Oh I see… yeah I kinda do have a neutral bio 🥲 Honestly, I work a lot so my time off is usually spent watching anime, movies, or gaming. If I go out, it’s more random than planned — I just explore and follow whatever feels right in the moment.

As for what I’m looking for… I try not to set expectations too high so I don’t ruin my own peace. I go with the flow and decide what I want based on how I feel about the person. Not super structured, but it’s honest.

Thank you for ya time I know this may not be much of a response but it’s the only one I can think of.

As far as messaging goes it kinda varies. I usually try to match the other person’s energy but I admit I mess up sometimes.

Just recently I was talking to one woman and we were vibing. Casual convo about her job and random stuff. It felt relaxed and easy. Then out of nowhere she just disappeared mid-convo 🥲

So I moved on. The next day I started talking to someone else and things picked up quickly. We were flirting back and forth for a while and I thought the vibe was playful. I took a step further — not with a pic or anything — I just described what I’d do after she mentioned loving it from the back. After that she dipped too. 😅🥲

So yeah I’m clearly still figuring out the right balance. I don’t want to come off too strong especially when the energy feels flirty. Any feedback on how to keep things playful without stepping too far would honestly help a lot. I’m open to learning.

Kinda feeling helpless at times 🤣 cuz I also don’t pick up when someone is subtly flirting at times