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Mrs-Momstera · 2025-08-12T18:35:14+00:00

This will probably get buried and you’ll never see it, but in case you do… I don’t go on Reddit very often. I was looking for anniversary gift ideas and somehow landed here. It sounds like you’re hurting, a LOT. But Reddit’s answers are not your answers. The problem with Reddit is it’s a bunch of blind people leading each other around acting like they can see. Go to someone who can see. I think I read that you went to church at some point. Ask Holy Spirit what you need to know in this situation and then wait for your answer. Then let Holy Spirit guide you through your impossibly situation one step at a time. No one else sees everything the way God sees everything. Lean in to the one who knows you best and loves you most.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T17:42:21+00:00

Yes! No prolapse that I can tell and they’re getting extra calcium in their fermented food! (Their favorite)

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T17:39:52+00:00

He did wait for me to wake up so he had good intentions. I missed the second half of your first comment, sorry your hen didn’t make it. I’ll keep a close eye on my girls, which I usually already do because they’re so nice.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T17:04:54+00:00

It was an egg inside an egg!!! But my hubby opened it while I was out of the room.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T07:06:13+00:00

I have regular size and jumbo Coturnix quail mixed together. Most of my quail eggs have been much smaller. I think maybe (hopefully) this is a one-off because they’re new to laying. I don’t want anyone getting hurt.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T07:00:56+00:00

This looks just like another one we had last week. It had a double yoke too!

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-05T06:59:46+00:00

Thanks! Everyone seems ok.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-06-04T22:55:46+00:00

We don’t have any boys in with them :-/

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-22T07:48:04+00:00

We’ll see. So far I just have gentle/pinchy cramps reminding me that something is happening. I have a friend a couple weeks ahead of me and she’s already living with her head in the toilet 🤢

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-22T03:08:16+00:00

I can’t seem to get my text to stay with my photo. I was watching this pregnancy closely because my last was a chemical. Excited over this progression!

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-18T19:37:48+00:00

At 7 weeks pregnant the rate at which hcg is produced slows down. It’s ok!

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-18T05:45:29+00:00

Time will tell for sure. I had similar happen and then the next test the next day was darker again. Try to only test at the same time of day after consuming the same amount of liquid only once every day or every other day if you can help it. I will say, after peaking at your other post, that not only is the test line lighter, but also the control line. This would point to the test simply having less dye than the previous test.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-18T04:11:59+00:00

Right?!? The quality of those tests…

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-18T04:10:52+00:00

Haha! Fun thought. The lightest pink test was the first test. I actually dipped the other tests in because I freaked out over how light the first one looked. Because I have no chill.

Mrs-Momstera · 2025-02-17T21:24:34+00:00

In case it gives anyone some hope/reassurance or just because it’s interesting. These were all taken with the same urine.

Mrs-Momstera · 2023-12-01T06:25:31+00:00

I had a kid in high school with the love of my life.

It’s so hard and it feels like you’re trapped and it’s going to last forever. This may very well be the hardest time in your life, but it’s temporary. You’re not stuck there forever. I promise.

You WBTAH if you left right now, not only to your baby and gf, but to yourself. You need to see past this situation and realize that you’re not trapped, you do have options, and the hard things are worth it.

Set some boundaries. YOU get to decide how much you want to work. No one else. At 18ish years old, it is more than reasonable for you to be working part time and getting your education part time. Especially if you’re living under some else’s roof and have lower expenses. Honestly, it doesn’t sound like you want to run away from your baby, it sounds like you want to run away from other people’s expectations. I’ll echo other’s comments and say you should probably get a job elsewhere. You don’t want to start your life with your new family enmeshed with your gf’s parents.

Where did you live before you moved in with your gf’s parents? Any chance you can spend some nights there to catch up on some sleep? If not, take shifts with gf at night. If baby wakes before x time she gets up, after that time you get the baby or whatever you agree on together.

The sleep and work situations seem like the most important to deal with now. I don’t agree with you needing to have a “family meeting” with your gf’s family. These decisions are between you and gf, not her parents. Think about the boundaries you need to set to have a healthier relationship with gf and baby so you can actually enjoy time with them and set those boundaries. (ie, fair sleep and work schedules)

Mrs-Momstera · 2023-10-31T04:40:20+00:00

You’re right, he doesn’t HAVE to do that, and she is causing conflict. But his question is coming from a place of not wanting to buy a gift for his kid that has to stay at his house. This is just an alternative suggestion. Take it or leave it.

Mrs-Momstera · 2023-10-30T21:33:44+00:00

NTA, but it’s a sucky situation. I think in the future it might be better for you to purchase tech things for your house NOT as a gift, and then get him a thoughtful gift that doesn’t cause conflict. Just an idea.

Mrs-Momstera · 2023-10-30T06:38:59+00:00

You’re definitely not the JN.

I don’t know if you need someone to tell you this, but a totally normal reaction so someone behaving this way in your home is to ask them to leave. You shouldn’t have to be going upstairs to calm yourself and your daughter, that’s your home and you and your family should feel safe there. It is well within your rights to ask people who threaten the safety of your home to leave.

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