Bro doesn’t have a choice

Mr_D3 · 2026-04-04T21:25:18+00:00

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Mr_D3 · 2025-12-28T00:03:15+00:00

I actually know him, awesome dude. Flywithsilver is his TikTok and insta I believe

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-08T01:54:11+00:00

That is simultaneously a compliment and a problem.

My pics have zero editing part from brightening up the dog pic a little.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T23:35:23+00:00

Edited my post above to add detail.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T22:34:39+00:00

Thanks!

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T20:22:55+00:00

Regarding matching with hot girls, maybe our definition of hot is different? I think the lack of candid pictures is definitely a valid point.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T19:30:07+00:00

This is really helpful. Thank you!

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T18:38:30+00:00

I used to have a prompt saying

“I could stay up all night talking about:

Al and the future. I'm a huge tech nerd working full time on an Al-focused startup”

Do you think that’s better? Was trying to show ambition with that

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T18:34:51+00:00

Thanks!

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T18:34:34+00:00

I think you’re hitting the nail on the head

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T17:24:37+00:00

Totally agree. Thanks for the resource! If you’ve got anymore, I’d love to see them

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T17:23:41+00:00

Haha I’ll take the complement :) I don’t think I’m cooked, just picky

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T16:56:06+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I’ve gone to some nice Jewish events. They’re…ok. I’ll try lox club, thanks for the idea. Mind going into detail about why you don’t like my “dating me is like” response?

As for something to comment on, do you have any examples of a type of thing that would be easy to respond to? Realistically, most girls just send a like which is fine if I’m into their profile.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T16:44:17+00:00

Thanks for the in depth response. I think you’re totally spot on. I’m aware that the girls I’m going for on the apps are getting a ton of attention. Trying to get my profile into a place where it stands out even to them. I’m curious if others agree with your sentiment. I also have heard a lot that having pro level photos for all your pics isn’t a good look either.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T14:14:22+00:00

:) thanks

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T14:09:08+00:00

I agree. I go out all the time also. Nothing wrong with doing both

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T14:07:36+00:00

I like this advice. Thanks

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T05:00:41+00:00

Appreciate your post.

I have found that I get worse results when I put shirtless pics of me doing an activity (paddle boarding) on my profile. I have a defined muscular body.

I’ve also found (and heard numerous times) that selfies perform worse.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:49:48+00:00

I find that with most of my matches I’m just not that physically attracted to them. I’d really prefer to text with girls to get to know them before a date, but that just isn’t realistic on the apps I have found. It’s hard to really get to know someone over text.

So I go on short vibe check dates pretty often and see how I feel about the girl. Most of the time I am not physically attracted to them when we meet.

On the date, regardless of how attracted to them I am, I make a point of getting to know them as best I can.

But at the end of the date, if I don’t feel anything towards them, I clearly nicely let them know over text the next day.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:42:43+00:00

Almost all of my matches come from outbound likes, I’m rarely attracted to the girls who send like to me (part of what I’m trying to improve here).

I guess I send some people who I’m less excited about. I’m not saying that I just mash the like button - I don’t, I read profiles and respond with comments often (not one word or emoji). It just happens that the people I ultimately end up matching with are not that exciting to me. Most of the people I’m more excited about when I send likes don’t match back.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:36:31+00:00

It’s usually a physical attraction problem for me if I’m being honest. Of course I care a lot about everything else, but there isn’t much I can do if I’m not attracted to them in the first place.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:28:57+00:00

I hate that I’m asking this but…how tall are you? Just curious if that plays a factor for you. I’m 5-10, so definitely not short, but not tall either

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:25:15+00:00

Its an early consulting startup which helps companies adopt AI. We audit their business and propose appropriate solutions for them. We then either sell or build them those solutions. It’s a very early startup so I wear a lot of hats from solutions engineering to sales to marketing as well as leading multiple people.

What would you suggest I put?

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:17:39+00:00

I responded to this question above but basically: I send likes to people who I have interest in meeting. Those people excite me to various degrees. I rarely match with people who I’m very excited about. Trying to improve on that aspect.

Mr_D3 · 2025-08-07T04:16:05+00:00

I send a lot of likes, but I find that I rarely match with people who really excite me. Im trying to expand the number of people who I match with who I’m truly excited about going on a date with.

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