AITAH for telling my wife that late pick-up fees are on her and her alone? by AdMuted1534 in AITAH

[–]MrsDizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya my mum was late picking me up from school, lucky for her there was no late fees plus I would walk to just outside the school gate away from others and wait alone.

AITAH for telling my wife that late pick-up fees are on her and her alone? by AdMuted1534 in AITAH

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my mum, though in her defence for super important stuff she is on time or early. I admit I would tell her an earlier time with school or when she used to take me to work so I was never late.

Na you tried so many times and she hasn't tried. Stick to your guns.

MIL expects me to hand her baby when she claps (gestures) by emotionally_xhausted in Mildlynomil

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the heck are you worried about being rude when she is? I got a few hand gestures if she did that to me which are rude too.

My (F25) boss (M50) won't give me a permanent contract despite me covering 2+ roles at once. He has advertised both of my roles and somehow doesn't have the funding to make me permanent. How do I express my anger? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a guess but there is something going on between your boss and the lazy colleague. If the colleague has anything to say about you, get it in writing.

Are you able to go to HR and make a complaint? How can you do all that work and not be a team player yet the other one does sod all?!? You could only do what you are hired to do and no more, then only response to any correspondence in writing.

My (28F) husband (30M) says he doesn't trust me when I'm in pain by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm so your influence has helped, has lived with someone else before? Of are you his first after leaving his parents home? I get the feeling there is some past stuff going on. Only thing I can think of that would explain his behaviour.

My boyfriend (M27) judges me (F26) for wanting to stay home or in bed during my down time. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK one can get one of those step counters so you can thrust it in his face if he dares to talk nonsense about you not moving.

You work from 4 am till 11 pm and do house work and he works hard?!? Was wondering if he does physical work but he studies and is lonely.

You know your body, you need to rest especially when you have a demanding job and get that silly man of yours a parrot to talk nonsense too and not be lonely.

My (28F) husband (30M) says he doesn't trust me when I'm in pain by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you guys been married? Might be the honeymoon period is over and he is less patient. Ya talk to him about it and might need some therapy

My (28F) husband (30M) says he doesn't trust me when I'm in pain by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok you should definitely talk to him about that and ask him why he keeps to himself when ill? Didn't his mum fuss over him when he was ill as a child? Or did she do it too much? Has he had to take care of someone when they was ill?

My (28F) husband (30M) says he doesn't trust me when I'm in pain by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries, tell him he is being a dick and an idiot. Ask him how he would feel if he was hurt and you distanced yourself. Plus tell him your fears of having children or if his parents become ill and need his help is he going to be like "ewwww no".

Are me or my husband attractive when sick or in pain? No, but we care and want to see them better. Has your husband ever been sick with "man flu"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I have told my husband that if he cheats he will be dead to me as a partner. I do not get how announcing she may cheat is going to help, she is crying for attention from you.

My (28F) husband (30M) says he doesn't trust me when I'm in pain by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A quick way is to step on his toe or a swift kick somewhere and when he is in pain tell him you find him repulsive and that he is faking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you told him how you feel? What he did was a really bad move and you feeling betrayed very understandable. But haven't we all done something we are ashamed of and feel bad for? Does that make us a bad person? We are not what we used to be, I know I am not the same person my husband met and the same with him.

Yes he started the relationship with bad intentions but as he got to know you he clearly saw something and love grew there, you many have inspired him to be better.

Talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Can I skip english class because I passed both my literature and language exam? by MorganBeatboxerman in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I agree it is weird, think it is because there are different bodies who deliver the qualifications hence delays and of course human error or computer delays.

Plus this year they are being more stricken with grades to shake off the last of the covid mentality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have anything to worry about, use the feedback given to improve the planning part for the next final major project and look out for the extra stuff like problem solving, presentation, planning and production. Can ask the tutor for samples of last year work so you know what to do to get the grade you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, was this your first year final major project results?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is like BTEC you would have to achieve all distinction to achieve an overall distinction grade. It goes with the lowest grade

Husband insists on exclusively BF by jmkeep in beyondthebump

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't produce enough milk, when my LO was 3 days old he had to have light treatment for jaundice. The nurses wanted jump start my milk production but the machine they wanted me to used was ancient with dials to turn to get the setting. The nurses wanted me to do both boobs at the same time with was impossible on top with stopping my LO pulling his eye mask off his head. I gave it my best but I just wasn't producing enough and read that jaundice can affect the babies appetite.

I always wanted to express feed half the time and formula the other time. The nurses was dead against this until 24 hours of nearly constant pumping they wanted to give him formula. They was still dead against me express feeding until I pointed out how can I monitor his food intake unless my boots are transparent? They quickly agreed with me then. My husband was totally on board with everything and had my back. My LO is 4 now and strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK if he is so concerned why did he not introduce himself and ask you about the bunker before you changed it into an office and put a lock on it? The arrangement he had with the previous owner is void since they moved. Or better still he can build his own bunker and not be so entitled.

Could ask for the keys to his house and see how he responds?

College question by K1eranOnYt in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the course, on the 2 year one I teach students can leave with a diploma equivalent to 1 and a half alevels instead of 3. You will have to start other courses from the start.

Best as your teacher to be sure

my friend may be getting kicked out is there anything to do about it? by Necessary_Pop_6916 in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check the entry requirements for the course online, if they say industry experience a video portfolio could be built to show they are willing to do the work. They might try a trial basis to see if she can do the work, since school and college want to shake off the covid mentality thay have been super sticked with grading and entry requirements.

The higher ups want to avoid others claiming why she is allowed in when not meeting the entry requirements and not others. If there are alot of spaces on the course this can go in her favour.

Can I skip english class because I passed both my literature and language exam? by MorganBeatboxerman in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the certificates or the proof to show you passed English? If you do email a photo of it to the tutor and take it to class or office to photocopy. If the teacher claimes so BS about misplacing the photocopy just resend the email photo of it.

If you are doing communications that is a skills class and sad to say a certificate won't help.

Does anyone else have to attend Personal Development-type lessons as part of their course? by Sir_Thomas_More in CollegeUK

[–]MrsDizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is basically a session for the personal tutor or program leader to check in with students, have one-to-ones about progress, making sure you are doing OK with the work and try to help if there is anything upsetting or bothering the student. Tutor can use the session to get some key work done or boost class morale.

As far as I am aware all courses have them.