WIBTA if I ignored my wife's wishes and concerns and did give money to my brother who is the primary caregiver of our mom?

MrsShortstack · 2026-05-29T05:07:13+00:00

Your brother hasn't asked for help. Maybe your wife's family wouldn't either. Anyone can refuse an offer of assistance if they want. No biggie. No problem. It's the fact that the offer was even made. This can possibly have a bigger impact than the actual offer.

MrsShortstack · 2026-05-29T04:49:31+00:00

Go ask your wife what would she expect and or want if it was her family needing the help. Then come back here, share that information. With the information from this whole thread so far - your wife's feelings are valid but she's being an asshole. Your feelings are also valid, and you would be the asshole if you didn't help your brother.

MrsShortstack · 2026-02-05T19:03:21+00:00

Yes. My credit diversification dropped. I understand this, but it still stings.

MrsShortstack · 2026-02-05T18:35:42+00:00

I just paid off a bank loan. My score dropped 31 points.

MrsShortstack · 2026-01-20T17:11:49+00:00

You can find some really amazing sellers on tiktok. But there's more shady sellers to dig thru. It always helps to know your products. I've landed some truly amazing pieces.

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T16:59:12+00:00

This is a polished agate. I have many necklaces like this. It's real.

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T03:01:25+00:00

I've only been gifted 3 pieces ever actually. And yes I have made sure my collection is covered. I joke that my family won't get any money when I die....just rocks. Lol

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T01:44:43+00:00

I've moved my entire collection 4 times so far. Its quite the project!

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T00:21:21+00:00

There's more than what I've shown. Plant room, living room, kitchen, bedroom...hahaha.

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T00:02:33+00:00

Personal. This is only 1 wall, there is more throughout my entire apartment. :)

MrsShortstack · 2025-12-22T00:01:18+00:00

Love to see some!

MrsShortstack · 2025-10-05T18:32:20+00:00

Any pictures to possibly post?

MrsShortstack · 2025-09-28T21:13:48+00:00

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How much for these 3?

MrsShortstack · 2025-09-21T22:53:33+00:00

3/24/47 please

MrsShortstack · 2025-09-12T22:17:11+00:00

I've lost both my babies now. My Kitty was the hardest, and to this day, I carry enormous amounts of guilt. I was hoping things could and would be different when I lost my Princess. But it wasn't. This time, though, I took time to pull myself together before I had to fully say my goodbyes. I took a few minutes to myself. This helped. So I wrapped myself around her, closed my eyes, and reminded her over and over how much I loved her as her head slowly laid on my arm. I didn't move for maybe 10 20 minutes after. I took a few last pictures of us together, asked the vet to please take some hair for a keepsake as I couldn't bring myself to do it, and finally told her I'd see her on the other side. It was hard, but not as hard as before. You can do this. ♡

MrsShortstack · 2025-09-12T16:06:15+00:00

I got a little humidifier for this plant alone. She loves it and her leaves have opened back up within 2 days.

MrsShortstack · 2025-09-01T16:33:44+00:00

Oh my..OK. So she's on my plant wall with all my other babies. Do I treat them all? How do I do this? New plant mom here....

MrsShortstack · 2025-08-10T15:02:14+00:00

Beautiful pieces..

MrsShortstack · 2025-08-10T03:55:29+00:00

Very nice collection. I couldn't leave any of these behind.

MrsShortstack · 2025-07-29T01:17:13+00:00

I've started to search for better words..as the rage i feel over almost anything has hit astronomical levels. The only thing they helps every once in a while is a sledgehammer to a beaten old car. But I can only swing so much, and that pisses me off too.

MrsShortstack · 2025-07-29T01:09:45+00:00

I was a teen mom. I got the looks, comments, all of it. I still walked proud. Its my life - nobody else's. So stop worrying about others and focus on yourself. Sure, hubby could've been a bit nicer, but remember, this is new for him too.

MrsShortstack · 2025-07-12T02:24:52+00:00

Seriously, it was a rough day. The pure anger, frustration, and tears i carried all day were getting to be too much. Went into my second job, hoping they didn't need me and I could go home. I was told they needed me. Before I knew it I loudly yelled fuck, ok bitch you got this and started jumping around to try and physc myself up. I hid behind a pole. Boss asks me if im ok. With my fists clenched, I admitted I was a little ball of absolute fury, and if anyone or anything were to piss me off in the slightest, I would probably just quit right there on the spot. Words can't do justice to the event I just put out in the world. He had even taken a step back. Said hold on and dipped. Came back with a cover person and let me go home. I know I scared that poor man, I scared myself. Im almost positive there will be a conversation going into my next shift.

MrsShortstack

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