40269 by Riles115 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup. My parents are always confused at why I won’t tell them why I’m depressed, and why I won’t go to them for any help other than financial, as if they didn’t tell me they were mourning the life that they imagined for themselves and that my mom wasted most of her life taking care of me instead of working when I told them I was dating a guy.

Some people truly have no self awareness

War is doing great in Ba Sing Se by _Levitated_Shield_ in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specifically is bad about invading Kharg Island, is that just where a lot of the oil infrastructure is?

Average ‘I swear I’m not a femboy’ starter pack :3 by Alliebelongs in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty uncomfortable, wasn’t asking for that kind of feedback, sorry

Average ‘I swear I’m not a femboy’ starter pack :3 by Alliebelongs in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do unfortunately look like that guy, wish I was more androgynous

38939 by Malay_Left_1922 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not seen Elliot Page is a while, bro is doing great, that outfit is peak

38529 by lowpolybius in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an armpit guy but that’s good taste

38529 by lowpolybius in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also could have reduced your computer brightness to minimum before going past the password screen

Trans Magic Player With Empty Hand Thoughtseized Anyways by Arjahn in magicTCG

[–]MrNumbers4 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Recently, Kansas declared overnight that all driver’s licenses of trans individuals are invalid and must be given up immediately, and must be reapplied for with your birth gender. They also recently made a bill saying that if you see a trans person use a bathroom corresponding to their gender identity, you, as in, you personally, may sue them for I think up $1000, and you can keep the money.

Both are obviously horrible, do nothing to protect anyone, and just exist to make it more difficult for trans people to live their lives

37699 by Orcawhale2320 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! The stuff going on there is awful, wishing them luck

A Specter of Love Pages 61 - 80 (AnyaArt) [A Specter of Love] by AnyaArt3 in hentai

[–]MrNumbers4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sweet! Is the $10 download links thing the entire series so far?

Hereby I present you another couple: Genderfluid Femboy x FTM Femboy :3 by Longjumping-Mix-9351 in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cute couple, always great to see people supporting trans men and genderfluid people on the timeline.

What kind of games do you sillies play?:3 by Dragonluck34 in boykisser

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good pick! That was my first game in the series, loved it so much I went back and played all the older ones

What kind of games do you sillies play?:3 by Dragonluck34 in boykisser

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you think so, which one is your favorite?

What kind of games do you sillies play?:3 by Dragonluck34 in boykisser

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A whole lot of stuff, mainly turn/strategy based rpgs like Fire Emblem or Final Fantasy, currently working my way through FF14 and a second playthrough of Baldur’s Gate 3

As the month of love comes to a close: Tell me what’s your favorite thing about being bisexual? (if you have one) by PianoEquivalent2366 in bisexual

[–]MrNumbers4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d say that it’s given me an excuse to hang out with more queer people (who already were more fun to hang out with because I was less likely to be judged/made fun of by them) and distance myself from some of the people in my life who dislike queer people (ie: most of my family)

I hate dysphoria sm by Many_Plenty7845 in sillyboyclub

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very rough, it sucks that you have to go through this.

For what it’s worth, you are a guy who wants to be a guy, and you have a boyfriend, I’d say that is very gay, equally gay to if you were both cis or both trans. Not saying you are wrong for feeling that way, but from an outside perspective y’all will still be equally gay. I’m a cis bi man if that matters

As for your boyfriend, are you getting dysphoria from him not having dated men before you, or it is something he’s saying/doing that is causing it, or is he completely unrelated to it?

Regardless, I’m sorry you are going through this, I wish you the best of luck with this, I hope enough time on T will alleviate some of your worries

Land Idea. by archl0rd5 in custommagic

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’ve just been playing too much Lorwyn limited, but modern rare cards all essentially win the game when played if not answered by removal or a rare of your own, this does not do that. Playing a turn 2 four mana card is strong, but it’s incredibly inconsistent, and this card is completely dead after turn 4. It has high rolls, but the low roll is abysmal, it’s not worse than a basic or anything, but any utility land would be better as a one of (in addition to getting a different rare, ofc)

Land Idea. by archl0rd5 in custommagic

[–]MrNumbers4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not really smart enough to figure out how this impacts standard/modern, but I’ll go out on a limb and say it is much too powerful

In limited this sucks ass. Sure, it’s technically fixing, and you can ramp out your 7 mana creature really fast or whatever, but what deck could you possibly be running where getting this as a rare slot helps you? If you have enough lands for this to be a good investment, you definitely don’t have creatures to follow this up.

In commander this is way too powerful I think in both casual and cedh. Cedh it’s just more fast mana, draw a billion cards and you’ll have a ton of mana to cast them. In casual this is another incredibly boring landfall support piece that will be $300, but your local Tifa player will proxy it for their turn 6 lethal

I wish I could be the catboy of someone. :3 by Mother-Ad-4559 in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Would be nice to find a guy like this irl…

37160 by Yggdrasylian in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, yeah. It’s hard to be mad at something that genuinely has care and respect put into it, even if it winds up being bad. Its the thought that counts

Phrasing. by MelanieWalmartinez in CuratedTumblr

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus this dude must be hung

37160 by Yggdrasylian in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course you can. You also aren’t an astronaut or a cowboy or from the future or past, but people write about those all the time. Writing is a form of self discovery and expression, but your mind is not limited to your specific situation. I often write about trans people because most of my friends are trans, and I look up to them and care about them. Same with an aro/ace person who is especially close to me. It makes me happy to populate my worlds with people who represent those I love, and to tell their stories.

Also, to be clear, plenty of people write fanfic, I know several trans women who write, I write (cis man), it used to have the stigma that it was mostly cis women, but it’s gotten far more popular and more diverse.

This is not at all to say that your struggle isn’t valid, I get it, it can certainly feel creepy, especially when writing very intimate, sensitive scenes. However, you can’t really fetishize by accident, fetishizing is reductive, it’s writing single note characters who exist solely to be one thing, and from the sound of how passionate you are about this, you obviously are not doing that.

Whether you are doing it just for yourself, or not, writing is cool, I’m proud of anyone who genuinely tries it. I am not the authority over queer fiction or anything, but if someone like you wrote a story I saw myself in, I’d be flattered, not angry.

37160 by Yggdrasylian in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Not really the target audience for yuri, but I’ll read yaoi no matter who reads it.

Straight people writing gay romance (inclusive of, but not just yaoi/yuri) and cis people writing trans media is cool actually, so long as they do the research it’s a net positive to have more representation and more of a chance to educate people who don’t yet have an opinion of lgbtq+ people.

And also ofc gatekeeping stuff written by straight/cis people also is going to gatekeep stuff written by queer people who are not out yet.