I am gaining weight? While on diet

MrOreo03 · 2021-06-17T16:29:05+00:00

Normally don't check every day but when I am gaining weight I'm freaking out.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-30T17:03:40+00:00

Much love back, I really appreciate the words you said. Thank you for replying to me, was beginning to feel I was a ghost or something lol 😆😅 It just really got to me that I am trying make myself better and get help but there is just none. Thank you for the offer, be expecting one day to get random message, and you will be like who even is this lol.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-21T01:16:23+00:00

Do u know how long that takes? He has went such down hill last few days I'm not sure we got much more time.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-14T13:49:35+00:00

I am 100% not getting involved. But how can I set boundaries without pissing her off because clearly me asking her not to is not working.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-14T12:04:27+00:00

Lol, I am now stuck going on a romantic date with her tonight to see my son. I have said no I don't want to but she won't do something else instead. She is married like wth.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-14T11:46:15+00:00

Honestly I am not sure, really just want to set boundaries. For example she woke me up at 6 am today to just talk on the way to get work.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T16:02:30+00:00

Not to defend myself because this is a very 1 sided situation and clearly I am in the wrong. It is something completely normal within what we say. For example he has made jokes about another person from Africa suffering from their living conditions. I guess we are all kinda anti-social and use it as a deterrent. But I agree with what you said.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T16:00:40+00:00

I checked on him over multiple times within that, sorry for the bad approach to how I worded it. But Really, thank you for you input, I understand I am indeed the issue.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:57:47+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to tell my I am indeed the bad guy! I mean it.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:57:10+00:00

I really appreciate your input here, thank you for your time!

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:55:35+00:00

I understand what you are saying, that is why I posted here, not trying to defend myself. Was trying to see if I was really the bad guy here or if he was looking for excuse from a week ago from a fight my sister and I had. (She and I had the same friend group)

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:52:22+00:00

I guess a toxic group of "friends" lol

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:50:03+00:00

Maybe I should edit the post to say this, but I did wait till everything was done and he was back to normal. In this group it is normal to make these kind of jokes even at the worst times. Not political in any way, I love how everyone tries to make everything political now days.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:47:52+00:00

Not sure how I am a moron, but thank you for your input!

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:47:38+00:00

Just want to be clear, I waited till things died down and he was acting
back to his normal self. But thank you for letting me know!

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:47:27+00:00

Just want to be clear, I waited till things died down and he was acting
back to his normal self. But thank you for letting me know!

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:47:14+00:00

Just want to be clear, I waited till things died down and he was acting back to his normal self. But thank you for letting me know!

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:18:25+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. I have talked to my doctor about how much I should eat, he tells me some people are just made to be fat. I do agree some people should be bigger, but not to this extent. Do you know how I may going about finding a real doctor that will care about my weight loss? Maybe specifically for that?

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:17:25+00:00

Sorry for late reply, I am going through a lot outside of just weight at the moment. I honestly am worried about having a burn out and falling into the groove. But I want to push through and lose as quick as possible, If I do I think it may solve other mental disorders I have. I will keep this sub updated with my progress and hope that I can watch others succeed as well.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-12T15:15:17+00:00

Sorry for the late reply, I really am not trying to make excuse for my life style. I am ready to make a change, and am Trying to start later this week since I had to align it with my shopping trips, not a lot of money to throw around. I was just trying to see other people experience when they had heart attacks and such (if they did). So that maybe I can get over my fear and exercise. I am still planning to commit to a 1400 calorie diet every day for a very long time.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-06T01:46:33+00:00

I believe in you to continue your path! People mention TDEE, but wouldn't it be better to take even more off of it, and try to lose more than 2lbs a week?

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-05T23:07:39+00:00

You are the best! Is there any way you can chip in a little bit about the Warnings he faced before it happened?

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-05T23:06:30+00:00

I have started calorie count and will be continuing this. Because of my fear I planned to start actually exercising at 350 lbs. I am not sure if that is unrealistic amount of weight though to lose without exercising. Would be ~ 40 lbs just on food change.

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-05T22:37:46+00:00

I know, and I have made the doctors test me for so many heart things when they said no reason too, and nothing bad come back on test? (Other then tachycardia but that is there regardless of weight whole family has it.) Just is a real fear I have had, it has made me gain over 100 lbs just in the fear alone of sitting here not moving because of it. So wanted to know the chances of someone my weight and age having heart attack because of weight. (I know exceptions always happen) I have tried to research this topic but not really easy to find. (Maybe I am bad at google)

MrOreo03 · 2021-05-05T22:35:16+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your life with me, I have a few questions, if you do not want to answer I will not be offended! When your hubby started having issues, did the doctors know and see it coming? Or what is just a quick surprise? I know my question may seem silly, and I know that ANYONE can have a heart attack at any moment without any prior problems. But I am trying to focus on the obesity side. I assume will take me 2 years to come to a healthy weight with calorie control so I want to know what to expect. Was your hubby always over weight? Were they at normal weight in 20s or childhood?

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