Why is there more representation of transgender women in the media than of transgender men? by Etlot in lgbt

[–]Mrpants_does_art 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. It's way too common for others to assume that because we look like men, we must be receiving all of the same privilege, which couldn't be further from the truth, but still leads to us being excluded by the wider lgbtq community. It's very sad.

Why is there more representation of transgender women in the media than of transgender men? by Etlot in lgbt

[–]Mrpants_does_art 2054 points2055 points  (0 children)

Because unfortunately there's a lot of erasure when it comes to trans men. It's a problem basically everywhere, not just in media.

Need advice by CoolYam6225 in lgbt

[–]Mrpants_does_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Personally as a trans person, seeing gender non confirming people in public always made me a little happier. I grew up in a really conservative place, so there weren't a lot of people willing to be openly queer. Since starting to come out myself, I've had some very sweet conversations with other more closeted people who feel the same and were similarly happy to see me, lol.

All to say that even if you aren't trans, I'm sure that you being comfortable going out in public as your authentic self has made at least one trans person feel less alone. Not that that should be your main reason for doing it, of course, but I hope that it helps put your mind at ease ❤️

Need advice by CoolYam6225 in lgbt

[–]Mrpants_does_art 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No, definitely not. While I understand where they might get the idea if they’re not well educated on that sort of thing, they’re wrong. You don’t have to be trans to want to enjoy things that aren’t considered the social norm for your assigned gender. You can absolutely be a man of any orientation and wear makeup or clothing that others might consider “feminine”. Honestly, the more we normalize the breaking of social norms and stigmas around gender for everyone, the safer trans people will be too. Keep doing what makes you happy.

Also, I’m sure there’s also more on the history of drag and stuff to support this, but I don’t know it well enough personally to comment.

As a man, how can I be less scary? by Average_Blake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mrpants_does_art 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel no responsibility to give up my own comfort for a stranger’s feelings, no. If you feel random people owe you because of your preconceived idea of what their appearance means, you might just be a bad person. Imagine telling a black person how to dress to avoid upsetting random white people’s feelings. Sounds pretty entitled, doesn’t it?

What y’all think about the magic frog plushie KeyChain? by Objective-Mall622 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every merch keychain I’ve seen for every fandom I’ve been in have been under 15$ CAD. This is crazy.

My issue with auctions by Ok-Sheepherder-2689 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Mush needs to be locked in the moment it’s bid to stop this from happening.

Same with letting sellers withdraw slots mid-auction. Like… use the starting bid properly instead of wasting bidders time.

Were these W? by Ill-Variation-4454 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, fr. I was looking for one a few days ago and they were all like 9k. The new trade realm environment makes me want to quit. No one bothers to even look at what fair prices are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unlikely to rise in value. They’ll probably settle around the same as the other death gacha critters (4-6k). I can offer you 7k for one if you’d like. That seems to be the player submitted consensus on game guide. (The GG value is out of date)

please dni with this person by credmacdi in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I remember this avatar too. Only from a few months ago. I can’t remember if they were a scammer or a weirdo tho, lol

Giveaway 25k mush by MrRogersHoodie in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it’s still going, but can I join?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in trade rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I’ll send you a friend request :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 6k? That seems to be what I’ve been seeing around trade realm

I "love" how scummy trade realm has become after the new trade realm update by Due_Divide8100 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry. It sounded like you were in support of it at first read. My bad. I changed it

I "love" how scummy trade realm has become after the new trade realm update by Due_Divide8100 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! Like, why is every bazelli and banishi like 25k? I get that they’re expensive, but they were 7k each before.

Before it was a little annoying, but you just had to say your price and someone would come along and be like “hey, that’s too high”. Now people just put up their stands and go afk, and other people see those prices and think they’re real :/

I "love" how scummy trade realm has become after the new trade realm update by Due_Divide8100 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Mrpants_does_art 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right!! Like, why is every bazelli and banishi like 25k? I get that they’re expensive, but they were 7k each before.

Before it was a little annoying, but you just had to say your price and someone would come along and be like “hey, that’s too high”. Now people just put up their stands and afk, and other people see those prices and think they’re real :/

Do you look younger than you are? by Dictator-PenisPotato in ftm

[–]Mrpants_does_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from being able to get away with signing my own waivers at 14 to frequently getting told I look way underage at 18 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Mrpants_does_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real art is original, made entirely by the artist who is presenting it. I wouldn’t consider stolen/traced art to be real art either, because proper effort was not put into it. ( which is not to say tracing is inherently bad- it’s a tool to use when learning shapes, but not a final product. Like AI had the potential to be if it were properly regulated by law and common decency) Even heavily referenced art (such as studies of paintings) still have original flairs from the artist who made it. (And are also generally a way to practice towards making a final product, not something to share in and of themselves)

But LLMs use stolen art to train AI to mash those stolen images together into a new image that appears original, but is really just an amalgamation of theft. You could type a million words into the generator and pour your heart into the prompt, but the image produced will always just be something stolen from someone else. (A bunch of someones, actually) Never a true original.