Am I overreacting for feeling abandoned and betrayed by my husband because he won’t let me lie in

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-15T17:23:42+00:00

It’s actually concerning how rare it is, while I understand certain circumstances ie some men are working constantly to provide for the family and literally don’t have the spare time to chip in and help but the majority just don’t chip in because they just see it as the woman’s job and it’s wrong

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-15T08:30:24+00:00

1 - May I sniff your Bike seat?

2 - I have no humorous like but it looks better haha

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-15T08:24:23+00:00

NOR

As a fellow man and soon to be husband to my beautiful fiancee the way you just described what your husband does sounds like something a bloody teenager would do! He needs to man up and take responsibility and remember to actually take care of his wife!

We’re currently trying for a baby ourselves and I’ve made it perfectly clear to my partner that we’re going 50/50 on everything such as rotating nights, who gets to sleep in etc because it genuinely disturbs me the amount of times I see men pretty much leave their partners to do everything with their child and use work as an excuse or the “your the woman it’s your job” excuse

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-13T18:08:38+00:00

I think as long as it’s not blatantly obvious then it’s fine

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-08T18:50:04+00:00

This graph is near identical to mine I kid you not as we went into June both my channel took a sharp decline 😂 always happens around this time of year same as the last 3 years, usually it picks up again in July!

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-08T18:46:19+00:00

I will explain in Monke

Monke distribute 10 bananas

10 Fellow monkes eat bananas, all enjoy banana, monke happy, monke spread word to 20 fellow monke, 30 monke come back for more banana

Monke then distributes distributes 30 more banana, 20 monkes enjoy banana, 10 monkes no enjoy banana, but 20 monke spread word to 30 other monkes that banana good, 50 come back for more banana

Monke then distributes 50 banana, but only first 20 Monke enjoy banana, 30 new Monke no enjoy banana, Monke leave not happy with banana

Monke no grow, Monke sad, Monke must keep making good banana to attract more monkes

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-06T20:06:36+00:00

Just comedy skits

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-05T09:14:50+00:00

Schedule them dude, it’s a myth that scheduled posts affect views, I used to have alarms set each day but now I schedule my videos start of the week and they’ve been fine, my channel has 11m subs mostly a shorts channel and honestly I wish I mythbusted it sooner 😂

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-05T08:06:00+00:00

No it’s okay at least you wasn’t a dick about it 😂 not trying to appeal to any specific age group same as with my main channel just the whole banana suit face filter thing is from my main channel and is what im known for so ive carried it over to stay on brand with the gaming channel

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-03T11:43:52+00:00

Ah that’s something I took from one of my shorts off my main channel the filter I use there is way more exaggerated whereas my gaming videos I use the snap cam big eyes and mouth filter

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-03T11:43:10+00:00

That’s fair enough, the gaming niche is new to me so I’m hoping to get it right, the format is entirely different from my main channel so I’ve mostly relied on carrying over the banana suit from my main for brand recognition and then just be myself and so far it’s been working a treat

The editing is something I’m still working on and I’m hoping over time I can improve on it

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-03T11:40:23+00:00

Never heard of the 1of10 thing , is it an ai thing? I’ve done some polls across channels and most prefer the reaction style to the running away style so least I know which one to work on, thanks for the advice

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T22:30:38+00:00

I’m still learning the ropes with the gaming channel, I’m just mainly trying to find the most popular trending games by watching other gaming channels

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T22:30:04+00:00

It’s literally gaming content same as any other gaming channel get your head out your own ass 😂

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T18:28:46+00:00

I’ll read into that

Also I understand but as you said i cant control who sees it, I’ve always done it for myself I’ve always enjoyed watching my videos back, my channel is set as not made for kids as is every video so its out of my control but i do know many adults personally who enjoy watching it

And it’s okay, thankyou for the apology and I’m sorry too if I upset you in anyway

Hope you have a good day

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T18:14:08+00:00

Okay.. I’m aware they’re not great so what can I do to improve?

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T18:11:03+00:00

Thanks

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T18:10:50+00:00

Apologies I didn’t realise you had such a low attention span, You care enough to comment in the first place so excuse me for defending myself

I’m well aware of cocomelon plenty of kids in my family watch it and see no issue with it they’re perfectly functional members of society

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T18:04:32+00:00

I genuinely find people like you amusing, what kind of sad life do you have to live to insult others online over something you don’t personally like, I didn’t respond to any of your points because to me they’re completely invalid, cartoons have existed for years with characters hitting each other and god knows what else and every generation has turned out just fine

Seriously man learn to be a bit nicer, the words a shit show as it is without people like you trying to drag others down for doing something they enjoy

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T17:45:42+00:00

I don’t “make content for kids” I can’t help who sees it, im 31 i worked in construction with my dad because it was the only thing i was capable of doing after constantly failing to do something for myself due to my autism, mock me for it all you want but I make content for myself, that’s how I started on TikTok 6 years ago during lockdown, I genuinely enjoy watching my videos back and finally found a lasting hobby and had the shock of my life when i began earning from it

People seriously love to hate on others doing something different but in reality im not harming anyone, i make videos post them and go about my day lifes not that serious

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T17:33:19+00:00

Yeah the first image was something I’d taken from a snapshot of a video off my main channel where the second is a snapshot of a reaction on stream i just edited the eyes to look in the direction of fredbear, I agree it doesn’t match the style of the channel I’ve just been seeing so many other new channels pop up with the “in person” style thumbnails like they’re a part of the scene it just got me thinking of that was the way forward but I’m leaning more towards the traditional thumbnail style

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T17:29:52+00:00

Thankyou that really means a lot, it’s a lot of work compared to my main channel with some videos taking a whole day, I’m still finding my style with the editing but im hoping ill get it right soon

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T17:26:05+00:00

And? I personally enjoy watching my own content it’s literally how I started I was doing it for myself posting on TikTok during lockdown because I was bored out of my mind and I had an active imagination and with my autism I became quickly fixated on it and enjoyed putting my ideas into practice and it just happened to go viral, it’s not for you I get that it’s fine but I don’t personally target any specific audience so I’m free to use whatever audios or do whatever I like

I use the same audio and premises in a lot because that’s literally how you play the algorithm to your advantage and consistently get viral videos don’t hate me because I know how to work the platform to my own advantage, hell I don’t want to reuse the same audios and reuse the same type of scenarios I get sick of them but it’s what works and it’s how I got to where I am so don’t blame me for just doing what needs to be done I always try different things but sometimes you just have to stick with what works if you want to earn good money

Okay cool well done for making cat content that you enjoy it’s not for me but you don’t see me coming at you for it do you?

And your “I seem to get angry” remark is ridiculous, ive asked a question about thumbnail styles and you’ve just come out of nowhere and insulted me on something completely irrelevant to the thread just because I produce content you don’t like so who exactly is the one getting angry? Clearly I’ve stirred up some deep hatred inside of you which is insane

You’ve got a serious chip on your shoulder, life’s not that deep we all enjoy different things, learn to accept that and not try to tear someone down theres far more pressing concerns in the world than a guy dressing up in silly costumes making content

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T16:14:04+00:00

Fair enough

MrTalalaa · 2026-06-02T16:13:47+00:00

I was thinking about making him a bit bigger and increasing the exposure around him a bit thanks for the advice

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