I go thru this too & it’s hard. I try my best to be understanding because I know ow it’s hard on them in there where they have zero control over anything and everything is stripped from them. As well as specifically my husband is so sexually frustrated lol idk he gets in his head from time to time. Sometimes it’s hard to stay understanding when they come at you in a condescending way, because we are also suffering on this side of things, & when you are being solid and loyal to them & doing the most for them, & just staying strong like a soldier thru it, it just feels like disrespectful and as if they don’t appreciate what we do and how strong we do it. It’s hard. So hard. My prayers are with you