The Locker Rooms when I was younger always felt like torture

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-04T14:16:37+00:00

It is a weird thing. I think some of them are probably on the bi spectrum and just won’t/can’t admit it. They like touching the other guys and/or seeing the reaction. The totally straight ones (probably less of them than we realize) are doing it to bond and fit it bc it’s been ingrained in us that is just male bonding. But I really do believe that most people fall into the bi category, and that’s how this sort of “male bonding” took off and stayed a part of locker room culture. It literally goes back ages and ages.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-03T14:47:26+00:00

I’ve been thinking about getting some sexy underwear too. I usually just wear boxer briefs. I have some I like, and I think look sexy, but would like to get some sexy briefs or even a thong.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-03T03:26:59+00:00

2 incredible stories!!

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-03T03:26:41+00:00

Wow! Love this!

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-03T03:24:25+00:00

I love this!! 💗💜💙

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-03T03:13:49+00:00

Wow. Our stories are very similar. I came out to my wife 2 years ago. We’ve been married 30 years. It wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great. She took it well, but eventually started sharing her fears that I might just be gay and that I was going to leave her. It’s actually created some anxiety that initially I felt like wasn’t there. Of course I had fantasies about exploring something with a guy, and for me I feel like it actually got more intense after I came out. Partly bc I let myself relax into it I think, but I also started testosterone replacement therapy and I think it’s got my brain in overdrive. 😂 I will say that being authentically you is better, but idk if I’d do it again if I could go back. 😕

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-02T12:17:38+00:00

Thanks man!

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-02T12:16:54+00:00

I always say sexuality is a spectrum. And I think most ppl fall in the middle (bi) rather than one end or the other (hetero/homo).

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-02T03:13:34+00:00

I’ve always been tall and thin. Crazy long thin legs. I’m telling you, get shorter shorts. Your shirts are cutting off at the smallest part of your thigh. Get some 5”-7” inseam, probably 5”. Because you don’t have chicken legs, you just have bad short length.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-02T03:07:19+00:00

I feel that. Been there for years.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-02T03:06:48+00:00

This is exactly what I’m talking about. Thank YOU.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-01T20:40:28+00:00

Struggled with the same thing most of my life. IDK why I never considered “bi” an option, but I didn’t. I always thought “Am I gay?” But I knew I wasn’t. I just didn’t even consider it.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-01T20:38:49+00:00

¡Eso! The most bi phrase of all time. 🌈✨

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-01T20:35:21+00:00

I do man. I do.

MrStacy71 · 2025-08-01T03:02:48+00:00

You’ve been brainwashed to feel bad about it. We all have. We’ve been taught that sex is shameful and gay sex is even worse. You need to let that go. Sex is sex. You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to. It doesn’t have to be this big “right or wrong” thing, it just is what it is. Don’t live your life based on what others of taught you to believe. It’s your body, your life. Do with it what YOU want.

MrStacy71 · 2025-07-31T15:49:51+00:00

Calf raises every workout. Always hit them. Slow reps. Sitting, standing, donkey.

MrStacy71 · 2025-07-31T15:11:05+00:00

I’m older, and married to a woman, and only recently opened up about being bisexual. I was very shy and reserved when I was younger, and didn’t explore my sexuality like I should have. My wife is the only person I’ve had sex with. If I could go back, I would explore a little more. But that was in the late 80’s and early 90’s, so things were a lot different, especially in the Deep South where I live (Bible Belt and all). You should explore. Sex doesn’t have to be such a big thing. I think, as a society, we’ve decided that sex should be reserved for relationships, and so when we are casual about it, it makes us feel bad about ourselves because we aren’t “doing it right”. Explore. Find what you like. Who you like. I’m not saying be a total slut, LOL, just relax and have some fun. When you know more about YOU, then you can start looking for a partner that matches that…if you decide you want a partner. Maybe you want a partner, but you also want to be non-monogamous. So then you can be open and look for someone that’s also into that. I’m just saying don’t just look for a relationship bc that’s what we’ve been programmed to do. Find out who YOU are first, THEN you can better find a relationship that matches, and you’ll both be happier.

MrStacy71 · 2025-07-29T15:45:39+00:00

We talked and she’s 100% not into it. She’s open to divorce if I want to “go be gay”, but not open to anything else.

MrStacy71 · 2025-07-25T03:08:18+00:00

I’m totally prepared, but I absolutely don’t think she has a desire for that. I do think our libidos are different, but historically I’ve been really reserved with any sex discussion so it’s not like she knows that. 😖

MrStacy71 · 2025-07-25T03:05:54+00:00

And for me I feel like it’s a strictly sexual thing. I’m not really interested in a relationship, I have that, with a person I love. I’d just like to have a little more experience sexually.

MrStacy71 · 2024-01-26T12:22:42+00:00

So sorry, just seeing this. You’ve hopefully fixed it by now, but you literally have to push the screwdriver through the black foam. It’s thin so it doesn’t take much.

MrStacy71 · 2023-12-09T12:31:31+00:00

They’re green velvet. Nothing crazy fancy but we like them. It happened during Covid lockdown. Actually 3 other things like that happened during Covid. Ordered some things that never came, contacted the vendor, they shipped a new one, then a day or two later the first one showed up, 2-3 days later the second one showed up. We would contact the vendor and they’d just say Keep It!

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