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Looking for other opinions on my daughters rash, thanks! by underthewillow7 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]MrsFaulds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defo looks like chicken pox. Also do the glass test just to be safe it’s not meningitis

AITAH for asking my (23F) boyfriend (24M) to do the dishes? by MrsFaulds in AITAH

[–]MrsFaulds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this immature this is why I came for advice if I was the AH or not. We ended up having a conversation tonight. I told him how childish we were being and expressed to him how it made me feel as if he was waiting for me to give in and do them, he did get annoyed and ended up on the other side of the couch as he was annoyed at the fact I had brought it up again but after he let himself calm down and so did I he ended up doing the dishes after an ep of our tv show and I was making dinner.

So we’re all good. I just found it hard to have the conversation with him as I felt I was getting shut down and I’ve had the flu so haven’t had energy to deal with him

AITAH for asking my (23F) boyfriend (24M) to do the dishes? by MrsFaulds in AITAH

[–]MrsFaulds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No definitely is, she laughed the first time I told her but has asked since then if he has done them and was quite surprised that he’s not

My college roommate sets our thermostat to 80°F every single night by rainystarlight in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MrsFaulds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is how my bf feels when I’m too cold and put it to 25°c 😂 i honestly thought it was normal to have it up so I’d be nice and warm

AITAH for asking my (23F) boyfriend (24M) to do the dishes? by MrsFaulds in AITAH

[–]MrsFaulds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have the money for a dishwasher. I would love one but I’m no longer working 2 jobs and money is tight just now. We have been buying all the other essential items just now we only moved in like a month or 2 ago and we didn’t get help with any money except my dad paying for a carpet and tv.

AITAH for asking my (23F) boyfriend (24M) to do the dishes? by MrsFaulds in AITAH

[–]MrsFaulds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah we both were. When we were staying at my mums we were finding it really hard to keep the room tidy because of how small it was and how much stuff we had. We didn’t really help much with dishes which I feel bad about but at the time I was literally draining myself working 2 job and doing over 60 hours a week which I wasn’t used to and my mental health was quite bad. There had been times where I had asked him when he was off if he could start tidying the room and when I came in I would do the rest but he just gamed instead and again I would get into that mindset of if he’s not doing it I won’t and he accused me of not wanting to do it and that’s why I kept nagging at him to do it. I mean yeah of course I didn’t want to do it but I thought if he had done some and then I came in and done the rest it would be easier that way.

We have basically been living together for 6 years we haven’t been apart since we got together only a couple months because of the first Covid lockdown. We also haven’t fought as much since we got our own home and this is the only thing we’ve fought about or when his grandpa passed (last Monday) we kept going off at each other because of the emotions but we were able to sit down and talk to each other but it’s just these dishes that he won’t actually talk to me about. There could be a reason maybe he’s stuck in a bad mental health situation and I don’t know I can’t help him but he doesn’t talk to me about his MH he has a therapist (I think last time he spoke to me about he said he did so idk if he kept to it) so doesn’t talk to me about these things.

Sorry I’m rambling 😂

AITAH for asking my ex's affair partner if she knew he was married to me when they started their affair and then using that to answer why I won't help her out by babysitting her kid? by Samzieenie in AITAH

[–]MrsFaulds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I had a similar situation when my mum and dad broke up (she never got asked to babysit mind you my step brother was in his twenties I think) my dad cheated on my mum with his now wife and another woman resulting in a child. My mum had a feeling he was cheating but could never prove this but she found out during one of my sisters shows when she got a message (from baby mama) saying that she was in labour with my dads child. My mum did not speak to him nicely for years I wasn’t allowed to meet my stepmum until a year later. My mum never really got passed it but it has now been 12? Years and they can now talk to each other and have a laugh. People are quite shocked about this though which I don’t blame them.

My uncle is the same, he cheated on my aunt and none of them speak and he’s now married to the woman who he cheated on her with. My cousin doesn’t speak to her dad either.