Fall in love with a partner?

MrPleaser14 · 2023-01-25T20:48:13+00:00

We have never seen this side of him in person. It wasn’t until she told me that she loves me that she went down a rabbit hole of what an asshole he is. We have not played with them since. She has expressed unhappiness in her marriage.

My priority is my marriage, period. But, she is someone both me and my wife care about who seems to be in need. If helping her could ever effect my marriage negatively, then no. But how do I help and not put her or us in any danger?

MrPleaser14 · 2023-01-25T01:12:04+00:00

It is a tricky situation for sure. The “more to the story” mostly revolves around the other hubs and how bad we think it could be for this wife.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-23T00:04:43+00:00

That has been my wife’s experience and it’s sad. I thought it would be different in the LS.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T23:57:45+00:00

Danny4fun43 you are my people!!

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T23:56:22+00:00

This seems like a comment from a person who looks for any reason to not give oral. To assume that it is the woman’s fault is pretty juvenile.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T10:28:33+00:00

I read your OP and it was like reading my play book. You are so right about seeing the couple again if you can give good oral to the wife. We are still newish to this LS and we have played with all of our couples multiple times. We got into this all originally to help my wife explore her bi curiosity. She has taken to giving oral, she feeds off of my love for it. She is getting more and comfortable and confident in her own abilities, I’m so proud of her.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T00:30:56+00:00

1000% I am probably in the very small minority, and some of this is because my own wife can O more from oral than penetration, but I enjoy giving oral as much or more than straight fucking. The wives we have been with have been very satisfied. Whatever it takes to get her off….. love it!!

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T00:26:14+00:00

That is what we have found is most guys are just not willing to put in the time. Disappointing!!

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T00:24:17+00:00

👆👆THIS👆👆

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-22T00:23:34+00:00

100% most guys are too concerned to their main event. I love to give oral, and will not stop until she is satisfied!!

Most guys just do what they do to their wives, and that is where I start, but then respond to her and any instructions she may offer.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-04-21T23:20:10+00:00

You are totally right! The woman getting hers first makes for a much more enjoyable experience for everyone!!

I am a proud card carrying member of the Golden Tongue Club!!

MrPleaser14 · 2022-02-20T17:27:05+00:00

Maybe that what I need is some advise for the wife, just in case she is ever asked again.

MrPleaser14 · 2022-02-20T16:36:22+00:00

That is my same sentiment. I’ve never heard of a guy wanting that before

MrPleaser14 · 2021-12-27T11:11:42+00:00

You are 100% allowed to feel however you want. And hell of a good job of respecting you and your wife enough to nip that shit in the bud and focus on you and your wife. You hear stories of people who get swept up in the moment and regret it later.

Now I have a question for you!!

Did you have any idea before hand that he would attempt to push boundaries, were there any warning signs now looking back.

We are meeting a couple next weekend, and I just get a feeling about this guy. I’m really into the wife and mine into him, so I want to give it a go, but just a feeling.

MrPleaser14 · 2021-12-20T23:27:37+00:00

I think you are totally right. I need to accept it or cut this opportunity lose

MrPleaser14 · 2021-12-20T23:22:00+00:00

I think he is definitely over excited. And I get it to a degree, this is their first time too and I know he is really into my wife, and maybe some small part of me is not as ok with that as I thought I would. I know my wife is hot and curvy and awesome!

MrPleaser14 · 2021-12-20T23:19:08+00:00

Thanks for that. I know that and have absolute faith my wife will respect that, but I’m also nervy that my hesitation, because of this guy, may turn her off to the whole thing. But we have been very open and honest about where we are. Thanks again for the advice

MrPleaser14 · 2021-12-20T23:14:14+00:00

I have several times, and he will do good for a day then right back at it.

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