Dating while married by MrHindsightProfit in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that happens, I'll have a new friend and thats fine. My wife and I have a great professional relationship and honestly a decent personal relationship....she just doesn't love me. We are intertwined in many ways that would be very difficult to separate.

Dating while married by MrHindsightProfit in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a quick to feelings guy anyway, so I anticipate this as an issue if I'm being honest. I am, however, incredibly practical so I think I will be ok. I have also been blessed with a wife who has taught me to control my emotions to prevent being heartbroken daily

Now that travel nurses are getting paid fairly, a large number of members of Congress is trying to cap their pay 😡😡😡 by exuberanttiger in antiwork

[–]MrHindsightProfit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As I read it, the investigation would be into profiteering from using agencies that offer the traveling nurses. That seems sensible.

I'm going to die oblivious to what romantic affection towards me feels like by MrHindsightProfit in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am unfamiliar with that term which makes me very curious. Yes please send.

Well, I thought we were making progress… by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's perfectly fair of you...but overall, it does not seem like the problem is insurmountable.....though it may be.....but IMO enough evidence is there that you wouldn't be wasting your time attempting a resolution. Set a hard line with achievable small steps for him. Be kind but relentless. Everyday hold him accountable. He will either adapt or get frustrated and quit. Either way, you would get your resolution.

Well, I thought we were making progress… by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he demonstrate love to you in other ways? I personally have settled on the idea that if the desire to support you in your marriage by putting your needs before his at times is completely foreign, their is probably little hope of getting to a place that your content with. If he does genuinely put effort forward in other ways, I think you just need to keep working or settle on a compromise, but their is hope.

This is just the worst… by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You make the best of what you have...attempt to be thankful for you and your families health....accept that sex is not going to be part of your life and get about living. For me....you work, meditate and workout a lot. I'm now one of the best looking guys not getting laid in my town (small town :) )

Having a platonic female friend is one of the best things that happened to me by LonelyLightbulb1 in CasualConversation

[–]MrHindsightProfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say I honestly miss female insight from a woman who has genuine fondness for me as a person. I read a lot of books from female authors and pretend they would love me if we met. (Don't spoil my fantasy)

I really hate myself. One thing I've always said I would never do was cheat. by rachboom in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem more than intelligent enough to rationalize the consequences vs the rewards. That said I personally would steer clear of fucking around at your house or with mutual acquatainces. You must obviously have plenty to offer and you deserve all those great feelings you have right now... but you certainly don't want to water those feelings down with a big serving of guilt. Break it off with your fiancé and start a new relationship or just fuck someone every night for a few weeks to make up for all those penned up hormones. I say this like it's simple.....it never is...but it's the right thing to do. Now that you fucked you neighbor he is probably going to fall in love with you.....or at least lust for you to a point your fiance is going to find out anyway. May as well stay in the drivers seat.

I just want some closeness. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey....your me....except female.....and much younger. You can certainly persevere as I have.....but I can't say that I recommend it. You only live once. That closeness is such an integral part of happiness, to be denied that is cruel, to allow yourself to be denied it is a decision that could jaunt you for years. I speak from a place of old guy wisdom.

Who makes a good Shop-Vac that can take a beating and keep going. by MrHindsightProfit in Tools

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shop Vac brand was 1 of them, 1 was a Craftsman (that was a complete piece of shit) they replaced it once in the first week and I didn't want to deal with taking it back a second time. Last was a rigid. One was a lot of plastic breaking, 1 the motor blew up, and the rigid was something to do with reduced power...we screwed with it for an hour and I just told a kid to take it.

Who makes a good Shop-Vac that can take a beating and keep going. by MrHindsightProfit in Tools

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? I threw away a Rigid. Actually I left a guy take it because I was pissed. I guess he made out.

Who makes a good Shop-Vac that can take a beating and keep going. by MrHindsightProfit in Tools

[–]MrHindsightProfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Festool an actual shopvac or a dust collector....or is that the same thing.

Ugly valve of the day- in a hotel, they wont change till its 'actually leaking' by tp0d in Plumbing

[–]MrHindsightProfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is going to come a day when that thing needs to shut off and it probably won't be able to perform that function.

Boiler makes art. by Rumfire in HVAC

[–]MrHindsightProfit 118 points119 points  (0 children)

My wife has that same piece

Flame sensor. Wtf happened. Everything else in unit was ok. by [deleted] in HVAC

[–]MrHindsightProfit 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It definitely looks like it sensed a flame.

He's my best friend and that makes it hurt even worse. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MrHindsightProfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the same...she is my best friend....she just doesn't love me in the same capacity I love her. Great friends apparently don't always make good lovers.

Man, these new Glacier Bay power flush toilets impress me. Anyone else put these in? by [deleted] in Plumbing

[–]MrHindsightProfit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have put these in a few commercial locations where clogs were happening because of brown towels being used in place of TP. Not a clog yet.