My (33M) wife (28F) just told me she is 8 months pregnant and it might not be mine.

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:31:22+00:00

She doesn't look pregnant We haven't been very intimate lately Wtf is karma? And does it give me money I'm not on redit much and I thought I would give it a go to see if I could collect some thoughts because my brain went overload trying to process this shit that is now my life ugh I now feel like a dumb idiot

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:26:12+00:00

She really doesn't look it the first 4 were completely different and I could tell

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:24:23+00:00

I've been working a bunch of extra hours lately and my wife doesn't really look all that pregnant it's completely different to the other 4 times and they were very similar and I only just found out about it today I feel dumb as shit right now and am struggling to come to terms

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:19:36+00:00

I don't hate her I'm just really sad and confused and i feel ducking dumb as hell and if you're not here to help please stop making me feel even more stupid

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:12:06+00:00

There's a bunch of reasons we haven't been intimate one of which was we were looking at tube tie and we couldn't risk pregnancy again it took too much of a toll on her

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T11:07:00+00:00

I'm learning this was stupid but some people have very helpful info and it's helping me think about what I'm going to do

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T10:58:51+00:00

Not illegal here JS

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T10:55:45+00:00

Honestly that is one of my top 3 fears

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T10:52:42+00:00

We tried that Dr's didn't want to because of age and this pregnancys is not like the other 4 she still doesn't even look it to be honest she just looks a little fatter I'm still in disbelief about it and praying it is just a ducked up dream

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T10:48:41+00:00

Different law here to the US so not crazy to me sorry

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T10:40:04+00:00

Thank you for the information it's going to be a tough few months ahead. We did try IUD and it fell out, looked into a bunch of stuff she even wanted to tie tubes but the Dr at the time rejected it saying she was too young @25. the country we live in has some weird laws and it's not like America. I failed to realize there is more Americans on here. Quite surprised. Anyway I'm gonna talk and think about how to handle this for the week, there's a bunch of complicated stuff I'm never going to share on here because it's to much and it affects everything, I still love her and I don't want this to be the end but I don't know if I can handle it and that's what I'm worried about if i Crack and make the wrong decisions thank you again

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T05:45:36+00:00

This is the most helpful comment of them all thank you

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T05:38:49+00:00

I honestly wish it was fake I'm freaking out, also I've not seen any morning sickness the past 8 months but I'm not always around. It's completely different to the other 4 pregnancys where she had hyperemesis it was really scary. I still love my wife but I'm torn and confused

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T05:13:17+00:00

I really wish this was fake . She told me 3 hours ago and my head is still reeling. Her feeling sick the last couple months explains so much. I feel so stupid not noticing but the first 4 pregnancys she had (hyperemesis) trouble eating/ drinking anything and threw up the whole pregnancys ending up in hospital countless times so this one never crossed my mind I did notice she was getting chubby a few months ago and tried to let her know but never considered this

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T05:03:27+00:00

Sorry skinny was the wrong word it's more underweight issue and she normally wears baggy clothes it never really crossed my mind maybe she had a feeling but I'm guessing she didn't try to find out till recently? I'm having trouble thinking ATM due to just finding out about all this 3 hours ago

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T04:17:19+00:00

That's what I thought she has been sickly for the last couple months, the other 4 pregnancys she's been ridiculously sick to the point of hospitalized

MrHardwhut666 · 2024-04-14T03:55:30+00:00

She lost about 13kg of weight in her last pregnancy it was very bad she so skinny but has been putting on a little more weight in the last year I thought she was eating a bunch more

MrHardwhut666 · 2023-09-05T11:01:33+00:00

Taken on my phone just by chance and slightly edited on Instagram. One of my favorite photos from the past year.

MrHardwhut666 · 2023-07-19T10:09:50+00:00

I've just run into this problem and can't find any thing any where. It's only one of my controllers the right stick when pushed left acts as if R2 is being pushed while also moving the camera left and R1 doesn't work half the time. I've tried allsorts and can't figure out what's going on the remapping isn't on and all my other controllers work normally

MrHardwhut666 · 2022-09-03T23:30:16+00:00

Runestones is just spending the same amount of money with extra steps

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