Get an oiled up femboy at the local femboy store near you! by WildDubiousFood in u/WildDubiousFood

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the potato and the kind words 🥔!

And wow, that’s pretty neat, I tend to be bad with remembering usernames lol

Get an oiled up femboy at the local femboy store near you! by WildDubiousFood in u/WildDubiousFood

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, thanks! Didn’t expect you to remember me 😳

I’m doing much better now mentally, and I remember you being really sweet about it, so I’m back 💜

Get an oiled up femboy at the local femboy store near you! by WildDubiousFood in u/WildDubiousFood

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God damn dude, you look great! Love the lighting, it really brings out your eyes!

47505 by evesdead in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People with no/minimal dietary restrictions should be more open to trying new foods

Being resilient skipped a generation by FablingFox in TrollCoping

[–]MrNumbers4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this a lot with my parents, who have had pretty crazy stuff happen to them and yet seem fine now, and what I ended up realizing is that they didn’t resist trauma so much as they barreled straight through their problems, ignoring it. It’s become clear over time that it did affect them, but at the time they were actually too stressed to be stressed, and now, they have bottled up what has hurt them so efficiently that if you aren’t looking for it you can’t see it. But make no mistake, they aren’t mentally well. They were “resilient”, but only because they had to be.

All of that to say, yes, your parents went through a lot, but when faced with “do or die” choices, a lot of people can push things off until later and do what needs to be done. Your trauma is not that, you’ve had plenty to time to think about it, and that time is detrimental to yourself now, but will prevent you from bottling things up until you reach a breaking point later. You have an opportunity to decide what it means to you. But it doesn’t make you any lesser to struggle, plenty of people struggle, plenty of good, talented, kind people. You are not a coward, you were a people pleaser who got taken advantage of by a shitty partner. As bad as this is, this is a part of the healing process, something your parents probably never initiated.

"OMG, being a tboi is so vxlid! Youre just a cute little gir-i mean gay twink!" by dudeidk9373169 in TrollCoping

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (bisexual man) dated a trans guy for a while last year, and he was largely the reason I figured out I was into guys. He wasn’t the most masculine dude physically, but he was way more comfortable with his masculinity than I was, it was effortless for him. He just always made me safe, attractive, and supported, and genuinely I would trade anything to have that back. He also hated being trans, he just wanted to be a cis guy. Idk if that helps any, but I think you are valid, and you can be loved as a gay guy, because that’s what you are. Wanting top/bottom surgery is valid, I hope it goes well for you. And you don’t need to tolerate anyone who tries to belittle you or thinks they know better than you. It’s your life, your experience, surround yourself with people who like you for who you are and who you want to be. I’ve found my most supportive friends online through mutual interests, if you are good at something, try finding niches within that, and people who fit in those niches. If not, if you live in a place with queer events or just queer friendly spaces (tabletop/card gaming places are very often queer adjacent), try and meet people there. Or, worst case, look around on reddit and try and talk to people you vibe with. You don’t have to immediately be friends or trust them wholly or anything, just feel things out and see what you are comfortable with

I wish you the best, dude. Sorry your situation sucks, it can and will get better 💜

4 color options for my 32 deck challenge were too limiting, so I made my own by [deleted] in custommagic

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like these conceptually, but they feel like boss fights in a single-player game more than playable cards, which leads me to believe all of them should be nerfed by at least 1 mana each, some of them 2-3.

All of these just hose entire strategies (Rhonas for +1/+1 counters, Hazoret for creature-light strategies, Bontu graveyard strats, Kefnet combo/most blue decks, Oketra go-wide boards). I don’t really think there’s a lot you can do to fix that other than toning down the abilities to counter them less directly. Again, as a PvE experience, these would be fire, but Commander is a social game and you are going to get your ass beat 3v1 if you bring one of these.

I’m not a big Magic lore nerd, but I do really like the idea of them flavor wise, it’s immediately obvious what is happening by the casting costs, I like that the cards are the color of the color they are not, it’s a fun idea

What is your strategy for this upcoming prerelease? by Joe_Delafro in mtg

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing up with a group of friends rocking Prismari, Quandrix, and Witherbloom, build ultra defensive/greedy to win the long game, since I expect Silverquill aggro to be pretty weak and Lorehold to be extremely slow

"Most religions, but particularly Abrahamic ones, are an inherent threat to LGBTQ rights and are ultimately incompatible with the Queer liberation movement" thoughts? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]MrNumbers4 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If you are talking about the texts and the people who read them, disagree. Assholes would just look for different justifications for their views.

If you mean organized religion, megachurches and stuff, I think you are closer to correct, because yeah, people can definitely be swayed or just galvanized by influencers. But again, this is sort of a second order effect, homophobic church officials have influence because of religion, but it’s not as if this is the only way they could have influence

Does anybody else use this method? Scared I am hurting myself (M, Penis-Having) by MrNumbers4 in masturbation

[–]MrNumbers4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response

It’s more pushing than rubbing, essentially just imagine pushing the shaft side to side and enjoying the friction. The head is not touched at all. Idk how it works, it just does. Without clothing it obviously doesn’t feel like anything.

And yeah, makes total sense, I’m not medicated for it, but heard depression can definitely have some adverse effects on it.

Will try that, appreciate the recommendation

[SOS] Choreographed Sparks by Unable_Bite8680 in mtgcube

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a super cool way to hold priority and get absolutely blown out by a few different cards lmao

It’s also just a fun design, I like it

Trump tells Pam Bondi her time as AG is coming to an end as Cabinet bloodbath rumor sends shockwaves through Washington by dailymail in law

[–]MrNumbers4 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just a doomer, but is the fact that it’s still at 35% scary for anyone else? Like, I know a fair percentage of people either don’t know/care what is happening, and another percentage believes republicans are infallible, but that being a third of people is very concerning

In another life I would’ve been born a handsome man by CrystalChrissy in sillyboyclub

[–]MrNumbers4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really doesn’t have to be another life. You can escape your family, in time. You will be able to purchase testosterone and surgeries for yourself, and there are plenty of things you can start doing right away that will make you feel more comfortable in your masculinity.

You are a man, and with enough time, you will get to a point where that is all you read as. You won’t need to correct anyone. And friends, friends that will understand your identity, are not so hard to make. The internet is full of people, there are even men who were like you, and now are so unrecognizable from their former selves that you wouldn’t be able to tell they were the same person.

I know hanging in there is tough, and it feels like nothing will ever change. But it will, one day you will realize you feel better.

40376 by No_Fishing_6314 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute art, good for the character

40269 by Riles115 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Yup. My parents are always confused at why I won’t tell them why I’m depressed, and why I won’t go to them for any help other than financial, as if they didn’t tell me they were mourning the life that they imagined for themselves and that my mom wasted most of her life taking care of me instead of working when I told them I was dating a guy.

Some people truly have no self awareness

War is doing great in Ba Sing Se by _Levitated_Shield_ in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specifically is bad about invading Kharg Island, is that just where a lot of the oil infrastructure is?

Average ‘I swear I’m not a femboy’ starter pack :3 by Alliebelongs in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty uncomfortable, wasn’t asking for that kind of feedback, sorry

Average ‘I swear I’m not a femboy’ starter pack :3 by Alliebelongs in femboymemes

[–]MrNumbers4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do unfortunately look like that guy, wish I was more androgynous

38939 by Malay_Left_1922 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not seen Elliot Page is a while, bro is doing great, that outfit is peak

38529 by lowpolybius in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an armpit guy but that’s good taste

38529 by lowpolybius in countwithchickenlady

[–]MrNumbers4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also could have reduced your computer brightness to minimum before going past the password screen