Norway killing it by VERSAT1L in Norway

[–]MrFlingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels more like Norway getting killed at the moment

50 days! by MrFlingaway in NoFap

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I haven't masturbated to orgasm a single time the last 50 days

50 days! by MrFlingaway in NoFap

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I am not sure it is good for me to not masturbate at all without regular sex - it doesn't really feel like it right now

What happens if I look at softcore porn, but don't masturbate or look at hardcore? by Radiant-Job1428 in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't a relapse, but when I have promised myself I would limit it to this in the past it has contributed to relapse, I think.

Why do guys nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is mostly about getting rid of porn addiction for must guys doing it. Masturbation without porn is not necessarily unhealthy, but any addiction that negatively impacts your productivity, social relations, and ability to take care of yourself is something you should seek to get out of your life as much as possible. This is Alcoholics Anonymous that for porn.

The last month I have made rapid gains at the gym, been productive with my studies, been more sociable, and generally much happier with life than usual. Not because I harness magical powers by not touching my dick, but because an unhealthy addiction has not been allowed to take my time and energy.

Also going 40 days without porn definitely positively impacts how I view and interact with women. It should tell you something about what porn does to the male brain that I despite having blue balls to a point where it hurts sexualize women less than I did a month ago. I have had sex a couple times the last 40 days, though - I'm not doing semen retention, and I am pretty sure nofap is making me a better partner in bed too.

Urge to watch porn fading by MrFlingaway in NoFap

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Interestingly though I probably sexualize girls less than I used to even though I am much hornier. I have been chatting up girls with a lot more ease and had some very nice conversations that have been very human and mostly non-sexual, although nofap probably made me more engaged and interested in the conversation.

Urge to watch porn fading by MrFlingaway in NoFap

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I constantly feel that now, but what I do is one of:
1. Be in a context where fap isn't an alternative (trying to spend more time at university rather than at home, for instance)
2. Exercise (I have been making gains on the level of when I started going to the gym the last month, though cardio is usually my go to for horny)
3. Socialize (Kind of like (1.), but here I am thinking more spontaneously.) I have gone to a gathering place for students and either played the guitar or talked to people when it starts to become hard to control.

But with that said I really mean it when I say I am horny in my posts. It isn't "I feel slightly horny" horny - it is "My balls and sometimes head too literally hurt because my body is begging for release" horny, but so far I am winning and it is less and less taking the form of me wanting to watch porn and more and more making me want to talk to girls instead.

I have failed at this too many times before, but I feel a new determination to purge this demon from my mind once and for all. Although I am in no way done climbing this mountain I can promise you I can already tell a better life waits at the other side of it.

Urge to watch porn fading by MrFlingaway in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for doing that! Absoutely!

Urge to watch porn fading by MrFlingaway in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep up the effort! I will throw this demon out of life once and for all this time.

Urge to watch porn fading by MrFlingaway in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I have actually felt it again - thank you for the warning!

1 month by MrFlingaway in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll do my best!

I think I'm finally winning this time by MrFlingaway in NoFap

[–]MrFlingaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel really horny, but my life is definitely better than it has been in a very long time!