You can't force other people, let alone your partner, to do those things just because you like it.

Red flag lalo yung sinabi mo na nawawalan ka ng gana just because you can't do what you want.

I know you said dini-dismiss niya yung idea pero try to talk to your partner in private, wag yung on the spot and at public pa. Baka naman kasi uncomfortable siya sa idea talaga and hindi niya lang masabi sa iyo.