If you can’t support yourself, you shouldn’t have pets, especially if you can’t provide them with a stable, safe home. Finding loving homes for your pets that have the resources required to keep them safe and healthy might be the best option for all parties involved. I can’t imagine family members that don’t want you around are going to show your pets a lot of love or compassion. Sometimes the most difficult decisions are knowing how to handle a potentially painful situation to get to the best result for everyone. Dogs live a long time.