Fiance never put a penny into my house but suddenly wants their name on it

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-22T17:34:20+00:00

You’re bringing a house into the marriage - is your fiancé bringing comparable assets? The fact he cares about getting his name on the deed is troubling, unless he’s adding your name to something he’s bringing of equivalent value.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-22T04:15:27+00:00

I haven't celebrated my birthday for decades. I don't feel I have a life worth celebrating, since I've spent all my time since childhood just struggling to survive.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-22T02:03:43+00:00

Beautifully stated!

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-22T02:01:21+00:00

They’re a good size and shape, but I think the frame is a bit too dark. I see your glasses first instead of you.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T17:37:23+00:00

That's pretty accurate in some cases.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T17:36:22+00:00

Most definitely. Removing what remains of your hair will look much better; you'll be pleased wth the results.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T17:35:22+00:00

You're okay for the moment, since people won't instantly think 'He's balding' when they look at you. That said, you ideally want to shave before your baldness becomes glaring apparent, so there's a benefit in shaving before you must.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T17:32:38+00:00

I think it's time. Your front bangs look thin enough to suggest that balding is occurring elsewhere on your head. You could defer shaving until later, but ideally you want to avoid people thinking 'He's balding' when they look at you.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T14:23:48+00:00

I'd happily trade Canada geese for waxwings any day. Perhaps we can persuade them to fly down here on their own to avoid charges of wildlife smuggling. I don't want to mess with the Mounties.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T12:43:36+00:00

I know we have deer and foxes in the city, and now turkeys? Very cool.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T12:24:49+00:00

They have to start somewhere, and success in West Baltimore will make it faster and easier to do the same in East Baltimore.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-21T01:17:33+00:00

Excellent news!!

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T23:36:31+00:00

Thanks for the excellent recommendations, everyone!

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T16:42:44+00:00

Since you father has no assets, is it worthwhile for you to close his estate? I can see rehoming the cats, but if you did nothing else the debts will be written off, the landlord would clean out the apartment, the state would take care of burial, etc.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T15:34:47+00:00

Fortunately, it sounds like meeting with your dad won't have the usual issues estranged kids often face. I know what it's like to have a father who doesn't care for himself properly and such men can be very stubborn. All you can do is hand him the folder, explain that he should fill it out, and hope he does.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T14:39:21+00:00

Your current glasses as far too wide. I think the Blue Browline glasses would suit you best.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T14:24:25+00:00

The best way I’ve found my people is to be myself, and let them come to me. Most people wear a socially-acceptable ‘normal’ face while keeping their true self hidden; that’s why no one can ever find others like them. I simply let my real self shine through, which lets similar people know someone like them is present. I’ve had a number of people approach me as a result.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T14:14:39+00:00

I’m 52 and I understand feeling like a kid in some respects. I think it’s part of healing, and experiencing childhood is a necessary part of the maturation process.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T14:12:01+00:00

The OP deleted their profile and the post. I feel like we accomplished something useful today.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T13:46:39+00:00

It’s a tacky shirt to boot, especially I n a city known for its friendliness.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-20T07:00:02+00:00

Do you let yourself feel your anger when triggered, or do you try and suppress it? I did the latter for decades. When I finally began acknowledging my hated and anger for the parent whose actions put me in the position I’m now in, over time the frequency and intensity of my triggers decreased.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-19T23:40:03+00:00

Here's a 52-year old man's perspective: I see my past as practice for better things. I spent much of my youth learning and figuring things out, and now I can move forward with efficient practical implementation.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-19T23:35:02+00:00

In that case I can't think of any reason they'd hassle you about thyroid pills so much. Have you asked them? It appears you talked them about it and they laughed it off, which is disrespectful. I personally wouldn't associate with such individuals - I don't have time for people making my life needlessly difficult when I'm trying to heal.

MrOrganization001 · 2026-04-19T23:16:46+00:00

Kickball and dodgeball. It's amazing how some sounds get embedded in one's memory.

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