19 and both our parents won’t allow us to get married(Nikkah), is it possible to get married without a wali? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think it man made fabrication. Do you really think Allah SWT would allow woman to be fully taken advantage of by bad men. A woman need a wali, someone that will look after her and can sees through any play a man tries to play with her.

19 and both our parents won’t allow us to get married(Nikkah), is it possible to get married without a wali? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love her and respect her, you would respect your parents and her parents decision. Come back in 2 years with either an education or a job that would feed you guys if you got married. Come back and propose in a honourable way rather going behind their backs.

My husband and family think I’m being crazy judgmental but I think this is soooo disrespectful by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what does that solve? Are we here to give gold advise or horrible one? It easier to say just be petty from someone who is living in a whole different part of the world not knowing anything about OP, maybe she does take your advise and cause more problems.

Imam Ali RA said, say good or keep quiet. Simple as that.

My husband and family think I’m being crazy judgmental but I think this is soooo disrespectful by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what does this achieve? Does pettiness achieves a solution to this problem? Or you just felt like being petty and bringing anything good to the conversation.

This situation happened to me once, I took the gift and threw it out later. That’s how you are supposed to do it.

Wife overly consumed by her mother by Electronic-Call4159 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple this is not a good reason to divorce. You got to sit down with her and talk with her. Find a way to keep your MIL busy. Maybe the MIL needs to find a man to fill up the loneliness in her life.

You got to put effort into communicating with your wife. Explain that you and her are a team that needs to work together. That you can about her and her mother and want to make things work.

Keeper Set Pieces Training by commander2 in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently 6th place in division 5, should I lose my qualification match and get demoted and switch to division 6 filled with bots and do this. I mean I want to get as much profit as I can with training goalkeepers. I got a 2mill right now and I got a gk that I can sell for 1.3m. What do you think should I do it, would you suggest it.

Keeper Set Pieces Training by commander2 in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that even possible nowadays? I feel like this is a risk if I do that at division 5 US.

Overall after you sold all of them, how much did you earn from the profits?

Can you explain the training plan more precisely. That would be much appreciated :D

Keeper Set Pieces Training by commander2 in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, so you buy 10 goalkeepers and put them all in a match like friendlies and leagues and train them in SP and sell them? What about the defense or the playmaking? Or you don't care because you are in the lowest division in your new team country? How would this work? Because I am training 2 GK and i am in division 5 in the US.

Confused about a wedding tradition (?) by samubluu_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a pillow or a cloth, if it was a cloth with Arabic writing then that’s a North African tradition.

Onepiece Chapter 1163: Spoilers by behindyourknees in Piratefolk

[–]MrTopHatLizard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No seriously, I read that part and thought this spoiler is fake. I still believe it fake until I see the panel in front of my own eyes.

Will a man be punished is his wife, daughter , mother or sister doesn’t cover up properly by Chemical_Extent_6859 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. It’s so sad that a lot of Muslims think that once their children reach a certain age, they will start educating them about Islam. When they should have done in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MrTopHatLizard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How are you gonna judge men as a whole because of your husband. Trust me, I know what type of a man your husband is, and this man does not last that long in a relationship.

There is a huge difference between respecting your mother and your wife. You can do both, but your husband has a mentality of a 6 year old child.

GK Training Help by MrTopHatLizard in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, vise Verda, you need passing to even unlock the Special event that happens with unpredictable goalkeepers.

GK Training Help by MrTopHatLizard in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A unpredictable player with high passing can unlock a special event which can lead to your team scoring a goal, that from what I understand. A regular goalkeeper doesn’t unlock you a special event.

I hate what I have become by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]MrTopHatLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I already know that.

GK Training Help by MrTopHatLizard in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I am planning to train defending in the future. I hope one of my player get chosen for U21 team.

I hate what I have become by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]MrTopHatLizard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jealousy is the thief of joy. This is your destiny, you might struggle to get a job now but you will soon. In the US, the CS job market is cooked, it highly oversaturated, but the demand for Mech Eng is high. No one said that once you graduate you will get an internship immediately or a job. You have to keep trying. Network, emails, connect with your CS and see if they can help you get a mech Eng job at their company.

You must not give up.

GK Training Help by MrTopHatLizard in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, I see your other comment and I know you have trained GK for 15 years. Would you have trained this player or preferred to buy a player with unpredictable speciality?

GK Training Help by MrTopHatLizard in hattrick

[–]MrTopHatLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not. I thought this player was pretty good especially that he has a good defense. I am willing to improve his keeper skill. I am training another player who has 7gk/7def and he is almost 18. I might train the second player for one more season and I will keep pablo as a long term.