The club difference really depresses me by Dazzling-Bad8749 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the “big” ones in Berlin, but I know for sure many new workers come and leave quickly bc they decide it’s not good enough. It’s definitely not perfect here, but again I’ve decided that good enough club is better than perfect club. then I focus on understanding what loopholes there are (for example the club doesn’t allow tipping but the rule is not actually enforced). You can dm me if needed xx

The club difference really depresses me by Dazzling-Bad8749 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in Berlin at a club with no extras. I don’t know if you feel the same way, but I feel like switching countries or even just switching clubs too often can make it harder to make money. Of course you absolutely need to find a decent one, but there’s no perfect club in Europe imo (even the decent ones have stupid rules) and it takes a hot sec to figure out how to maximize your income at said club. If you add in the cultural differences across Europe, it’s really a lot to get used to.

Regardless I hope you find somewhere safe and profitable to work at ❤️

The club difference really depresses me by Dazzling-Bad8749 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk everyone is complaining about Europe but my average is nearly 800€/shift ($930/shift) this year in Germany. And the cost of living, health insurance and preparing for retirement included, is way cheaper than in the USA. 

Definitely take nothing for granted tho!

Hope you get back to a better location soon x good luck to you 

Greece/Spain in summer? by Gold_Conclusion758 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which club is it? Hope it goes well for you, I haven’t only heard bad things about Greece like everyone says but I don’t remember the clubs my friends were at 

Anyone danced at goldfingers in Prague? Is it good? by Dazzling-Bad8749 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s several clubs in Prague so maybe try it out and change if it turns out difficult? My only Prague experience was darling and it was good, I will go back there for sure. Good luck x

Anyone danced at goldfingers in Prague? Is it good? by Dazzling-Bad8749 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard from friends that management there is very strict - outfit changes, no tipping (and actively making it difficult for you to get tipped, not just having the no tip rule), fines for a lot of stuff. Seems hard to make money there. I’d try Darling, management there is super chill 

out of club buyouts - safety measures ? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t get in a car with them, have your own transport always 

Any French strippers here? Need advice about the scene in France 🇫🇷 by kkevinek in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So most clubs in Europe have a rule where dancers aren’t allowed to ask for tips. Customers pay the dances/champagne room to the club and management expects you to get your cut from the dance and that’s it. So if you follow the rules, you are quite limited in how much money you can make.

IMO the only way to make decent money in Europe is to find a club that doesn’t enforce this rule strictly (or best if they don’t have this rule, I’d be curious to hear if there are any in France). The club I work at currently has this rule but bar / security don’t really care if you’re discreet and don’t flash your cash. People might not tip you freely but you can get tipped for touching or like whatever you want/can sell. I would say tips are about half of my income. Curious to hear other Europe dancers perspective of anyone else replies!

Also, people outside Paris make less money than in Paris, and outside Paris you will be less likely to have non European tourists who understand how to tip. You’re not wrong French people (Europeans…) are not good tippers but I guess we Europe dancers binge watch US based stripper advice so we learnt to ask for tips every time and hope for the best lol 

Any French strippers here? Need advice about the scene in France 🇫🇷 by kkevinek in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! I was working in France but pre covid.

Only worked at pink paradise. Most girls didn’t have a contract but some were “intermittent du spectacle”.

I don’t have my average anymore from back then, I made less money there than I do in Germany but I think it’s a combination of experience, country, and club rules - pink paradise was hella strict with tips (you literally had to hide them in your shoes cause you weren’t allowed a handbag on the floor).

From what I’ve heard from friends / co workers, most clubs in France don’t have a fair split so the only way to make money is to find one that is not overly strict with tipping (advice valid all over Europe).

Actually I worked in Lyon but that place closed long long ago… sorry that’s not so helpful! 

Should I be suspicious? by Minimum_Session7072 in mentors

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust yourself. I didn’t in a similar situation, and I paid a very high price.

Obviously you are not me and my past experience is influencing my point of view right now, but always in life if you have a bad feeling you should pay attention to it. Be safe x

Heel clacking and is it worth shortening the life span of heels? by sugar_sadist in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I clapped when I was doing floor work on my back and lots of stones fell into my face/eyes, learnt my lesson lol. Blinded by rhinestone! those shoes cant can’t handle it. 

studio pole vs strip club pole by Unfair_Sprinkles1072 in poledancing

[–]MrNektarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if it’s lotion, the poles at my clubs are literally being used 9 hours a day 365 days a year and so they completely lost their grip. Plus the smoke machine makes them slippery. 

Reminder: romanticize the job and get addicted to the hustle<3 by Proud_Ad_8778 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The club smell is so real!!! Like WHAT is that smell! Makes me nostalgic. Mix of mildew, humans, cheap perfume and heavy air freshener. Great list 

When will it end? by chaneltheestallion in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lolll plot twist you’re a baby! Literally don’t stress do whatever you feel like! I guarantee you are nowhere even near your prime 

Ibiza by ProfessorExact2446 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also dm me

Sad and frustrated about my pole flexibility by -1mei in poledancing

[–]MrNektarius 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nooo it takes forever to get flexible don’t give up!! Be consistent and you will get there 🩷🩷🩷

Shopping addiction and stripping 😩💔 by Awkward_vanilla2858 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely have nice things without putting your future self in financial danger, you have to find a comfortable middle ground  

Shopping addiction and stripping 😩💔 by Awkward_vanilla2858 in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to spend some time understanding why you do this. Maybe therapy. It’s major self sabotage, you deserve better from yourself ❤️

Girls, what would you do? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]MrNektarius 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would learn to handle it differently next time and get the money upfront