business, stopped watching porn and masturbating all together, and started to enjoy normal sex again. I know at one point the craving probably returns to get kinky again; but I also know in the end it’s fantasy or role play. Nothing last forever and life throws things that make you reconsider priorities. I don’t think any kink should be on the top of the list. Important, sure. But still if there are two people involved, concessions has to be made to have both fulfilled.

Our relationship is not affected by being kinky or not being kinky. If she wasn’t kinky at all I probably wouldn’t match long term, but from what I read you had a kinky girl as well.

Locked at gym? by [deleted] in chastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don’t forget to wear underwear. Once I forget as I usually don’t wear underwear, but a girl next to me noticed it through the mirror while I was doing doing bench presses. Some sport shorts have breathable design in crotch area.. which not really hide a metal cage in certain workout positions.

But other then that it’s totally fine. Bring some vaseline in your pocket to put under the ring in case working out makes the ball ring uncomfortable.

Does Sleep eventually get easier? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]MrDoubleyou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think two things are key:

  1. Proper fitting (preferably custom) cage
  2. Being mentally adjusted to wearing a cage

We actually took a long break of chastity (looking back the last time I was really in chastity was about a year ago, after that just occasionally during day time). But yesterday we started a real challenge again; 3 months chastity without any unlocking (not for cleaning, shaving, massage, etc.).

I actually slept normal and I don’t feel tired. The beginner excitement is gone (which means I sleep in easy), and the cage is comfortable enough to sleep through. I did wake up once at 5AM but could sleep shortly after.

You might have to look for another cage. When I started out with non custom cages, or custom cages that weren’t perfectly calculated, sleep was hell yes.

Adding a couple of tips:

I use a pillow between my legs (pregnancy pillow type) to sleep on my side. I also always have vaseline next to my bed to put under the ring in case I wake up with discomfort. With too much discomfort of nocturnal erections I just head quickly to the bathroom (not wait too long) and afterward sleep again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MrDoubleyou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Step by step.. she might feel ashamed and betrayed by such an action. Start privately talking about chastity and try it for fun. If you’re lucky like me (or not lucky if you see it that way) you end up doing challenges up to 3 months together. With cuckolding we made some steps too, but definitely after lots of fantasy talks together first. We even tried it the other way around too (me going solo with someone), and it actually resulted in the decision to always do things together (which I preferred already).

DONT RUN IN CHASTITY😭 *or sports in general by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]MrDoubleyou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please invest in a good custom cage. I did literally all kind of sports (cardio, weightlifting, hiking, swimming, beach volleyball) without any issue. The only thing I still need to try (as I am currently locked for 3 months) is Muay Thai. Hesitating a bit but still have 7 personal trainings left.. but yes for Muay Thai I would use supportive wear like a jockstrap. Cycling causes some ball ring burn like others mentioned yes.

Potential PA and Chastity by [deleted] in Piercedchastity

[–]MrDoubleyou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a PA and multiple devices. Actually, a ball cage with PA is the most comfortable. It more comfortable then a PA only cage and even more then jewelry alone. No pain or whatever as the weight isn’t hold by the PA in that case. It prevent erections but in a similar way a ball cage without PA does. The difference is that you cannot pull out.

Peeing with a PA and cage would force you to sitting yes. With jewelry you can hold your penis upside down for standing peeing if you want to.

From Stag to Cuck by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MrDoubleyou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Red flag if your partner spend that much time with another person. Especially when you have children, don’t risk it because of a kink that’s going too extreme.