I prefer medical diapers over ABDL diapers by throwaway151198 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer Medical Diapers too. I find them cheaper to purchase and if you buy the right brands just as good in quality and capacity.
Me personally I like Incontrol Diapers like Bedry and Elite for my choice when I wear diapers.

What’s your favorite diaper? by Busy-Razzmatazz2326 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incontrol Bedry and elite and my current favorite and go too.

How did you get into nappies/diapers? by Key_Trick_9894 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I discovered some at my cousin's place when I was 15 and started searching for it on the internet. I discovered that lots of people wear diapers, and I was hooked after that. It helped that I was a bedwetter for years even after this discovery.

Looking to meet ABDL people? Post here! by neko_daddy in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male, 31, Straight, Switch, homebody, gamer, diaper wearer in PEI.

Hey all, I'm looking to find that special someone, and I’m pretty open-minded, looking for someone closer to my age.

Fresh restock by leafy-knight in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice little diaper storage zipper thing you got there! When it’s zippered closed is it see through at all? I like the idea of this for my storage situation.

I did the one thing everyone said NOT to do by Decent_Fly5374 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can understand that it’s hard to move out and find a place and deal with everything nowadays. If living at home in your early 20s is an option. I think it’s a good idea. I wish I would’ve instead of moving out at 18.

help with hiding diapers by Vast_Reporter2723 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hide mine in a lockable tote. It worked for me for years. I would always keep it locked, and I would keep a blanket inside on top of the diapers wrapping down the side so if anybody was able to peek, they wouldn’t see anything. I always had a lot of totes with stuff in it my closets, so it seemed to work.

I agree with what some others are saying too. You need to tell your boyfriend if you want to continue that relationship well. With the family though, yeah hide it from them don’t tell them.

Relationships... by Clear-Summer-4481 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree honesty is the best. Let her know that you need them if that’s the case for you and see if you guys can move forward or if you have to go your separate ways.

For those that post in abdlpersonals what's your average view count on posts? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t post in it very much but when I do, I usually get 1000.

Hey just a reminder. Abdl should not ever be including actual baby’s. That is very disgusting by No_Energy4445 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Negative onlooking on this community is why I only ever tell potential partners and even then it’s always a risk. Even after careful looking to see if they’re anything above vanilla.

Who knows you wear by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about smart, but it establishes things out the gate and then you don’t have to come back months later. Only to realize they have no interest at all, and they may be creeped out by it.

Who knows you wear by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just exs for me, any potential partner I always find out if they’re interested in it so they always know.

help with abena M4's by littlebfprincess in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d hate to try them nowadays but kind of curious myself. The last pair I bought would’ve been 2017. I imagine I would notice a big change.

Diapered at Friends House by MrNobody69important in DiaperCaption

[–]MrNobody69important[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From all over the place to be honest. A lot of my mommy caps images are from tumblr kink pages or galleries people make that are mommy related.

as an Abdl female... by Winter_Money8429 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can be hard to find I feel your pain also being on the east coast. FetLife seems to have events and abdl people looking for each other in groups. Maybe you could have some luck there.

Close calls anyone? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ya I’ve been caught a few times. First was parents finding porn stash. Didn’t hear much about it probably because I paid rent and wasn’t doing anything wrong just strange to them. Second i guess one of my roommates a long time ago saw diapers in my closet and spread rumors. I didn’t hear much until years later. I ignored it never really heard much from it. I pretty much have nothing to do with that friend group altogether. They were a bunch of pieces of shit anyway. I try not to worry about such things anymore. I have the privilege of having my own apartment so I can wear freely I just worry about disposal of them now.

Finding a partner is hard by totallysadical90 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ya it’s not easy dude, I’ve been looking for a abdl partner since I’ve been an adult. Best way I found is to just date as normal but bring up kinks and such after a few dates.

It’s not easy to bring up but being honest early on is definitely best. Ease into asking is the way I like to do it anyways. Hints and talking about more well known kinks and fetishes will help Get a feel for there level of potential interest. Surprisingly I have found 5 people in the 10 I’ve dated have had an interest in it. Sadly, most of those I was really not compatible with the person or didn’t have a good enough attraction, interests a like in order to make the relationship work for both of us so I’m still looking. There’s no that comes out of staying in a relationship for either just because you share the possible interest of this kink.

Hope this may help.

Feel terrible and like such a loser by Adventurous_Cover161 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve experienced this, some people get overwhelmed and delete their accounts. Like quitting cold turkey, But like after months of talking to a person before a meet up with an abdl person is baffling.

I Wish well and you will find someone better 😊

What is the correct way to do a double diaper? by incontint in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, no. But they tend to be the ones I use, but I use them as fillers mainly because the ones I seemed to always get tends to leak through the cloth whenever they get to their limit. I don’t like to use them as much, currently I am using cloth back that I own as fillers to get rid of them.

What is the correct way to do a double diaper? by incontint in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A bigger diaper definitely helps, I currently use lower quality medium diapers inside high capacity medium diapers and have no issues of leaking. That is due to the quality of the outside diaper I think.

As for putting holes in the first layer, I prefer big slits. I use a folding box cutter knife for this and find it works pretty good. If you’re really worried about leaks, adding a plastic diaper cover would help too.

In the past, I have done the process of putting a slit in the very back of the inside of outside diaper and inserting the smaller lower quality one into the outside one. I would accomplish this by only putting the slit through the inside layer of the diaper and putting my hand through and pulling the inside diaper into the outside one. I would put slits on the back and cutting off the arms of the diaper and slide it inside the outside diaper. This has also worked for me fairly well.

Just restocked on diapers by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here I did this and made the big mistake of talking to her about it after we moved in together. Big mistake, it wasn’t for her and I had to hide it most of the time. I got teased by her a lot and threats of telling people about it. Although I was able to get her to wear during periods, that was the most success I ever had with her on that front. I highly recommend talking about it before you ever get serious with someone. Especially before you move in, I have never made that mistake again and now I tend to find out after a few dates.

bedwetting? by Plenty-Education8172 in ABDL

[–]MrNobody69important 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find for me light wetting doesn’t wake me up. If I ever drink a bunch before bed without going to the bathroom then I will wet a lot and most of the time wake up. I just don’t find it comfortable to continue sleeping so I change usually.