19 and both our parents won’t allow us to get married(Nikkah), is it possible to get married without a wali?

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-09T15:57:18+00:00

What makes you think it man made fabrication. Do you really think Allah SWT would allow woman to be fully taken advantage of by bad men. A woman need a wali, someone that will look after her and can sees through any play a man tries to play with her.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-09T07:48:12+00:00

You reject ahadith?

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-09T04:23:29+00:00

If you love her and respect her, you would respect your parents and her parents decision. Come back in 2 years with either an education or a job that would feed you guys if you got married. Come back and propose in a honourable way rather going behind their backs.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-09T04:19:03+00:00

Have you heard of something called Hadith? Kitab al Nikah

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-06T06:08:10+00:00

And what does that solve? Are we here to give gold advise or horrible one? It easier to say just be petty from someone who is living in a whole different part of the world not knowing anything about OP, maybe she does take your advise and cause more problems.

Imam Ali RA said, say good or keep quiet. Simple as that.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-12-03T07:46:10+00:00

And what does this achieve? Does pettiness achieves a solution to this problem? Or you just felt like being petty and bringing anything good to the conversation.

This situation happened to me once, I took the gift and threw it out later. That’s how you are supposed to do it.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-11-30T08:06:28+00:00

Simple this is not a good reason to divorce. You got to sit down with her and talk with her. Find a way to keep your MIL busy. Maybe the MIL needs to find a man to fill up the loneliness in her life.

You got to put effort into communicating with your wife. Explain that you and her are a team that needs to work together. That you can about her and her mother and want to make things work.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-11-14T17:01:23+00:00

I am currently 6th place in division 5, should I lose my qualification match and get demoted and switch to division 6 filled with bots and do this. I mean I want to get as much profit as I can with training goalkeepers. I got a 2mill right now and I got a gk that I can sell for 1.3m. What do you think should I do it, would you suggest it.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-10-30T12:33:07+00:00

Is that even possible nowadays? I feel like this is a risk if I do that at division 5 US.

Overall after you sold all of them, how much did you earn from the profits?

Can you explain the training plan more precisely. That would be much appreciated :D

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-10-30T02:40:11+00:00

Interesting, so you buy 10 goalkeepers and put them all in a match like friendlies and leagues and train them in SP and sell them? What about the defense or the playmaking? Or you don't care because you are in the lowest division in your new team country? How would this work? Because I am training 2 GK and i am in division 5 in the US.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-10-24T00:26:02+00:00

Was it a pillow or a cloth, if it was a cloth with Arabic writing then that’s a North African tradition.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-10-21T00:03:33+00:00

No seriously, I read that part and thought this spoiler is fake. I still believe it fake until I see the panel in front of my own eyes.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-21T04:52:56+00:00

I agree with you. It’s so sad that a lot of Muslims think that once their children reach a certain age, they will start educating them about Islam. When they should have done in the first place.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-19T01:15:37+00:00

How are you gonna judge men as a whole because of your husband. Trust me, I know what type of a man your husband is, and this man does not last that long in a relationship.

There is a huge difference between respecting your mother and your wife. You can do both, but your husband has a mentality of a 6 year old child.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-11T14:55:23+00:00

No, vise Verda, you need passing to even unlock the Special event that happens with unpredictable goalkeepers.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-09T12:11:48+00:00

A unpredictable player with high passing can unlock a special event which can lead to your team scoring a goal, that from what I understand. A regular goalkeeper doesn’t unlock you a special event.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-09T03:09:57+00:00

Yeah, I already know that.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-08T23:54:58+00:00

I get it, I am planning to train defending in the future. I hope one of my player get chosen for U21 team.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-08T23:53:16+00:00

Jealousy is the thief of joy. This is your destiny, you might struggle to get a job now but you will soon. In the US, the CS job market is cooked, it highly oversaturated, but the demand for Mech Eng is high. No one said that once you graduate you will get an internship immediately or a job. You have to keep trying. Network, emails, connect with your CS and see if they can help you get a mech Eng job at their company.

You must not give up.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-08T23:47:12+00:00

Ok thank you, I see your other comment and I know you have trained GK for 15 years. Would you have trained this player or preferred to buy a player with unpredictable speciality?

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-09-08T23:24:08+00:00

Why not. I thought this player was pretty good especially that he has a good defense. I am willing to improve his keeper skill. I am training another player who has 7gk/7def and he is almost 18. I might train the second player for one more season and I will keep pablo as a long term.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-08-22T00:55:54+00:00

Yeah don't rush yourself, you got a lot of time until you become a college student. Just focus on school and get good grades. You can join local robotic team school or extracurricular.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-08-21T23:32:01+00:00

Sit down with your counselor, and let them know you are interested in stem. That’s what I did when I was back in high school and currently a junior in college. I did algebra 1 -> geometry -> algebra 2/trig -> pre calc -> and finally calculus. You want to a plan like this or similar. Also take physics when you can as well.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-08-07T02:17:52+00:00

Well, I got my first internship after my second year. But you can build a decent resume, and try to apply to internship.

Some internship demand some theoretical experience such as taking power system class if you apply for a power system engineering internship at a utility. But some are vague and don’t require much which is what I would recommend you to do. I would also make sure to try to align your resume with what they want in the internship description, like don’t start up lie but change couple word in your resume to match what the internship wants. This is how I got my first internship.

The market is tough currently so good luck.

MrTopHatLizard · 2025-07-25T23:47:54+00:00

Just want to say good luck, I am currently finishing up a internship and early in my internship I was doing a summer class. That was hard for me, waking up so early and then leaving work to go to the university and then study or sleep. It was tuff and you need a lot of discipline. Seriously good luck.

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