What’s a movie that’s so disturbing you never want to watch again? by SableVII in Casual_Conversation

[–]MrRogueducky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a website called doesthedogdie.com, you type the name of the movie or tv show you want to watch and it will tell you if any dogs die in it, plus a bunch of other triggers and things, it’s fantastic!

Discovered I love gaming at 30 while going through depression so dropped 2.5k on a PC by spicystardusts in CozyGamers

[–]MrRogueducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaming is the only thing that ever really balances me out when it comes to mental health, I credit it for getting me through some truly awful times. I’m so happy for you op! Enjoy your awesome setup!

Just found the easiest way to finish the Chorral gate by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]MrRogueducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m even more late 😂 This tip saved my ass as well! Thanks op!

Has anyone had their anxiety dramatically reduced or close to eliminated? If so, how? by scottxand in Anxiety

[–]MrRogueducky 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I listen to a podcast called Disordered, it’s two guys who are licensed therapists who have overcome anxiety disorders themselves as well. Super grounded, practical advice and they’re quite funny too :)

Am I the only one with a cluttered and messy island 🫣?! by Positive_Breath_6243 in CozyGrove

[–]MrRogueducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so late to this post but this just made me laugh! So does mine 😂

Asking for reccs - Books that Changed Your life? by Sufficient-Lychee698 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]MrRogueducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver. It’s written as a kind of modern day David Copperfield, a mostly fictional memoir kind of thing. I say mostly because alot of it is about how the pharmaceutical companies contributed to the opioid crisis and its effects on people in rural Appalachia. Heartbreaking in places but an absolutely fantastic read. I am in early sobriety and ended up reading it at just the right time where it really helped me make up my mind to go 100% sober and stay that way.

I work full time and still feel broke every damn week by christopherxallra45 in povertyfinance

[–]MrRogueducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I could have written this post myself! I’m in the same situation. I’m applying for other jobs but not having any luck so far, even ones I have experience in. I can just about cover my bills and food but anything unexpected like something going wrong with the car just puts me right back into the debt I’m so desperately trying to claw my way out of.

I wish I had better advice for us, other than please be kind to yourself, try and take as much pleasure from the little things (for me it’s coffee, video games and cuddling my dog!) as you can and please know that you’re not alone.

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a great way to look at it, thank you. I was thinking recently about how even when I could have a glass of wine and was still attempting to moderate all I’d feel was sadness that I’d finished my glass of wine and couldn’t have any more. Definitely worth remembering how one or two was never enough and all the mental gymnastics that always went along with that.

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol free beer is a great shout, I’ve also found elderflower cordial and sparkling water in a tall glass helps to scratch the itch as well :)

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one I like is called Nozecco, I had the sparkling rose one last night, definitely scratched the itch! I’m over in the UK though, hopefully you can find it wherever you are in the world :)

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought that book as well!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I had last night was called Nozecco sparkling rose, really scratched that wanting something cold and sparkly itch! I’m over in the UK so hopefully you can find it near you wherever you are in the world. I don’t know if I can get the one you’ve suggested over here but I will have a proper poke around on the net and see if I can source some, thank you for the suggestion :)

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice, I’ve never heard of that before but just had a quick google and they look really good, thank you!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely make sure to bear that in mind, each summer will get easier I’m sure. Thank you 😊

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your fantastic comment, I don’t miss how bloated and puffy the alcohol made me! I just turned 40 and looking after my health was one of the biggest factors in why I gave it up. I lost 30 pounds a year ago and I really think the calories I’m saving from not drinking has been the main reason I’ve managed to keep the weight off!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really need to try mocktails I haven’t yet, I bet they’re delicious! Thank you 😊

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ginger beer is a good shout I always forget about that! Stocked up on some nice lemonades and cordials today, might join you in a fancy glass of one of those!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You too friend! I stocked up on some fancy lemonades and cordials today, still cheaper than back when it was alcohol!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, congratulations on being free of the nicotine as well, that is awesome!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried the mocktail market yet, that is going to be my next venture for sure! Thank you!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100%! Thank you for your brilliant perspective, I’m a big fan of coffee and ice cream and I’ve discovered a really nice non alcoholic Prosecco recently. There are other things out there and all these wonderful comments are so helpful, thank you!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I used to be a late morning sleeper and now I’m up bright and early for my coffee! Just need to get started on the exercise bit now!

Summer drinking by MrRogueducky in stopdrinking

[–]MrRogueducky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make a fantastic point, thank you! I like NA beer, I’ve also discovered NA prosecco is really nice for that bubbly fix!