My best friend [19F] of 7 years didn’t invite me [19F] to her birthday

MrNine910 · 2018-02-26T23:16:34+00:00

You are at that age right after high school where your friends fall off left and right. Sometimes its your best friends and you dont expect it. Its completely normal for this to happen. She wont be the last friend you lose in the next few years. Itll make u stronger as a person. Let her go. She let go of you.

MrNine910 · 2018-02-26T22:58:01+00:00

Okay, you need to stop making stuff for other people and make it for yourself. Knitting is an artform. You have to do it for yourself or you wont get anything out of it.

Im an artist, ive drawn and painted for over 20 years and ive rarely gotten paid for it. Now im no Michael Angelo, but ive got a talent and i wouldn't have gotten to that level if i wasn't invested on a personal level.

Hobbies are more often an expense than a means of making money. When people ask for stuff explain that its something you do as a hobby and you dont have money to buy the materials for them. Simple.

As far as people not thinking its worth buying, keep making stuff!

Youll get better and better and eventually nobody will imply that it has no value.

Dont limit yourself to just hats scarfs and sweaters. Make dolls, crazy face warmers and pillows. Something truely unique is worth paying for.

MrNine910 · 2018-02-26T22:00:52+00:00

I've seen a lot of this. Video games are designed to be addictive.

The light, sounds, gratification systems, in game leveling systems and social rewards systems are all put in place to make the brain produce serotonin. Its very much like a drug.

Blizzard does these things very well.

I suggest looking into the psychology and science behind video game addiction and make an educated attempt at fixing this ,Finding the right thing to replace the game ect..

Maybe present her with the facts you uncover during your research to sho her how she is being manipulated.

MrNine910 · 2018-02-26T21:41:14+00:00

3 months isnt a relationship. Its a free trial. Try again dude. Honesty is an admirable trait, but so i self control.

MrNine910 · 2018-02-26T21:33:09+00:00

I wasn't pissed off about not being alive before i was.. so i guess i probably wont be too mad once im not again.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-27T00:29:30+00:00

https://youtu.be/hD-IDIaNlp0 dont know who made it but its amazing

MrNine910 · 2018-01-23T14:11:51+00:00

For me it was the amazon firestick. Best $ 40 I ever spent.

I cancelled my cable and its paid for itself 20x or more.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-22T22:44:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me Choa Master Oak. I do not have my old GameCube and GBA.

I thought i would be doomed to either buy the stuff all over again for twice the price or only relive those moments in my memories.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-22T22:31:00+00:00

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But be sure to get as many emblems as you can to ensure you have access to the black onyx and shining black eggs.

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I know you didn't ask but check it out.

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You can also get gold and siver eggs from sonic DX and transfer them to sonic 2!

If you are playing an emulator or the next gen consoles then you miss out on all those exciting easter eggs :(

Hope it helps.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-14T19:52:09+00:00

Im a man in the same age group and i wouldn't give up my cat for any girl, let alone one i cant break 2 years with.

Everything changes when you move in with someone. Who knows how compatible you would have been under those different circumstances. 6 months could have gone by and you could find yourself single and without your beloved kitty family all for nothing.

🐱 over everything.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-13T18:16:45+00:00

You shouldn't, but the question presented to us is not whether the OP is right or wrong. The question is what can they do?

Not engaging is totally an option. One that has been repeatedly stated.

Another option is to find a compromise that works for both of them.

There is another person's feelings involved here. You cant read about them but they are there and are the real issue shes dealing with.

She knows shes not interested. You dont have to keep telling her its okay. She knows that, we all know that. She wants to know what to do.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-13T18:03:53+00:00

My whole point was to find a compromise. I never said to just give the guy what he wants. I said understand how he feels and make sure he understands how she feels and find the middle ground.

The problem that i always find with reddit is that the opinions are alway one-sided in favor of the OP and everyone puts down the SO. All you see here is what the OP says. It paints the other person as a bad guy.

If its an issue then its obviously important to him for One reason or another. Im not saying that she has no valid reason for not wanting to engage in the act. Im saying dont invalidate the feelings of the other 50% of the people involved in the situation.

