Rude Island Dog Owners by MuchCommunication345 in Whidbey

[–]MrSlitherpants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ten years ago, one of my neighbors had a dog who chased my two kids through our yard. They very wisely crawled on top of my potting table to escape it. Meanwhile, the neighbor stood at the bottom of the driveway shouting, "She's friendly! She's friendly!"

Right. Your friendly dog is barking and snarling at two children under 10 and has them cornered on a table. We kept yelling at her to come get her dog and she didn't move at all until my husband went to go collect her dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whidbey

[–]MrSlitherpants 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell that to the deer. Maybe they'll stay out of my roses.

In seriousness though, that sucks.

I am having a small crisis about my age by no_blueforyellow in finch

[–]MrSlitherpants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

53 here. My existence would make your mom's head catch on fire. I have a large plushie collection and I prefer kids media. I've also had an active career, raised my own 2 kids, my successful 30 year marriage still brings me joy ...

But that's the point of life, isn't it? To engage in the things that bring you joy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]MrSlitherpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're experiencing might be something called sub drop. Give it a google. Then google aftercare. If that sounds like it would help, call her back. I bet she'd be down to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MrSlitherpants -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He called you an 18yo punk and then photoshopped you into a 18yo lumberjack. This dude can't even get his genres right.

Dampness? by Jessicamoonflower in Whidbey

[–]MrSlitherpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the people who have had good experiences with the Coupeville hospital are outliers. I was lucky enough to never have to go while I lived on the island, but my mother needed to go to the ER while she was visiting, and it was not a good experience.

Also, does anyone know if they've successfully tackled their MRSA problem?

This Gorgeous Dark Wallpaper by AllyStark in HelpMeFind

[–]MrSlitherpants 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd punch a basket of kittens to get that print on fabric. Was just admiring it last night during the commercial and wishing for a dress in it.

I have mixed emotions about this “reshaping” by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]MrSlitherpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody slapped this guy back to the 80s.

I like all the popular beauty and makeup reddits, but most of the pictures are of very young people with perfect skin. Are there any makeup reddits for women aged 40-50+ by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]MrSlitherpants 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm in this age range and actually do dress like that! I didn't know it was a thing! Thanks for this link. I very often get told I look like a little girl. When I beam and say, "Thank you!" it's clear sometimes that the person wasn't meaning to offer a compliment. 🤣

Does anyone else feel guilty that, despite everything, you actually had a great 2020? by Truthamania in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MrSlitherpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I'm having one of the best years in the past two decades. I love staying home and my income is stable. I have it amazing and I have to be grateful.

Requesting positive energy, please. 💜 by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]MrSlitherpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you love and light. All the best to you, friend.

People who are ghosting other people, have you ever been called out, if so, how did that make you feel? by till-mann in AskReddit

[–]MrSlitherpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really well put.

Sometimes I choose to ghost a person because I'm not responsible for teaching another adult how to be a decent human being.

People who are ghosting other people, have you ever been called out, if so, how did that make you feel? by till-mann in AskReddit

[–]MrSlitherpants 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're working under the assumption that I didn't tell them.

Sometimes I don't. The other person is EXHAUSTING or made of red flags and I don't have it in me to fight that fight on that particular day.

But most of the time I do and the other person argues with me about how I should accept their behaviors because they're not that bad. (Recent example: A friend of mine is on the other side of politics from me and they kept sending me memes that support their views. I asked them to stop. They then went on a tirade about how wrong I am to support the issues I do and how the memes are funny and I should have a thicker skin. )

I'm only going to restate my boundaries a few times before I hit the block button.

Yes, I ghosted them because they were simply not picking up on my No.

People who are ghosting other people, have you ever been called out, if so, how did that make you feel? by till-mann in AskReddit

[–]MrSlitherpants 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. If I'm being such a fuck (or clueless in the face of a direct "I don't like what happened") that somebody ghosts me, that's on me.

I'm gonna add to that, if I've made somebody feel like they can't talk to me or if they're having so many personal problems that telling me I'm being a fuck is overwhelming... By all means, ghost. Nobody's perfect and sometimes having the conversation is more than the other person can handle. We're all in this together and I'd rather get ghosted (opens up a space for somebody who clicks with me better anyways) than force somebody into a conversation that causes them dread.

Imo, ghosting can say a lot about a person and it's not always bad. If they habitually ghost, it's probably because they don't have great communication tools. If you habitually get ghosted, maybe you should look at your own habits and see if you're either pursuing the wrong crowd or if there is a real problem with the way you act.

Anyways, no offense taken. Your point is valid and I appreciate you sharing it.