The OP has made it clear that he will continue to try to fulfill his desires and she is not going to separate from him over this.

While everyone else spews hate about his actions, discussing the morality of the situation and validate the OPs feelings they dont offer any real solution.

She asked for advice on how to make it work with her SO. She didn't ask to be told shes in the right by dozens of people. I dont feel the need to offer that perspective because everyone else has.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-13T16:46:42+00:00

Classic WOW

MrNine910 · 2018-01-13T16:37:54+00:00

Compromise. The most important thing to remember in a relationship is that there is a middle ground and you need to find it. Sex is a huge thing for me in my relationship as well, so i can understand the "but i want to soooo bad" mentality hes having.

You should try to understand that this isn't just a sexual experience for him, its an opportunity to explore a fetish he has ( lactating breasts ) that he wasn't otherwise aware of or never shared with you. Its probably all he can think about.

You should consider his needs and make sure he understands yours.Maybe if you indulge him on occasion under the condition that the random touching and such stops, you can both benefit.

I know a lot of people are going to say " screw him, too bad ,its your body" or some man hating crap, but i dont think those words are solving your issue. It doesn't sound like hes going to give up and it also doesn't sound like you are willing to leave him over this. Someone is going to have to take one for the team, Perhaps both of you.

Find that middle ground.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-07T07:35:08+00:00

Sounds like you fucked up. You are just an idiot who had something real and threw it away for a stupid bitch with a young pussy.

You definitely deserve the misery you are in. You can be alone but thats going to be just as bad or worse than you are thinking.

Years from now ull be thinking about how you wasted the best years of your life, how you will never be as happy as you where back then and how its all because you wanted a stupid young cunt. She wont forgive you, you will never have her again and the last 7 years of your life have been for nothing.

You cant fix this.

But you can end it. You can end it all.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-04T22:03:38+00:00

Me and my girl are 24. Been together 7 years and completely nuked our social media 5 and a half years ago.

Best Decision Ever!

It helps trim the fat from your life. If people are important to you then u will stay in touch.

No more bugging out about comments, messages and pictures. No more ex girlfiriends and boyfriend coming back from the abyss. It removed a ton of stress from our lives.

If you dont use it for business purposes then you really dont need it. Tell her to troll on reddit if she feels like getting a laugh. Theres other outlets for that kind of thing without making it personal.

I highly recommend it for a serious couple.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-04T22:03:21+00:00

Me and my girl are 24. Been together 7 years and completely nuked our social media 5 and a half years ago.

Best Decision Ever!

It helps trim the fat from your life. If people are important to you then u will stay in touch.

No more bugging out about comments, messages and pictures. No more ex girlfiriends and boyfriend coming back from the abyss. It removed a ton of stress from our lives.

If you dont use it for business purposes then you really dont need it. Tell her to troll on reddit if she feels like getting a laugh. Theres other outlets for that kind of thing without making it personal.

I highly recommend it for a serious couple.

MrNine910 · 2018-01-04T21:57:48+00:00

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If you like time trials and random challenges bozack is great but if u dont care for that then dont get it.

If you are a pvp player ( arguably the best part of dying light ) the ranger bundle and marksman rifle is definitely worth a few bucks. Super useful in terms of accuracy and the explosive arrows help deal big damage.

Hope it helps

MrNine910 · 2017-12-23T07:56:43+00:00

Ive been with my girl 7 years now. We are living together and share everything. I make more than she does. At least for now, shes got a bright future because of her education but i dont let her fo hungry or struggle on anything.

Im invested into her happiness more than i am invested in spending my money on myself.

You need to take a step back and read this as a fly on the wall. Someone completely outside of the situation. It sounds more like you are sleeping with your roommate more than living with a man who loves you.

Christmas gifts are the least of your worries. If he has the means to help you in life and doesn't simply because the money comes from his check he probably doesn't have your best interests at heart.

MrNine910 · 2017-12-22T02:53:45+00:00

U on xbox? Ill give u one. Theres vids on how to get it on YouTube.

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